First Time Dabbulu Borrowing From My Bava ( Own Sisters Husband )

[Techie_app]

Hello Friends,

 

Nenu US lo untanu and Life lo first time after 4 years lo maa own bava ( chelli husband ) ki call chesi mohamatam tho naku dabbulu kavali oka 5 lakhs unnaya bava ani adiganu and he is just 1 year elder to me ( 29 years ) and nenu kuda married person ne and  andhulo em undi teesuko pampistha bank deposit chestha ani annadu....Nenu maa intlo cheppale and also maa chelliki kuda cheppaledu kani ekkado mohamatam and chala insecured feeling vasthundi nenu nijam ga thappu chesthunnana Bava dhaggara dabbulu adigi and told him that oka 5 months lo isthanu ani and this is all because of real frustrating financial problems . I need suggestions from all of you...

 

- Did i really do any mistake asking my very own bava and em anna issues vasthaya future lo? 

- He did not ask for any interest nor i said I will give you interest ani. What do you guys think? Nenu voluntary ga adagala 5 months ki interest isthanu ani

- Eavariki cheppaledu and is this good? ala cheppakapothe thappa? also cheppanu, nenu intlo kuda eavariki cheppale bava mimalni adiga ani cheppi

- Ila borrow chesthe em ayyina real problems vache chance unda future lo between both the families sister and maa family madya?

- 100% 5 months lope ichesthanu kani ekkado insecure.

- Naku oka image ante great touph ani kaduuu just oka paddathi and India lo family values and respect ani undi....  

- Evaryna na laga teesukunnara and em ayyina issues lantivi vachaya????

 

Friends me time teesukoni me suggestions really matter naku please.. Thanks in advance!

 

 

[DaleSteyn1]

dabbu teeskovadam tappu em kaadhu nuvvu mundh ga adhedho pedha tappu laga feel avvadam manuko dude me chelliki kooda cheppu teesukunna ani whats wrong in it

[bakara]

time ki pay chey..thats it..and help him if u can whn he needs ur assistance..u can tell ur wife or ur family ppl who can understand ur situation

[MathuloMazaaahhh]

me chelliki iate cheppu man..

 

 atleat 70-80 %aina ivvu ichina time frame lo

 

complete 100% ASAP

 

konchem taggi aite untav .. depends on ur rrelation..

 

nothing wrong in taking..tanu appu chesi iste matram  problem

[Chakram12]

nuvu adrustavanthudivi dude, mee bava neku isthunadu :)

 

memu maa bava adagakunda vunte chalu anukuntunam  bye1

[kiladi bullodu]

No man lite

Next time ki alavaatu avthundhi .

Nenu maa Bava Ayethe picha close joint account untundhi oka Sadi strip club lo money ayepothey maa Bava ki call chesa money pampadu picha lite Ivi anni life lo common

[kiran karthik]

there is nothing wrong in borrowing money

bt close relations padavakunda undalante money munde cheppina time lo iste better or correct ga eppudu istavo cheppali adi 1 yr e kani 2 yrs e kaani

okkasari nammakam poyina tharvatha manam em chesina labham undadu

[ImKM]

Family lo ila chinna Chinna adjustments chala vuntai
Its routine don't think much

But make sure u tell ur sis

Interest anedi chala sensitive matter so u don't raise abt it
Ask ur sis for advice

If ur bava is not that guy u takes interest etc. Then gift a good couple watch set for ur sis and bava

[Techie_app]

dabbu teeskovadam tappu em kaadhu nuvvu mundh ga adhedho pedha tappu laga feel avvadam manuko dude me chelliki kooda cheppu teesukunna ani whats wrong in it

Emo Bayya koncham insecure feeling undhi andhuke...

[Techie_app]

Family lo ila chinna Chinna adjustments chala vuntai
Its routine don't think much

But make sure u tell ur sis

Interest anedi chala sensitive matter so u don't raise abt it
Ask ur sis for advice

If ur bava is not that guy u takes interest etc. Then gift a goos couple watch set for ur sis and bava

 

Idea bagundi bayya....

[Techie_app]

there is nothing wrong in borrowing money

bt close relations padavakunda undalante money munde cheppina time lo iste better or correct ga eppudu istavo cheppali adi 1 yr e kani 2 yrs e kaani

okkasari nammakam poyina tharvatha manam em chesina labham undadu

You are right...nenu 5 months lo istha ani cheppina and Interest gurinchi adagale...even he didnt ask anything about it, so nene cheppala ani 

[Techie_app]

No man lite

Next time ki alavaatu avthundhi .

Nenu maa Bava Ayethe picha close joint account untundhi oka Sadi strip club lo money ayepothey maa Bava ki call chesa money pampadu picha lite Ivi anni life lo common

Ne first 2 lines chadivaka inka Strip raledeee Miracle anukuntunna time lo last line ending lo vachesindi....Chala santhosham bayya nuvvu nijam chepthavo phekthavo telidu kani I love u   strip talk.

[JaiHoTelangana]

adagangane paisal ichindu mi bava manchodu ma bava gadu india la oka sari 5000 rs avsaraniki tiskunna malla sava 10gi tiskunnadu 

[Techie_app]

nuvu adrustavanthudivi dude, mee bava neku isthunadu :)

 

memu maa bava adagakunda vunte chalu anukuntunam  bye1

 

Bayya joke chesthunnava nenu serious ga adiga bayyaa,,,,,,,

[Crypto]

Hello Friends,

 

Nenu US lo untanu and Life lo first time after 4 years lo maa own bava ( chelli husband ) ki call chesi mohamatam tho naku dabbulu kavali oka 5 lakhs unnaya bava ani adiganu and he is just 1 year elder to me ( 29 years ) and nenu kuda married person ne and  andhulo em undi teesuko pampistha bank deposit chestha ani annadu....Nenu maa intlo cheppale and also maa chelliki kuda cheppaledu kani ekkado mohamatam and chala insecured feeling vasthundi nenu nijam ga thappu chesthunnana Bava dhaggara dabbulu adigi and told him that oka 5 months lo isthanu ani and this is all because of real frustrating financial problems . I need suggestions from all of you...

 

- Did i really do any mistake asking my very own bava and em anna issues vasthaya future lo? 

- He did not ask for any interest nor i said I will give you interest ani. What do you guys think? Nenu voluntary ga adagala 5 months ki interest isthanu ani

- Eavariki cheppaledu and is this good? ala cheppakapothe thappa? also cheppanu, nenu intlo kuda eavariki cheppale bava mimalni adiga ani cheppi

- Ila borrow chesthe em ayyina real problems vache chance unda future lo between both the families sister and maa family madya?

- 100% 5 months lope ichesthanu kani ekkado insecure.

- Naku oka image ante great touph ani kaduuu just oka paddathi and India lo family values and respect ani undi....  

- Evaryna na laga teesukunnara and em ayyina issues lantivi vachaya????

 

Friends me time teesukoni me suggestions really matter naku please.. Thanks in advance!

 

It is OK to take loan from your Brother-in-law if it is any short term investment purpose in India

But if it for yourself ,you should have explored all options in USA  before asking your brother-in-law (like credit card,personal loans,loans from friends,loan aginst your car,gold or any thing you own or overdraft from bank )

 

The long term implications are: your sister will come to know it and may not feel good as it may effect her self esteem

Generally people back home (your friends and relatives) may have some image about your status (generall feeling about NRI's) that you are doing off well in USA and they can count on you in times of crisis (financial) and knowing that you borrowed from your BIL,they may think that you have some issues in USA (may be you are drowned in debts,have addictions,or with out Job etc) which may impact your character /credibility !

 

[This is my prespective ,if I am in your position and may or may not be in your circumstance- I would rather sell my car or  beg my friends in the worst case rather than even asking my millionaire brother ]