Dawn Posted January 4, 2016 Report Posted January 4, 2016 It takes time to come out of it but have courage to face it,one day you will definitely succeed and lead a happy life.
icecreamZ Posted January 4, 2016 Report Posted January 4, 2016 veedilo vesadu first nundi vadu india radu, india vaste arrest chestarani bayam oka white paper theskoni....neku/family ki paruv poyidhi...vellu ala anukuntaru ..ane valla names rasuko. aa list of names ni nijamga nuvvu care chesthava....asalku life lo vallatho enni sarlu interact avuthavo count cheyyi.....( mostly vallu antha neku aath care and life lo vallani impress cheyalsina avsaram neku undadhu) next idhe pani me parent ki cheppu..... inko 10-20 years ila slave laga brathakatam kaavala...leka happy ga respectful ga brathakala ni. ( mostly payina paper exercise tho...vallu kooda realize avvali...ne life and happiness eh priority ani...compared to lokulu and paruvu) now, neku ne life medha entha respect undho calculate chesuko....if you really want yourself respected and to live a happy time, you should never allow anyone to destroy it. next ne hurband medha prema/respect calculate cheyyi. if hubby prema > your respect ; then die as a slave else: kick his butt and live happily ever after. US lo unnav....ee paatiki rtham avvali...personal ga entha life live cheyocho.
Lukewalker Posted January 4, 2016 Report Posted January 4, 2016 nuv deniko hurt ayinattunnav... naku close friends leka kadu chala mandi unnaru .. marital problems intlone solve avvali friends group loki vellakoodadu.. Adi basic rule sorry mama, edho point prove chedhamanukuni mari ekkuva stretch chesa, not to offend you anyways, let's agree to disagree and cheers!!
GunturGongura Posted January 4, 2016 Author Report Posted January 4, 2016 Mee husband wife face to face discuss cheskokunda entidi asahyam ga. Okasari doctor ki chupoinchukondi iddaru or talk with Peddavallu. adrenal gland issues ivi. See a doctor soon. Money petti ms cheyistunnadu Athani paruvu tistunnav. Most of us knows his name. evaru cheyinchamannaru ? money money ani harass chesindi valle…ms cheyistanu inka me ammay ni baga chuskuni tanu, tapaipoindi ani bratilmandi pilpinchukunnadu usa ki, malli hope toh..nenu tanaku helpful ga untundane ms chesanu…earnings but who asked for papers..ma nanna valla amma chetilo pettina katnam and pelli karchullo sagam kuda kadu aa ms fees, ms fees nadi 18 K…which is not even 12 lakhs..and i got sick once after marriage, who took care? my parents hospital karchulu anni now he is telling to everyone ms chadivinchanu ani.. na ms 90% complete ayyaka divorce papers ichadu , which is trap vadilinchukovali easy ga plan chesindi atane, nenem papers ivaledu ataniki…he did that..he was the one doing all ms chadivinchadanta…nenem free ga cheskoledu ….bolledu katnam ichi cheskunna… i am sure u know him….tanaki friends evaru leru except shiva kota
dasara_bullodu Posted January 4, 2016 Report Posted January 4, 2016 sorry mama, edho point prove chedhamanukuni mari ekkuva stretch chesa, not to offend you anyways, let's agree to disagree and cheers!! Cheers
JAMBALHOT_RAJA Posted January 4, 2016 Report Posted January 4, 2016 oka white paper theskoni....neku/family ki paruv poyidhi...vellu ala anukuntaru ..ane valla names rasuko. aa list of names ni nijamga nuvvu care chesthava....asalku life lo vallatho enni sarlu interact avuthavo count cheyyi.....( mostly vallu antha neku aath care and life lo vallani impress cheyalsina avsaram neku undadhu) next idhe pani me parent ki cheppu..... inko 10-20 years ila slave laga brathakatam kaavala...leka happy ga respectful ga brathakala ni. ( mostly payina paper exercise tho...vallu kooda realize avvali...ne life and happiness eh priority ani...compared to lokulu and paruvu) now, neku ne life medha entha respect undho calculate chesuko....if you really want yourself respected and to live a happy time, you should never allow anyone to destroy it. next ne hurband medha prema/respect calculate cheyyi. if hubby prema > your respect ; then die as a slave else: kick his butt and live happily ever after. US lo unnav....ee paatiki rtham avvali...personal ga entha life live cheyocho. chala baga cheppav. GP.
Janaki Posted January 4, 2016 Report Posted January 4, 2016 great but ikda matladkodaniki abbay radu,…ego atani 2 parents,5 sisters valle corect antaru …matladte vanta cheydu , tindi pettadu ani day 1 nundi rumors spread chesaru e abbay ayte marriage ki mundi niku pappu cheydam vaste chalu inka nene manage chesta ani cheppevadu anduke nenu frustration toh oka time lo db lo na vantalu anni post chesedanni My guess you are katnam victim was right
@Shadow@ Posted January 4, 2016 Report Posted January 4, 2016 veedilo vesadu first nundi 5 yrs ayndi marriage ayyi…istam ga cheskunnaru pelli…pelli 10 days anaga ma motherinlaw started shouting and commenting on dowry ..ame adiginavanni ichi chesaru she always hated me due to jealous first nundi….ala iddari madya godavalu…kapuram kuda chesevadu kadu…yepdu abuse and nenu yedustu undedanni ..starting lo nakem ardam ayyedi kadu ..i was 22, maturity kuda ledu naku apdu 1st year nunde divorce ichesta anevadu, usa lo plan chesevadu…intlo ma parents ki cheppi india ala 2 times vachesanu…first nundi inka money vachedi ani , earn cheyatledani … Ive gola…i used to beg him okasaraina matladu ani …he used to get phone calls godava chesevadu..pellaina 5 yrs lo tanu kani tana tarupu vallu kani ma inti vaipu gani ma parents toh matladam kani cheyledu..cut chesesaru i was just slave servant in usa , 2nd time india velnapdu i decided not to return usa…tanaku bayam patkuni case pedtanemo ani usa pilpinchukunnadu bratilmadi then i kept condition that masters or job chestanu, lekapote earn cheyatledu ani gola chestarani kids undalanna thought yepdu ledu …..us lo divorce file cheyalante atleast 6 months ayna aa county lo undali so masters was trap to get me to usa…then naku idea lekunda…2014 lo he started harassing me for divorce..reason adgite cheppevadu kadu enni sarlu bratilmadukunnano aa devudike telsu…enti problem lets sit together and talk ledu..and ma inlaws full encouragement first nundi for separation..vallu first nundi nannu nammaddu ane matalu cheppevallu.. dec 2014 calmga papers ichadu….enti idi ani adigite kopamlo ichanu , cancel chesestanu ani he bluffed me naku exams, projects masters lo …undaleka india vellaleka narakam chusanu apde e db kanpinchindi oka male id dwara na problem post chesanu…that was my first post on harassment …daniki oka id respond ayi pm chesindi..he misguided me , teliyaka i added him on fb and tarvata racha chesadu but idi limit cross aypoindi…ma parents memu adjust avtam paruvu ane chusaru…5 yrs e kupam lo undi undi…at one point nenem chestunnano nake ardam ayyyedi kadu… guttuga undalane ankuntaru evaraina family matters, he made it public from day 1 and i got opened after 4 yrs of marriage ..inka avvadu ani telsaka he has liver related health issues and physically fit kadu, friends kuda leru tanaku closes ones….still undipodam ankunna divorce istam leka but santosham ledu alage harassment and money mongers g, so he planned to divorce in usa, tanu vesindi no fault divorce….which is not valid in india iddaru parents tanaku..who dominates got converted to christianity….and na mida force to get converted…which i hated most 5 adapaduchulu all are 20 to 25 years older to me ..but valianta pettanam and compares me, jealous feel avdam anni kalpi pelli petakulu vadu india radu, india vaste arrest chestarani bayam am sorry good thing - you guys have not planned for kids? bad thing - dont share personal details(name, FB, phobe etc) in public forms better thing - stay saperated for some time (may be with a common family friends or independent), not sure about your visa if F1, benift, as you can work on OPT and can get sponserd by any consultancy Divorce istha antey aypodhu... jamanaa kaalam lo tuglak gallu talaak talaak talaak antey ayyipoyinattu should be mutual, so dont worry- he cant give divorce to you and you have more advantage to fight back as a women Divorce antey alimony ivvaalsi vasthadhi his half salary or property or india lo undaney undhiga gruhahimsa chattam either ways his family will suffer, dont know if he is realizing it or not kontha kaalam dhooram vuntey manchidhi, time will solve most of the issues... in the mean time he may realize or can involve your parents with his or you can live your life happily dont take anyother nasty decisions ...
JAMBALHOT_RAJA Posted January 4, 2016 Report Posted January 4, 2016 My guess you are katnam victim was right
dasara_bullodu Posted January 4, 2016 Report Posted January 4, 2016 have a kid aa ?? em matladutunav uncle... pillalu problem ki solution ela avutadi...come to reality. Hmm... Chepte bagodu kani ade correct solution for mental peace...
JAMBALHOT_RAJA Posted January 4, 2016 Report Posted January 4, 2016 Hmm... Chepte bagodu kani ade correct solution.. ikkada problem mentality kada, adi ela change avutadi with kids ?
dasara_bullodu Posted January 4, 2016 Report Posted January 4, 2016 ikkada problem mentality kada, adi ela change avutadi with kids ? Kids puttaka mentality change auddi, so does life...it is a different thing altogether.. But I dont think TS And hubby are ready to take responsibility...
JAMBALHOT_RAJA Posted January 4, 2016 Report Posted January 4, 2016 Kids puttaka mentality change auddi, so does life...it is a different thing altogether.. But I dont think TS And hubby are ready to take responsibility... hmm.. seems like you got kids. i'm still bachelor so cannot comment on it.
Janaki Posted January 4, 2016 Report Posted January 4, 2016 lets listen her husband version ilantivi okka vaipu Vini cheppakudadu. Nenoka case chusa abbayiki male issue Chala chinnadi society kosam Pelli cheskunnadu cover cheskodam kosam wife ni thittevadu maa nanna garu vanni hyd lo ayurvedam Doctor ki chupincharu vadu physical mental anni rakalu set ayyadu. Wife is happy but a ammaye vanni 6 months chuskundi chinna health issue. Vadu society ki bayapadi mother salahalu Vini kastapaddadu. Palleturlo ilantivi boledu vintam peddavallu guide chese vallu bavunte ivi raavu. Age ki minchi matladanu kani ivi Chala common.
ramudu3 Posted January 4, 2016 Report Posted January 4, 2016 sad to hear your story $s@d veedilo vesadu first nundi 5 yrs ayndi marriage ayyi…istam ga cheskunnaru pelli…pelli 10 days anaga ma motherinlaw started shouting and commenting on dowry ..ame adiginavanni ichi chesaru she always hated me due to jealous first nundi….ala iddari madya godavalu…kapuram kuda chesevadu kadu…yepdu abuse and nenu yedustu undedanni ..starting lo nakem ardam ayyedi kadu ..i was 22, maturity kuda ledu naku apdu 1st year nunde divorce ichesta anevadu, usa lo plan chesevadu…intlo ma parents ki cheppi india ala 2 times vachesanu…first nundi inka money vachedi ani , earn cheyatledani … Ive gola…i used to beg him okasaraina matladu ani …he used to get phone calls godava chesevadu..pellaina 5 yrs lo tanu kani tana tarupu vallu kani ma inti vaipu gani ma parents toh matladam kani cheyledu..cut chesesaru i was just slave servant in usa , 2nd time india velnapdu i decided not to return usa…tanaku bayam patkuni case pedtanemo ani usa pilpinchukunnadu bratilmadi then i kept condition that masters or job chestanu, lekapote earn cheyatledu ani gola chestarani kids undalanna thought yepdu ledu …..us lo divorce file cheyalante atleast 6 months ayna aa county lo undali so masters was trap to get me to usa…then naku idea lekunda…2014 lo he started harassing me for divorce..reason adgite cheppevadu kadu enni sarlu bratilmadukunnano aa devudike telsu…enti problem lets sit together and talk ledu..and ma inlaws full encouragement first nundi for separation..vallu first nundi nannu nammaddu ane matalu cheppevallu.. dec 2014 calmga papers ichadu….enti idi ani adigite kopamlo ichanu , cancel chesestanu ani he bluffed me naku exams, projects masters lo …undaleka india vellaleka narakam chusanu apde e db kanpinchindi oka male id dwara na problem post chesanu…that was my first post on harassment …daniki oka id respond ayi pm chesindi..he misguided me , teliyaka i added him on fb and tarvata racha chesadu but idi limit cross aypoindi…ma parents memu adjust avtam paruvu ane chusaru…5 yrs e kupam lo undi undi…at one point nenem chestunnano nake ardam ayyyedi kadu… guttuga undalane ankuntaru evaraina family matters, he made it public from day 1 and i got opened after 4 yrs of marriage ..inka avvadu ani telsaka he has liver related health issues and physically fit kadu, friends kuda leru tanaku closes ones….still undipodam ankunna divorce istam leka but santosham ledu alage harassment and money mongers g, so he planned to divorce in usa, tanu vesindi no fault divorce….which is not valid in india iddaru parents tanaku..who dominates got converted to christianity….and na mida force to get converted…which i hated most 5 adapaduchulu all are 20 to 25 years older to me ..but valianta pettanam and compares me, jealous feel avdam anni kalpi pelli petakulu vadu india radu, india vaste arrest chestarani bayam
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