did anyone get divorced

[Quickgun_murugan]

1 hour ago, Adakku said:

Did you or anyone you know of get divorced? 

please share info.What will the consequences be?

@TOM_BHAYYA ee patiki easy ga 10 times divorce teeskunnadu..

[Rushabhi]

11 minutes ago, MeetFriendz said:

explain it .. personnel front lo kakunda generic gaa yee vishamlo ala anipinchindhi ...

Generic ga Ela cheptha man. Sare marriage is a gamble and I won. Many of my acquaintances lost. So I felt lucky 

[cactus]

18 minutes ago, samaja_varagamana said:

cactus theesssi g lo guchko 

then 1 go 

[TOM_BHAYYA]

5 minutes ago, Quickgun_murugan said:

@TOM_BHAYYA ee patiki easy ga 10 times divorce teeskunnadu..

Just searched in my whatsapp bro after your post .. found exactly 33 talaqs .. nuv cheppina dhani kanna okati ekkuva

[TensionNahiLeneka]

edaite ledu anukoni baadha padatamo, adi vastadi. kaani edaite ippudu vundo, adi potadi , malli vastada (rakapovachu) . 

think twice before you do anything.

 

naaku telusu 100 saarlu alochinchav ani. but em ledo daani gurunche 100 saarlu alochinchav. 

em vundo adi alochoinchadam ledu. inni rojula samsaram lo em vachindo alochinchadam ledu.

 

artam ayite saduvuko, tappu ayite kshaminchu. 

 

[samaja_varagamana]

4 minutes ago, TensionNahiLeneka said:

edaite ledu anukoni baadha padatamo, adi vastadi. kaani edaite ippudu vundo, adi potadi , malli vastada (rakapovachu) . 

think twice before you do anything.

 

naaku telusu 100 saarlu alochinchav ani. but em ledo daani gurunche 10 saarlu alochinchav. 

em vundo adi alochoinchadam ledu. inni rojula samsaram lo em vachindo alochinchadam ledu.

 

artam ayite saduvuko, tappu ayite kshaminchu. 

 

  baa @4Vikram baa itu ra manodu edo thagalettadu sudu oka paaali

[robin]

28 minutes ago, TensionNahiLeneka said:

edaite ledu anukoni baadha padatamo, adi vastadi. kaani edaite ippudu vundo, adi potadi , malli vastada (rakapovachu) . 

think twice before you do anything.

 

naaku telusu 100 saarlu alochinchav ani. but em ledo daani gurunche 100 saarlu alochinchav. 

em vundo adi alochoinchadam ledu. inni rojula samsaram lo em vachindo alochinchadam ledu.

 

artam ayite saduvuko, tappu ayite kshaminchu. 

 

super cheppinav bhayya... a situation ki aina sync cheskovachu 

[mazda]

in my opinion this is one of the tricky situation in anyone's life

first: entlo narakam ga unte entiki vellalani pichadu but roju mottam office lo undi entiki vellaka ekkadiki veltam

entiki vellaka torture unte that not only effects that particular day but mental and emotional ga chala depress avutham (for example: nee friend and thana wife neku manchi ga kanipiste naku endhuku elantidi dorikindi ani alochistam )

we don't know if it's even right to share with parents and siblings becz they might get worried abt you and it can create crap between two families not btw two persons.

so koncham complex situation but u can handle it becz u can't take stress every day. Go for divorce.

on the other hand: 1st hand  ga unnappude elantidi dorikindi seconds ante manchi profiles anni filter ayyepotaye automatic ga that is the biggest challenge for second marriage 

and oka horror movie chusaka emmate enkote chudallana koncham time pattide lee manaki ina ee lopu melliga vethukovachu

 

in simple: don't live someone's life....be what you're becz we live only once

[Adakku]

10 minutes ago, mazda said:

in my opinion this is one of the tricky situation in anyone's life

first: entlo narakam ga unte entiki vellalani pichadu but roju mottam office lo undi entiki vellaka ekkadiki veltam

entiki vellaka torture unte that not only effects that particular day but mental and emotional ga chala depress avutham (for example: nee friend and thana wife neku manchi ga kanipiste naku endhuku elantidi dorikindi ani alochistam )

we don't know if it's even right to share with parents and siblings becz they might get worried abt you and it can create crap between two families not btw two persons.

so koncham complex situation but u can handle it becz u can't take stress every day. Go for divorce.

on the other hand: 1st hand  ga unnappude elantidi dorikindi seconds ante manchi profiles anni filter ayyepotaye automatic ga that is the biggest challenge for second marriage 

and oka horror movie chusaka emmate enkote chudallana koncham time pattide lee manaki ina ee lopu melliga vethukovachu

 

in simple: don't live someone's life....be what you're becz we live only once

Aa bold letters stuff valla intha thinking. vaala age vaalu teeskuntara and stuff

[tennisluvr]

2 hours ago, Adakku said:

Did you or anyone you know of get divorced? 

please share info.What will the consequences be?

Yes 3 times, maa devudi laane

[Rushabhi]

19 minutes ago, Adakku said:

Aa bold letters stuff valla intha thinking. vaala age vaalu teeskuntara and stuff

You are married for only 9 months. Give it sometime. Sometimes the first one year of marriage is full of disagreements.!

[Diana]

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How to strengthen marriage and avoid divorce

Children are so much better off in a nuclear family, and unfortunately, there are far too many families that have failed. While both husband and wife have a responsibility to build and strengthen marriages to provide a stable environment for children, there are many things men can do as husbands and fathers to try to protect and preserve their marriage relationships and avoid a divorce and the issues that come from it.

Difficulty
Average

Time Required
A few hours a week

Banish Divorce from Your Thoughts
If you have an idea that you would be better off outside the marriage, that thought alone can cause a major break in your motivation to make it better. Simply deciding that divorce is not an option will help you focus on what you can do rather than on what you don't want to do.

Honor and Respect Your Partner
 Granted, your partner may not be the same person she was when you married. But she is still worthy of respect and honor. She is an incredible person in her own right. Consider making a list of her most amazing and endearing qualities so you can remember why it was you fell in love in the first place.

Communicate, Communicate and Communicate 
There is no substitute for talking regularly and about everything. Our wives feel intimacy with us when we share openly about our lives, our interests, our dreams and our expectations.

A family therapist friend of mine suggests that husbands and wives set aside 30 minutes each day without interruptions where the couple can just talk together. Effective communication is an important way to strengthen marriage.

Share Financial Expectations and Budgets
The demise of many families revolves around finances.

Often we bring different expectations about money to a relationship and coming to agreement on how we handle money together is a critical component of success. Agree on a budget and an approach to debt and then live within your limits. Learn to differentiate between a need and a want, and then make sure your needs are met.

Give Her the Right Amount of Space - the Amount She Wants
One of the hardest balances to find is the amount of time to spend together. Too much is smothering; too little is inattentive. So when she needs some space to herself or with girlfriends, let her have it. When she wants more time with you, make time for her. If her time away from you begins to grow, it's a good time to sit down and talk about expectations and needs.

Take Care of Yourself
Many wives I have talked with have become a bit disillusioned with marriage when their spouse starts to fall apart physically. Shave and shower on the weekends; make time to exercise and eat smarter. Gaining weight and not taking good care of yourself is a turn-off for her. And the better care your take of yourself, the more likely she is to care more about her appearance too.

Keep Up the Courting
One of the best ways I know to keep a bit of a spark in marriage is to make time to court your wife.

Make time for a "date night" every week, even if it is just a drive out for a milkshake. When times were leaner for us, my wife and I would trade babysitting with another couple, put the baby in a stroller and walk around the mall. Leave her little love notes where she will find them. Bring her a single rose occasionally. Little courting pleasantries go a long way in keeping a marriage strong.

Forgive Quickly
Often marriages begin to fall apart when one partner or another holds a grudge. Forgiveness is a gift that you give yourself more than one you give your partner. So refuse to hold grudges and have a forgiving spirit.

Don't Hesitate to Get Help
If you are still having challenges, consider getting counseling or couples therapy. Often your workplace (or hers) will have access to an employee assistance program or EAP, where you can get some initial help and a referral to others.

You might consider starting with a trusted member of the clergy if you share a religious heritage and then move beyond if needed.

Don't Try to Control Your Partner 
Give her room to be the person she is and learn to cooperate.

Disclose and Discuss Other Friendships
Partners often become suspicious when men have relationships outside marriage, however innocent.

Little Compliments Matter
Find something nice to say about your sweetheart every day.

Remember She is a Mom, Too 
Sometimes men forget that his wife is also a very busy mother with many demands on her time. She does not exist just to be a playmate. So be sensitive to the demands on her time and lighten her load when you can.other with many demands on her time. She does not exist just to be a playmate. So be sensitive to the demands on her time and lighten her load when you can.

[jbourne]

41 minutes ago, Diana said:

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How to strengthen marriage and avoid divorce

Children are so much better off in a nuclear family, and unfortunately, there are far too many families that have failed. While both husband and wife have a responsibility to build and strengthen marriages to provide a stable environment for children, there are many things men can do as husbands and fathers to try to protect and preserve their marriage relationships and avoid a divorce and the issues that come from it.

Difficulty
Average

Time Required
A few hours a week

Banish Divorce from Your Thoughts
If you have an idea that you would be better off outside the marriage, that thought alone can cause a major break in your motivation to make it better. Simply deciding that divorce is not an option will help you focus on what you can do rather than on what you don't want to do.

Honor and Respect Your Partner
 Granted, your partner may not be the same person she was when you married. But she is still worthy of respect and honor. She is an incredible person in her own right. Consider making a list of her most amazing and endearing qualities so you can remember why it was you fell in love in the first place.

Communicate, Communicate and Communicate 
There is no substitute for talking regularly and about everything. Our wives feel intimacy with us when we share openly about our lives, our interests, our dreams and our expectations.

A family therapist friend of mine suggests that husbands and wives set aside 30 minutes each day without interruptions where the couple can just talk together. Effective communication is an important way to strengthen marriage.

Share Financial Expectations and Budgets
The demise of many families revolves around finances.

Often we bring different expectations about money to a relationship and coming to agreement on how we handle money together is a critical component of success. Agree on a budget and an approach to debt and then live within your limits. Learn to differentiate between a need and a want, and then make sure your needs are met.

Give Her the Right Amount of Space - the Amount She Wants
One of the hardest balances to find is the amount of time to spend together. Too much is smothering; too little is inattentive. So when she needs some space to herself or with girlfriends, let her have it. When she wants more time with you, make time for her. If her time away from you begins to grow, it's a good time to sit down and talk about expectations and needs.

Take Care of Yourself
Many wives I have talked with have become a bit disillusioned with marriage when their spouse starts to fall apart physically. Shave and shower on the weekends; make time to exercise and eat smarter. Gaining weight and not taking good care of yourself is a turn-off for her. And the better care your take of yourself, the more likely she is to care more about her appearance too.

Keep Up the Courting
One of the best ways I know to keep a bit of a spark in marriage is to make time to court your wife.

Make time for a "date night" every week, even if it is just a drive out for a milkshake. When times were leaner for us, my wife and I would trade babysitting with another couple, put the baby in a stroller and walk around the mall. Leave her little love notes where she will find them. Bring her a single rose occasionally. Little courting pleasantries go a long way in keeping a marriage strong.

Forgive Quickly
Often marriages begin to fall apart when one partner or another holds a grudge. Forgiveness is a gift that you give yourself more than one you give your partner. So refuse to hold grudges and have a forgiving spirit.

Don't Hesitate to Get Help
If you are still having challenges, consider getting counseling or couples therapy. Often your workplace (or hers) will have access to an employee assistance program or EAP, where you can get some initial help and a referral to others.

You might consider starting with a trusted member of the clergy if you share a religious heritage and then move beyond if needed.

Don't Try to Control Your Partner 
Give her room to be the person she is and learn to cooperate.

Disclose and Discuss Other Friendships
Partners often become suspicious when men have relationships outside marriage, however innocent.

Little Compliments Matter
Find something nice to say about your sweetheart every day.

Remember She is a Mom, Too 
Sometimes men forget that his wife is also a very busy mother with many demands on her time. She does not exist just to be a playmate. So be sensitive to the demands on her time and lighten her load when you can.other with many demands on her time. She does not exist just to be a playmate. So be sensitive to the demands on her time and lighten her load when you can.

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[Diana]

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[Kumaravarma]

1 hour ago, Diana said:

genuine case ayite help avutundi ani search chesa

How to strengthen marriage and avoid divorce

Children are so much better off in a nuclear family, and unfortunately, there are far too many families that have failed. While both husband and wife have a responsibility to build and strengthen marriages to provide a stable environment for children, there are many things men can do as husbands and fathers to try to protect and preserve their marriage relationships and avoid a divorce and the issues that come from it.

Difficulty
Average

Time Required
A few hours a week

Banish Divorce from Your Thoughts
If you have an idea that you would be better off outside the marriage, that thought alone can cause a major break in your motivation to make it better. Simply deciding that divorce is not an option will help you focus on what you can do rather than on what you don't want to do.

Honor and Respect Your Partner
 Granted, your partner may not be the same person she was when you married. But she is still worthy of respect and honor. She is an incredible person in her own right. Consider making a list of her most amazing and endearing qualities so you can remember why it was you fell in love in the first place.

Communicate, Communicate and Communicate 
There is no substitute for talking regularly and about everything. Our wives feel intimacy with us when we share openly about our lives, our interests, our dreams and our expectations.

A family therapist friend of mine suggests that husbands and wives set aside 30 minutes each day without interruptions where the couple can just talk together. Effective communication is an important way to strengthen marriage.

Share Financial Expectations and Budgets
The demise of many families revolves around finances.

Often we bring different expectations about money to a relationship and coming to agreement on how we handle money together is a critical component of success. Agree on a budget and an approach to debt and then live within your limits. Learn to differentiate between a need and a want, and then make sure your needs are met.

Give Her the Right Amount of Space - the Amount She Wants
One of the hardest balances to find is the amount of time to spend together. Too much is smothering; too little is inattentive. So when she needs some space to herself or with girlfriends, let her have it. When she wants more time with you, make time for her. If her time away from you begins to grow, it's a good time to sit down and talk about expectations and needs.

Take Care of Yourself
Many wives I have talked with have become a bit disillusioned with marriage when their spouse starts to fall apart physically. Shave and shower on the weekends; make time to exercise and eat smarter. Gaining weight and not taking good care of yourself is a turn-off for her. And the better care your take of yourself, the more likely she is to care more about her appearance too.

Keep Up the Courting
One of the best ways I know to keep a bit of a spark in marriage is to make time to court your wife.

Make time for a "date night" every week, even if it is just a drive out for a milkshake. When times were leaner for us, my wife and I would trade babysitting with another couple, put the baby in a stroller and walk around the mall. Leave her little love notes where she will find them. Bring her a single rose occasionally. Little courting pleasantries go a long way in keeping a marriage strong.

Forgive Quickly
Often marriages begin to fall apart when one partner or another holds a grudge. Forgiveness is a gift that you give yourself more than one you give your partner. So refuse to hold grudges and have a forgiving spirit.

Don't Hesitate to Get Help
If you are still having challenges, consider getting counseling or couples therapy. Often your workplace (or hers) will have access to an employee assistance program or EAP, where you can get some initial help and a referral to others.

You might consider starting with a trusted member of the clergy if you share a religious heritage and then move beyond if needed.

Don't Try to Control Your Partner 
Give her room to be the person she is and learn to cooperate.

Disclose and Discuss Other Friendships
Partners often become suspicious when men have relationships outside marriage, however innocent.

Little Compliments Matter
Find something nice to say about your sweetheart every day.

Remember She is a Mom, Too 
Sometimes men forget that his wife is also a very busy mother with many demands on her time. She does not exist just to be a playmate. So be sensitive to the demands on her time and lighten her load when you can.other with many demands on her time. She does not exist just to be a playmate. So be sensitive to the demands on her time and lighten her load when you can.

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