Need help for friend's divorce

[Odale]

1 hour ago, Pumpachak said:

My friend got married in late 2014, he is a very patient guy. Papam monna taagi open ayyadu evarki cheppuko ledu anta ippati daka. So open ayyaka free ga matladthunnadu natho.

She was studying master's when he married her and now both are working.

Its, Very very sad story, very painful. She is firebrand, humiliates him, veela parents tho she hardly talked for 3-4 times in 3 years. Godava aithe kuda he would be the first person to compromise, starting lo ala alavatu ayindi. Now when he realised her ego, etc and trying to change but she is shouting like anything. She is quite prickly, crabby but this guy is quite personable, friendly.

Ipudu divorce isthanu anna, ivvu nelanti sadist tho kapuram kante nenu vidipotame best. And nenu chustha nuvvu antha easy ga ela thappinchu kontavo ani challenge chesindi. Though both of them are staying in same house, they are hardly talking to each other. Ammai parents are worst, they are provoking her more and more. Abbai parents iddarni mandalinchali ani chusina, she is disrespecting them.

Crux, Does anyone the consequences of filing divorce in usa vs india ? Which is better and recommended. Also, entha karchu aiddi iddarki approximately. As far as alimony is concerned naku ardam aina batti, he spends lot more than her and her salary is more because she made job shifts.

 

Edi recommended and how to approach, where to file. How can he get it smoothly.

 

DB pujyulu, peddalu please help.

Cheppamanu that he has hepatitis and herpes from SC and sorry...she will say too and good

[ICANWIN]

counsel both and try to patch them up. Ni mata vini divorce decision and procedure telusukoni what is best decide chesukunevallu mata kuda ardham chesukoni vintaremo. suggest family counseling too from professional.

[icecreamZ]

9 minutes ago, Odale said:

Cheppamanu that he has hepatitis and herpes from SC and sorry...she will say too and good

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[Idassamed]

10 minutes ago, Odale said:

Cheppamanu that he has hepatitis and herpes from SC and sorry...she will say too and good

Nee post valla we sabhya samajaniki emi message idhamani Odale aka modale baa

[Android_Halwa]

ilanti situations edurainapudu, safeside lo vundadam better...

1. Live on credit cards and do not pay amount in full, save your cash and stash it somewhere but not within your reach, brothers,friends or anyone but not with self or with wife..

2. Paid up property vunte take mortgage. If you drive a car and its paid up, refinance cheynchuko. 

3. India lo property kuda evaraina nammakasthula peru midaki transfer chey, if that property was earned by you, transfer to your parents, and if any property which is held by your parents and earned by your parents, let that property be on their name but do not divide the property among siblings too.

4. Any kind of SAVINGS plan will eventually not be yours if it leads to divorce. 

5. Mee vadu H1b mida vundi employer degara contract chesthe, ask him to only take the pay equal to LCA thapa, ekuva teesukovadhu ani chepu and fivert that money in other ways possible, either towards payment of rent by your employer and then deducted from your paycheck later...ala chesinacho, allowances degara, alimony degara bratikiptav...gaali ki tirige doomaram, dikku leni jeevitham kindaki vastadi, which will benefit you.

Follow these steps, worst case scenario la divorce ayithe, kam se kam paisal anna migultayi...

WARNING : If you (or your friend)'s wife is planning for a divorce, You need to be well ahead of this plan. If you suspect it might happen, reality is it is happening now. These spouses will do everything they can under the carpet and they won't even give you a hint of their activities till you finally get a notice..

so, be careful..do your home work and get ready for the war...ipudu manchiga matladuthu, melli melliga anni sadiresei...and be safe..

pendlam pothe poni...emi cheyalem...pendlam tho patu paisal kuda pothe iga bratikinatte vaya...

[sandie]

2014 ante adjust avvatam alavatu ayyipovali kadha. eppudu endhuku sudden ga e reaction

[vendetta]

1 hour ago, Pumpachak said:

My friend got married in late 2014, he is a very patient guy. Papam monna taagi open ayyadu evarki cheppuko ledu anta ippati daka. So open ayyaka free ga matladthunnadu natho.

She was studying master's when he married her and now both are working.

Its, Very very sad story, very painful. She is firebrand, humiliates him, veela parents tho she hardly talked for 3-4 times in 3 years. Godava aithe kuda he would be the first person to compromise, starting lo ala alavatu ayindi. Now when he realised her ego, etc and trying to change but she is shouting like anything. She is quite prickly, crabby but this guy is quite personable, friendly.

Ipudu divorce isthanu anna, ivvu nelanti sadist tho kapuram kante nenu vidipotame best. And nenu chustha nuvvu antha easy ga ela thappinchu kontavo ani challenge chesindi. Though both of them are staying in same house, they are hardly talking to each other. Ammai parents are worst, they are provoking her more and more. Abbai parents iddarni mandalinchali ani chusina, she is disrespecting them.

Crux, Does anyone the consequences of filing divorce in usa vs india ? Which is better and recommended. Also, entha karchu aiddi iddarki approximately. As far as alimony is concerned naku ardam aina batti, he spends lot more than her and her salary is more because she made job shifts.

 

Edi recommended and how to approach, where to file. How can he get it smoothly.

 

DB pujyulu, peddalu please help.

Ilantivi marriage ayna 3 months lo telcheskunte better

drag chese koddi nastam for guy 

if she is working here .file divorce here 

attorney expenses 8000$ varku avtay per head

marriage duration salary assets batti maintenance n alimony decide chestaru

hire good attorney ,both working kabatti easy ga baytapadtadu 

Ade single earning for long time ayte oka spouse assame

india vaddu India lo chala worst avtadi if she files cases,nee freind case lo best ikde

[Damon]

5 minutes ago, sandie said:

2014 ante adjust avvatam alavatu ayyipovali kadha. eppudu endhuku sudden ga e reaction

Your lips very red @sandie

[krystax_admin]

11 minutes ago, vendetta said:

Ilantivi marriage ayna 3 months lo telcheskunte better

drag chese koddi nastam for guy 

if she is working here .file divorce here 

attorney expenses 8000$ varku avtay per head

marriage duration salary assets batti maintenance n alimony decide chestaru

hire good attorney ,both working kabatti easy ga baytapadtadu 

Ade single earning for long time ayte oka spouse assame

india vaddu India lo chala worst avtadi if she files cases,nee freind case lo best ikde

+ two bitcoins. Good  suggestion.

[Odale]

17 minutes ago, Idassamed said:

Nee post valla we sabhya samajaniki emi message idhamani Odale aka modale baa

Aku is not fooku ani

[Bathai_Babji]

2 hours ago, Pumpachak said:

My friend got married in late 2014, he is a very patient guy. Papam monna taagi open ayyadu evarki cheppuko ledu anta ippati daka. So open ayyaka free ga matladthunnadu natho.

She was studying master's when he married her and now both are working.

Its, Very very sad story, very painful. She is firebrand, humiliates him, veela parents tho she hardly talked for 3-4 times in 3 years. Godava aithe kuda he would be the first person to compromise, starting lo ala alavatu ayindi. Now when he realised her ego, etc and trying to change but she is shouting like anything. She is quite prickly, crabby but this guy is quite personable, friendly.

Ipudu divorce isthanu anna, ivvu nelanti sadist tho kapuram kante nenu vidipotame best. And nenu chustha nuvvu antha easy ga ela thappinchu kontavo ani challenge chesindi. Though both of them are staying in same house, they are hardly talking to each other. Ammai parents are worst, they are provoking her more and more. Abbai parents iddarni mandalinchali ani chusina, she is disrespecting them.

Crux, Does anyone the consequences of filing divorce in usa vs india ? Which is better and recommended. Also, entha karchu aiddi iddarki approximately. As far as alimony is concerned naku ardam aina batti, he spends lot more than her and her salary is more because she made job shifts.

 

Edi recommended and how to approach, where to file. How can he get it smoothly.

 

DB pujyulu, peddalu please help.

 

1 hour ago, k2s said:

#MyChoice 

 

1 hour ago, ram4a said:

mostly EGO issues... 

Husband Version - Identi maa intlo maa mummy Maa Daddy edi chepte adi vinedhi....Na pellam enti M bhi inatle. Mastu pogaru deeniki

Wife Version - Maa Dad entha baga chuskunaru, Na ex- Suresh,Veeresh,Venkatesh,Mallesh,Boopesh,Pookesh andaru Cho chweeet Anni panullu chese vaalu naaku eppudu No chepe vaalu kaadu. Veedu enti intha demanding ga unnadu....Assalu Veediki nenu chala ekkuva ani feeling.

I Agree

Every Divorce story has 3 corners
1. Boy's version
2. Girl's version
3. What exactly happened.

If you know all three versions then you are eligilble to give judgement.

[Bangaruu]

23 minutes ago, ICANWIN said:

counsel both and try to patch them up. Ni mata vini divorce decision and procedure telusukoni what is best decide chesukunevallu mata kuda ardham chesukoni vintaremo. suggest family counseling too from professional.

matladu 

[Idassamed]

5 minutes ago, Odale said:

Aku is not fooku ani

But the guy became aaku no

[LocalFullMoon]

2 hours ago, Pumpachak said:

My friend got married in late 2014, he is a very patient guy. Papam monna taagi open ayyadu evarki cheppuko ledu anta ippati daka. So open ayyaka free ga matladthunnadu natho.

She was studying master's when he married her and now both are working.

Its, Very very sad story, very painful. She is firebrand, humiliates him, veela parents tho she hardly talked for 3-4 times in 3 years. Godava aithe kuda he would be the first person to compromise, starting lo ala alavatu ayindi. Now when he realised her ego, etc and trying to change but she is shouting like anything. She is quite prickly, crabby but this guy is quite personable, friendly.

Ipudu divorce isthanu anna, ivvu nelanti sadist tho kapuram kante nenu vidipotame best. And nenu chustha nuvvu antha easy ga ela thappinchu kontavo ani challenge chesindi. Though both of them are staying in same house, they are hardly talking to each other. Ammai parents are worst, they are provoking her more and more. Abbai parents iddarni mandalinchali ani chusina, she is disrespecting them.

Crux, Does anyone the consequences of filing divorce in usa vs india ? Which is better and recommended. Also, entha karchu aiddi iddarki approximately. As far as alimony is concerned naku ardam aina batti, he spends lot more than her and her salary is more because she made job shifts.

 

Edi recommended and how to approach, where to file. How can he get it smoothly.

 

DB pujyulu, peddalu please help.

  @vendetta help

[LocalFullMoon]

2 hours ago, ranjith_samajaism said:

onlly samaja anna can solve this @samaja_varagamana

@JaiSamajaISM