mukunda1 Posted July 28, 2014 Report Posted July 28, 2014 ikkda veyyi pinni....anni sadavali ante kastam velli vethukko aththayya......khaaleega unnavu gaa.......
dkchinnari Posted July 28, 2014 Report Posted July 28, 2014 velli vethukko aththayya......khaaleega unnavu gaa....... chusa athayya...caste age details lev,.how yaa
mukunda1 Posted July 28, 2014 Report Posted July 28, 2014 chusa athayya...caste age details lev,.how yaa avanni ivvalante idemaina telugumatrimony anukunnava aththyya..
dkchinnari Posted July 28, 2014 Report Posted July 28, 2014 avanni ivvalante idemaina telugumatrimony anukunnava aththyya.. naa mundhu post chaduvu uncle...manalo evaraina unte ardham chesukoni pelli chesukuntunaru ani
JavaBava Posted July 28, 2014 Report Posted July 28, 2014 edo badhallo unnadu help cheddam ani adigite kuda tappa
jivvakoruchi_burrokobuddi Posted July 28, 2014 Report Posted July 28, 2014 betharu....IIT lo sadivi pellam kosam intha searchingaa.....man i had different opinion on iitians... tammudu , ada qualification cheppindhi enduku ante, konni vunna konnitiki paniki ramu ani cheppadaniki. i could get married when i was in school , i decided not to, so life has its own turns and twists...
Sambadu Posted July 28, 2014 Report Posted July 28, 2014 ee ammailu money mathupadi ela ayaru.. parents happy leka.. vellu ekkada vachi enduko bro.. ela badapetadam mari..
Posaani Posted July 28, 2014 Report Posted July 28, 2014 Don't trust girls, yevado okadni ippatike set chesukoni vuntundi.. Take it easy..
mukunda1 Posted July 28, 2014 Report Posted July 28, 2014 tammudu , ada qualification cheppindhi enduku ante, konni vunna konnitiki paniki ramu ani cheppadaniki. i could get married when i was in school , i decided not to, so life has its own turns and twists... console seyyadam thappa nenu sesedi emi ledu betharu....vidhi mundu andaru head vonchalsinde....kaani oka sinna advice...ammayilu general ga hand lo heaven choopinche vallane ishtapadatharu...so aa angle lo kuda osari try seyi bhayyo..
mukunda1 Posted July 28, 2014 Report Posted July 28, 2014 naa mundhu post chaduvu uncle...manalo evaraina unte ardham chesukoni pelli chesukuntunaru ani aada adigindhi return to india meeda advise adigaru aunty not on proposals...kalladdalu pettukoni choodu aththayya.
jivvakoruchi_burrokobuddi Posted July 28, 2014 Report Posted July 28, 2014 console seyyadam thappa nenu sesedi emi ledu betharu....vidhi mundu andaru head vonchalsinde....kaani oka sinna advice...ammayilu general ga hand lo heaven choopinche vallane ishtapadatharu...so aa angle lo kuda osari try seyi bhayyo Thanks for your advice, will check that option too
SA77HI Posted July 28, 2014 Report Posted July 28, 2014 my one of the frnd same situation lo undey.. but thanadi 30. 28 nundi started 2 years choosaru inka labham ledu ani vacchey annaru... pelli thappadu kabatti inka vellindi.. vellina 6 mnths lo marriage aipoindi ippudu malli back as her husband on H1.. ippudu anthaa cool.. me frnd only 20+ ey antunav kabatti piccha lite...wait cheyamanu intlo vallani oppinchamanu...
ilakatamaflia Posted July 28, 2014 Author Report Posted July 28, 2014 Ikada ki masters chesthaniki vachi vedava veshalu vese thingara buchi ammaila valla all masters girls get blamed . General ga ikada masters chesina ammai ante - ani chedda alavatlu unnai ani mana valla feeling. Crrct bayya!! Aa aammayin ade anttundhi andaru ala ela untaru ani .. Sincerly she opted for higher studies.. Middle class family .. Education meedha manchi repect undhi valla family lo ..valla Parents bcz of their financial situation couldnt make it to grads but are minimal educated .
ilakatamaflia Posted July 28, 2014 Author Report Posted July 28, 2014 I give the experiences i came across , 1. A girl only child, finished PHD and postdoc here in US. Her thread has run more then 100 pages in R2Iclubforums. She was 32 years when she finished her education. She failed to find a groom, to please her parents returned to India. Found 40,000 rupees job in Bangalore. She can easily earn 150K+ heare. Parents live in Pune. when the thread finished she was 34. Don't know she got married or not. Neither living with parents nor found a match. 2. A girl @30, whose parents are separated ,Working on H1 in US. failing to find a match. Most of the groom and his parents need a beautiful bride from a respectable family. She rejected me, never got to know what is the reason. 3.Iam IITian, parents are divorced . failing to find a bride. I know my limitations, Only way i can get married is only to find a independent girl with liberal values, and has a heart to convince her parents , she will be happy and not making a mistake in marrying me. Everyone has to understand their sacrifice when making their moves. One important thing with women's body chemistry. Everyone reach puberty at early teens but Estrogen levels are very high in late 20's to early 30's. Women's body want to make babies so this period is very crucial. coming to your friend 1. How many matches did she see. 2. Did she analysed, why she rejected the grooms or matches (what sacrifices she could not commit to), and why she was rejected. 3. What chances she has, if she goes back to India. 4. I read R2Iclubforums when ever i get free time in office, ( unlucky fellow, every entertainment on web is blocked in office ). Many say, commute is hard, office politics etc.. if she wants to work in India, she has to consider this too. 5. what are her chances , if she wants to return to America. 6. She need to understand that, being married is not important, being part of happy marriage life is important. Good points.. Will talk to her
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