varma84 Posted April 5, 2015 Author Report Posted April 5, 2015 Don't take stress and bring it to your family , if your wife has time to deliver than post pone your parents travel they can come on the last month or just 10 to 15 days before the delivery time Inka look for some other jobs if you feel that ur are not happy in current job will do thx! keeping family out of the loop from my stress job ee time change vadu anukuna after deliver think chesta to move or not.
KillChillPandey Posted April 5, 2015 Report Posted April 5, 2015 Bro you are getting cold feet as every other new parents does.. You are self inflicting yourself with snowball effect.. Don't over think.. People are in worst situations than you and are fighting hard..as someone said 'take one day at a time'.. Everything will be OK! It is tough doing than said but rough road makes good drivers. From one thought of weakness you have created a galaxy of it. Take a deep breath and start fresh.. Find for solutions rather than discussing same problem with friends..
varma84 Posted April 5, 2015 Author Report Posted April 5, 2015 inka "brathuku jatka bandi' fogram ki end board padaledha...? antha esay ga end ithe adhi "brathuku jatka bandi' endhu idhi bro not only my or this issue any issue regarding life
varma84 Posted April 5, 2015 Author Report Posted April 5, 2015 Bro you are getting cold feet as every other new parents does.. You are self inflicting yourself with snowball effect.. Don't over think.. People are in worst situations than you and are fighting hard..as someone said 'take one day at a time'.. Everything will be OK! It is tough doing than said but rough road makes good drivers. From one thought of weakness you have created a galaxy of it. Take a deep breath and start fresh.. Find for solutions rather than discussing same problem with friends.. thx for ur suggestions bro! red 100% aggreed green adhe chestuna but from last 8 years in US i am tired of seeing/facing problems. may be i am seeing in wrong way of life here or people are ignoring because in return they are getting some thing else which i couldn't see it or enjoy it.
KillChillPandey Posted April 5, 2015 Report Posted April 5, 2015 Do some yoga and pray god. Wait for few months. Ayina next month nundi mee vendor dabbulivvakunte kada ivanni. First prime vendor tho or employer tho mellaga adiginchu whats the issue ani. Then dabbulochaka vanni by pass chey. Neekanna ekkuva tentions nakunnay bro. Credit cards tho bratukutunna. And car loan inka ennenno. Entha cheyagalgutamo last minute varaku antha try cheyali, appatiki shani thandavam chesthe inka vellipovadame. Usa lo konni rojulu dabbu sampadistam and malli avi ikkade karchu petti potam, visa system ala design chesaru H1B ki. One main thing is make sure your wife is happy. Menu adey cheppina TS kantey 100 times ekkuva problem lo unnavaaru unnaru. Naku telsina oka senior ki same issue premature baby born aindi 3 months hospital lo pettaru.. Daily hospital office hospital home undedi.. Imagine how tough his life was..India ki kuda vellaleni situation.. Oka vaipu job kspudkovali inko vaipu situations handle cheyyali..parents vacharu..antha 6 months lo dhairyanga face chesadu..
KillChillPandey Posted April 5, 2015 Report Posted April 5, 2015 thx for ur suggestions bro! red 100% aggreed green adhe chestuna but from last 8 years in US i am tired of seeing/facing problems. may be i am seeing in wrong way of life here or people are ignoring because in return they are getting some thing else which i couldn't see it or enjoy it. Mana parents kuda I'm tired inka EE daily job toh ani 1000 times ankoni untaru.. Kani manalni chusi naaku dorkandi na kids ki dorkali ani they continue.. Manam kuda kid kosam adey chestam.. You will also be tired in India too or Europe too.. But you gotta unleash new set of life the moment you are tired..All of this will settle down.. Next 10 months are crucial..ikkada niku decision making chala imp this will change the phase of your family lives. Since I donno your current financial situation and support group in California I cannot comment much on path to be taken. Paisal lekunna support group chala imp USA lo. Try to change job in same place if possible.. You can definitely move until 6 the months of pregnancy. One of my friend moved from Houston to NJ when his wife was 7 months preg. So things are doable konchem jagratha vahinchi new steps veyyali..
KillChillPandey Posted April 5, 2015 Report Posted April 5, 2015 Niku public new new suggestions ichey Kodi no mind confuse avtundi.. More you discuss more scattered your thoughts will be.. Niku vinali ani undedi cheppevarku no prayatnam apavu antey its up to you.. Many have given great suggestions. Try to pick few as per situation.. ' It is definitely worth living in USA ' .. This land gives way many opportunities..we have to grab it fight for it.. Visa issues antava adi eppudu undedi..8 yrs anni face chesi last lo give up cheyyatanikaa??
varma84 Posted April 5, 2015 Author Report Posted April 5, 2015 Mana parents kuda I'm tired inka EE daily job toh ani 1000 times ankoni untaru.. Kani manalni chusi naaku dorkandi na kids ki dorkali ani they continue.. Manam kuda kid kosam adey chestam.. You will also be tired in India too or Europe too.. But you gotta unleash new set of life the moment you are tired..All of this will settle down.. Next 10 months are crucial..ikkada niku decision making chala imp this will change the phase of your family lives. Since I donno your current financial situation and support group in California I cannot comment much on path to be taken. Paisal lekunna support group chala imp USA lo. Try to change job in same place if possible.. You can definitely move until 6 the months of pregnancy. One of my friend moved from Houston to NJ when his wife was 7 months preg. So things are doable konchem jagratha vahinchi new steps veyyali.. ok bro! what ever u said make sense. edo chinna support group vundhi ikkada i dont want to change place now i will be alone there job lekunda if no other option musukoni veltam ippudu choice vundhi kada.
KillChillPandey Posted April 5, 2015 Report Posted April 5, 2015 ok bro! what ever u said make sense. edo chinna support group vundhi ikkada i dont want to change place now i will be alone there job lekunda if no other option musukoni veltam ippudu choice vundhi kada. bay area lo niku inko job dorkestundi try cheste.. Yep definately Last option india always there kada.. All i'm saying is Fight FIght Fight.. India vellaka idle ga kurchunappudu cha tappu chesanu ane feeling eppudu ravodhu mari.. indeed ' I fought as a warrior, so no regrets' ani feel ayyetu life ni choose chesko.. Ikkada andaru cheppindi adey but in a different way.. Repu Kid future lo daddy y you came back Daddy antey answer kuda ready chesko.. evarki Samadhanam ivva akkarley.. just Family.. You are Answerable to your family and the people who helped ya in tough times... Rest of them Ficha lite.
varma84 Posted April 5, 2015 Author Report Posted April 5, 2015 bay area lo niku inko job dorkestundi try cheste.. Yep definately Last option india always there kada.. All i'm saying is Fight FIght Fight.. India vellaka idle ga kurchunappudu cha tappu chesanu ane feeling eppudu ravodhu mari.. indeed ' I fought as a warrior, so no regrets' ani feel ayyetu life ni choose chesko.. Ikkada andaru cheppindi adey but in a different way.. Repu Kid future lo daddy y you came back Daddy antey answer kuda ready chesko.. evarki Samadhanam ivva akkarley.. just Family.. You are Answerable to your family and the people who helped ya in tough times... Rest of them Ficha lite. ok bro! nuvu chepindhi make sense.
Hummer Posted April 5, 2015 Report Posted April 5, 2015 mastaru inka ee thread ltt cheyadam aapu sami.....nekoka dhandam :(
vasu123 Posted April 7, 2015 Report Posted April 7, 2015 it's not worth it man. mana visa status and GC weakness lani advatage theesukoni manalni kooli llaga pani cheyinchi chala mandi dabbulu sampadinchukuntunnaru. this entire usa visa and work process is messed up.
missionxp Posted April 7, 2015 Report Posted April 7, 2015 it's not worth it man. mana visa status and GC weakness lani advatage theesukoni manalni kooli llaga pani cheyinchi chala mandi dabbulu sampadinchukuntunnaru. this entire usa visa and work process is messed up. Mari chala mandhi untunnRu ga bro May be they all found the right balance
vasu123 Posted April 7, 2015 Report Posted April 7, 2015 Chala mandi chasthu bratukutu, minga leka kakkaleka adjust avuthune unnam. Chala mandi wife oka chota hubby oka chota pani chesthu h1 visa badhalu paduthune unnaru. itu H1 pay roll and atu GC filing. Ee h1 ni advantage theesukoni billings thakkuvivvadam and employer vadu cheppindhe vinalani anadam ila ennenno. H1 pi flexibility or GC process lo flexibility ichina life lu easy gane untay. And also employer's pi strict laws and rules undi employee ni baga chusukovalannavi unna bane undedi.
suryausa Posted April 7, 2015 Report Posted April 7, 2015 TS starting lo andaru face chestaru just concentrate on your career anni solve avutayi
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