k2s Posted April 3, 2015 Report Share Posted April 3, 2015 Hi, I am writing with a heavy heart. I am an elder sister who pushed my sister to a marriage without her consent. She was very clear that the guy is not her match as she is very modern thinking and guy is very conservative. But I confused her and convinced her about geting married to this guy. The rest of the storyis . No intimacy from his side (emotional or physical) Emotional abuse No love Inferiority complex and very outdated views of the guy ( he doesnt even allow her to talk to other guys) we realised he had impotency issues - it was clear that he is not normal..but we thought its all due to his impotency issues. His parents took him to a doctor and gave some medicines and that day after 3 years, they were able to do ic. Then they started trying for a kid straight away. As he had low sperm count, doctor suggested IVF and she at last delivered 2 kids..during all this time he was extremely non - co operative ..Still she with his parents help somehow managed till there He wanted to stay in a foreign country to pursue his career further..He never allowed her to work. She used to work before marriage- resigned for him.Now after all these, she hoping to get a new life, went with him to a foreign country. He is the same - cold hearted person who doesnt even help her to cary a child when both are crying together, No physical relation - he says we have kids so dont want it anymore I am writing this with heavy heart. I know its all my fault. I should have asked her to divorce him before having kids, but we thought with his medical condition solved , everyting will work well. Now please advise, is it ok to continue in the marraige for the sake of kids.. SHould she come back to India and try to make a life for herself. She doesnt have a job.. Our parents are old. We dont have brothers. Please help us.. We are all at the verge of collapse. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maximus Posted April 3, 2015 Report Share Posted April 3, 2015 antha heavy ayithey gymson mustang thatha ravalsindey.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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STRAWBERRY Posted April 3, 2015 Report Share Posted April 3, 2015 daggarundi life ni sankanakinchi ippudu heavy heart to rasthe em vasthadi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darshwana Posted April 3, 2015 Report Share Posted April 3, 2015 edho genuine issue anukunta... avasarama uncle ikkada? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yuvatha Posted April 3, 2015 Report Share Posted April 3, 2015 Hi, I am writing with a heavy heart. I am an elder sister who pushed my sister to a marriage without her consent. She was very clear that the guy is not her match as she is very modern thinking and guy is very conservative. But I confused her and convinced her about geting married to this guy. The rest of the storyis . No intimacy from his side (emotional or physical) Emotional abuse No love Inferiority complex and very outdated views of the guy ( he doesnt even allow her to talk to other guys) we realised he had impotency issues - it was clear that he is not normal..but we thought its all due to his impotency issues. His parents took him to a doctor and gave some medicines and that day after 3 years, they were able to do ic. Then they started trying for a kid straight away. As he had low sperm count, doctor suggested IVF and she at last delivered 2 kids..during all this time he was extremely non - co operative ..Still she with his parents help somehow managed till there He wanted to stay in a foreign country to pursue his career further..He never allowed her to work. She used to work before marriage- resigned for him.Now after all these, she hoping to get a new life, went with him to a foreign country. He is the same - cold hearted person who doesnt even help her to cary a child when both are crying together, No physical relation - he says we have kids so dont want it anymore I am writing this with heavy heart. I know its all my fault. I should have asked her to divorce him before having kids, but we thought with his medical condition solved , everyting will work well. Now please advise, is it ok to continue in the marraige for the sake of kids.. SHould she come back to India and try to make a life for herself. She doesnt have a job.. Our parents are old. We dont have brothers. Please help us.. We are all at the verge of collapse. ladies ki idi vajrayudham anukuna Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ARYA Posted April 3, 2015 Report Share Posted April 3, 2015 antha heavy ayithey gymson mustang thatha ravalsindey.. :3D_Smiles: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yuvatha Posted April 3, 2015 Report Share Posted April 3, 2015 edho genuine issue anukunta... avasarama uncle ikkada? pani pata lenollu..antha genuine em kanipistundi nek Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k2s Posted April 3, 2015 Author Report Share Posted April 3, 2015 edho genuine issue anukunta... avasarama uncle ikkada? pani pata lenollu..antha genuine em kanipistundi nek Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laila2 Posted April 3, 2015 Report Share Posted April 3, 2015 Conservative traditional families doesn't encourage divorces and chala face cheyali ame so its up to her to stay with him or not ..life is not just about having kids through ivf Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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