Android_Halwa Posted November 9, 2017 Report Share Posted November 9, 2017 8 hours ago, katie497 said: Hi, ee forum regular ga watch chesthuntanu. ee post ki reason entante naku mee andari support and criticism ( need more of this) kavali. Im unable to get over few thoughts, but before I get to this let me introduce myself. exactly 15 months aindi US vachi, got married to a guy 8 years older to me, 1 month lo parents pelli fix chesaru. intial ga antha bagundi, trips, restaurants , konni families tho parties (who pretend to be friends)etc. 12 months aindi and then everything became boring and routine. I know its normal and then naa issues start ayyayi ( mostly with in my brain ) no complaints with my spouse. He is noraml ( chala reserved , friendly but not friendly, controlling but not controlling, may be we should call him more balanced, not outgoing at all, doesnt like talking to new people, prefers staying at home rather than talking to people ), kani naake depression laga start aindi, Back at home I had a few close friends who were there for me always , when ever I felt sad, alone I used to share my thoughts ala oka mini counselling ayyedi, kani nenu ikkadiki move ayyaka everyone got so busy ( may be with their husbands, planning for kids etc) and all of a sudden no body has got time for me. Complaning ani kaadu, they never return my calls , okavela call return chesina 2 mins quick ga matladi pettesthunnaru. Best friends ankunna vallantha casual friedns aipoyaru, US lo I couldnt make lot of friends, ala parties lo kalisthe matladadame thappa tarvata interaction undadu, sare Im overthinking ani anpinchi ( I need to keep myself busy) husband tho fight chesi , vallani vellani beg chesi H1 chepinchukunna ( naadi science background India lo, I worked in a pharma company for 1 year or so), java edo kashtapadi , Pr***y help tho job lo join ayya, 7 years exp ani pettesariki chala expectations unnayi naa meeda and as you all guessed I could not meet them and got fired in a month and then I had to come back. Idi ayyaka I lost all my confidence in life, cannot look at my husband in the eye and talk to him, suicidal ( I know please stop judging me ), depressed and decided Im not fit for anything and its better I just stay back at home. Life chala depressing ga anpisthundi , self respect thaggipoindi, nenante evariki ishtam ledu anpisthundi. Relatives chala mandi unnaru, kani evaru matladaru, friends unnaru evaru matladaru. Friends andaru life lo munduki velthunnaru, nenu ikkade stuck aipoya oka idiot laga, Why am I like this anpisthundi, I keep talking to myself, I keep counselling myself( naku telsu ivanni part of life and simple problems ani, naa kante suffer ayye vallu chala mandi unnarani), I need to stop comparing my life with others I have many threads here where people asked for life advice and most of them have been supportive and critical as well, kani nenu ikkade ee story endhku vesthunna ante naaku support vaddu ( support , compassion kosam aithe indus ladies or 7cups.com ki velle danni) I want people to criticize me, tell me that Im a fool, I dont want to sympathize myself anymore, I want to get better. Please advise and help me get strong. I dont care ane attitude inculcate cheskovali, ela? Evaru lekapoina life lo brave ga unda galanu ani Ok akko..!! Ie DB la advice teesukunnavante iga samsaram nadichinatte Intha depression la vunna kuda, the best thing what did is that you identified you need someone to criticize you and when it comes to criticism, I’m the KING... akkai...enduku cheppu leni poni ashalu petukuni comparison life cheppu...vallu emi chesinaru vellu emi chesinar kante...nuv edo okati chesukovachu kada... igo chelle, ne problem endante nuv pakkollani chusi nee jeevitham gitla atlane vundali anukuntunnav...idisey..sadukunnadanivi, duniya ne gurinchi nuv susuko...enduku cheppu a Java mannu mashanam...h4 midaki poi kalakshepam kosam oka jeetham susuko...jara konni rojulainaka Java kakapothey dani baap jeetham suddam kani Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronitreddy Posted November 9, 2017 Report Share Posted November 9, 2017 Final ga entha mandi criticize chesinru ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Idassamed Posted November 9, 2017 Report Share Posted November 9, 2017 Balayya babu cinemalu Anni choodu you can come out of depression Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uttermost Posted November 9, 2017 Report Share Posted November 9, 2017 48 minutes ago, Android_Halwa said: Ok akko..!! Ie DB la advice teesukunnavante iga samsaram nadichinatte Intha depression la vunna kuda, the best thing what did is that you identified you need someone to criticize you and when it comes to criticism, I’m the KING... akkai...enduku cheppu leni poni ashalu petukuni comparison life cheppu...vallu emi chesinaru vellu emi chesinar kante...nuv edo okati chesukovachu kada... igo chelle, ne problem endante nuv pakkollani chusi nee jeevitham gitla atlane vundali anukuntunnav...idisey..sadukunnadanivi, duniya ne gurinchi nuv susuko...enduku cheppu a Java mannu mashanam...h4 midaki poi kalakshepam kosam oka jeetham susuko...jara konni rojulainaka Java kakapothey dani baap jeetham suddam kani lol. how simple your life is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uttermost Posted November 9, 2017 Report Share Posted November 9, 2017 9 minutes ago, ronitreddy said: Final ga entha mandi criticize chesinru ? criticize cheyyi, antey chesey antha verri pappala ee db lo, nee uddesam lo?lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gnr Posted November 9, 2017 Report Share Posted November 9, 2017 15months US life(married life) lo ne intha depression virakthi vacheste life lo kastam.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Android_Halwa Posted November 9, 2017 Report Share Posted November 9, 2017 14 minutes ago, uttermost said: lol. how simple your life is. Avu vaya...papam advice ichetolle andaru lokam la... critisicm..ante aame chestundi thappu ani mokam mida chepandayya ani adugutundi... ie pani Anna cheyadayya as usual, advices flowed..papam Akka clear ga chepindi..vaddu ra ayya advices ani Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gnr Posted November 9, 2017 Report Share Posted November 9, 2017 guys..chudandi 8 years older husband ni chesukunte wife pade lonliness..anduke max 3-4 years gap unte sync avthaai thoughts.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uttermost Posted November 9, 2017 Report Share Posted November 9, 2017 5 minutes ago, Android_Halwa said: Avu vaya...papam advice ichetolle andaru lokam la... critisicm..ante aame chestundi thappu ani mokam mida chepandayya ani adugutundi... ie pani Anna cheyadayya as usual, advices flowed..papam Akka clear ga chepindi..vaddu ra ayya advices ani criticism tho maarina vaallu evaru undaru. adhey nijam aithey, nenu db ni criticize chesthuney unna nenu ochinappatnundi. edhi, same dhed level arguments chestharu. no change. inka cheppalantey worst ga tayarayyaru. evariki vaallu maaraalsindhey. inkoru chepthey raadhu. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uttermost Posted November 9, 2017 Report Share Posted November 9, 2017 1 minute ago, gnr said: guys..chudandi 8 years older husband ni chesukunte wife pade lonliness..anduke max 3-4 years gap unte sync avthaai thoughts.. nuvvu ready antunnava, leka papa ready na ani aduguthunnava? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gnr Posted November 9, 2017 Report Share Posted November 9, 2017 1 minute ago, uttermost said: nuvvu ready antunnava, leka papa ready na ani aduguthunnava? chi chi yevado cheekesina tenka naku avsaram ledu.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mustang302 Posted November 9, 2017 Report Share Posted November 9, 2017 Evari karma ki evaru badhyulu.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uttermost Posted November 9, 2017 Report Share Posted November 9, 2017 9 minutes ago, gnr said: chi chi yevado cheekesina tenka naku avsaram ledu.. edsinattu undhi nee comparison. pooja ki paniki raani puvvu laa avvaka mundhey ekkado oka chota commit avvu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Android_Halwa Posted November 9, 2017 Report Share Posted November 9, 2017 52 minutes ago, uttermost said: criticism tho maarina vaallu evaru undaru. adhey nijam aithey, nenu db ni criticize chesthuney unna nenu ochinappatnundi. edhi, same dhed level arguments chestharu. no change. inka cheppalantey worst ga tayarayyaru. evariki vaallu maaraalsindhey. inkoru chepthey raadhu. unlimited possibilities...! chepalem..criticism thoti dorkichukuntademo ie akkai edo oka daari... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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