Why do we have to pamper kids in US ?

[Feelingbad]

Parents tho, School lo teachers tho ishtam vachinattu vaaguthaaru... Ishtam vachinattu behave chesthaaru.... parents have no right to give punishment... ?

Result : Drugs, crime, teenage pregnancies, late settlement in life etc., 

Chinna vayasu loney kadha anni nerpinchaalsindhi.... vaallaki ishtam lekapoyina konni cheyyinchaali kadha kachithanga ? I somehow feel like indian parenting is better although it has its own set of flaws... 

 

[Feelingbad]

Its not just the skill... its the attitude that makes you better and successful person... 

[rrc_2015]

Just now, Feelingbad said:

Parents tho, School lo teachers tho ishtam vachinattu vaaguthaaru... Ishtam vachinattu behave chesthaaru.... parents have no right to give punishment... ?

Result : Drugs, crime, teenage pregnancies, late settlement in life etc., 

Chinna vayasu loney kadha anni nerpinchaalsindhi.... vaallaki ishtam lekapoyina konni cheyyinchaali kadha kachithanga ? I somehow feel like indian parenting is better although it has its own set of flaws... 

 

@Feelingbad.... don't feel bad

[Feelingbad]

6 minutes ago, rrc_2015 said:

@Feelingbad.... don't feel bad

feeling...felt.... felted... 

 

[bussuboy]

Federal law now allows gentle spanking of kids, so "appudu appudu pirra medha icchuko vacchu"

[VizagRocks]

Children learn a lot from their parents. Simple.

If the parents suck, children will also most likely suck, even if they are disciplined.

 

[Feelingbad]

2 minutes ago, VizagRocks said:

Children learn a lot from their parents. Simple.

If the parents suck, children will also most likely suck, even if they are disciplined.

 

what exactly is that ? you mean genetically or behaviorally 

[stockdazzler]

12 minutes ago, Feelingbad said:

Parents tho, School lo teachers tho ishtam vachinattu vaaguthaaru... Ishtam vachinattu behave chesthaaru.... parents have no right to give punishment... ?

Result : Drugs, crime, teenage pregnancies, late settlement in life etc., 

Chinna vayasu loney kadha anni nerpinchaalsindhi.... vaallaki ishtam lekapoyina konni cheyyinchaali kadha kachithanga ? I somehow feel like indian parenting is better although it has its own set of flaws... 

 

evadu cheppadu vayie istam vacchinnatu vagutharu ani? Its up to the family. I saw both (well behaved / bad) kids in both countries.

plus ikkada aithey entha money unna summer lo internship or some job even restuarant or grocery store lo job chepistaru . responsibilities telsuthayie. India lo chaduvu thappa oka sports kani skill kani responsibility kani most parents nerpincharu.

[Feelingbad]

2 minutes ago, stockdazzler said:

evadu cheppadu vayie istam vacchinnatu vagutharu ani? Its up to the family. I saw both (well behaved / bad) kids in both countries.

plus ikkada aithey entha money unna summer lo internship or some job even restuarant or grocery store lo job chepistaru . responsibilities telsuthayie. India lo chaduvu thappa oka sports kani skill kani responsibility kani most parents nerpincharu.

Neney chaala mandhini choosanu... nuvvu eppudu choodaledhaa... ? I know good and bad is there everywhere.. you don't have to make a generic and neutral statement. its the proportion i am talking about. 

How many children in 7th grade show a middle finger to a class teacher ? How many teenagers say "fcuk" to their parents in india ?

[VizagRocks]

13 minutes ago, Feelingbad said:

what exactly is that ? you mean genetically or behaviorally 

how can someone suck genetically?

being smart is one thing kids develop on their own, and don't inherit from their parents. thank god for that.

[LadiesTailor]

tough topic... globalize chesi cheppalm kani.. some indian kids in US behaviour india nunchi vachina kids kante better ga vuntundi.. i have seen families on both sides... mana kids mana istam bhayya... no parent wants to hurt kids... but limit datinappudu treatment ivvali... debba kottakunda time outs ivvadam lantivi internet cut cheyyadam kitchen lo helping ilantivi chinnapti nunchi alavatu cheste peddayyaka emanna set avutharemo... 

[ramana1212]

23 minutes ago, VizagRocks said:

Children learn a lot from their parents. Simple.

If the parents suck, children will also most likely suck, even if they are disciplined.

 

Paapum nee kids, db lo ne intha sava10ithe real life lo pillala paristhiti...

[VizagRocks]

6 minutes ago, Feelingbad said:

Neney chaala mandhini choosanu... nuvvu eppudu choodaledhaa... ? I know good and bad is there everywhere.. you don't have to make a generic and neutral statement. its the proportion i am talking about. 

How many children in 7th grade show a middle finger to a class teacher ? How many teenagers say "fcuk" to their parents in india ?

 

Saying fcuk, showing middle finger are all okay. That's what the kids deal with everyday in their world. If the parents are so picky about how their kids should grow, they should put them in private school.

Anyway, that has nothing to do with how successful kids will turn out. If the kids are inquisitive, hard working, smart, they'll turn out okay. Who cares if on their way to success, they show a million middle fingers to others.

[VizagRocks]

Just now, ramana1212 said:

Paapum nee kids, db lo ne intha sava10ithe real life lo pillala paristhiti...

hello hutch dog!

Unlike you, I know that I'm an asshole, and I won't have kids.

Think about how your kids will turn out, if you are obsessed about some idiot online.

[Feelingbad]

7 minutes ago, VizagRocks said:

how can someone suck genetically?

being smart is one thing kids develop on their own, and don't inherit from their parents. thank god for that.

Yes witnessed many people ...  bad attitude, negative perception, jealosy, over possessiveness..  few qualities you get by birth. No matter how you mould a person, you cant get rid of these from them...