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1 minute ago, Ara_Tenkai said:

katnam teesukovadam langa pani ante nenu adi cheppa bro...

see arranged marriage itself is like gambling... you never know... whether you will lose or win. 

money ivvadam isthe it is out of control. but asthulu ichina ammukunte vaddantava?? suppose 2 yrs ayyindi pelli ayyi manchiga chusukuntunnaru ammayini... ichina plots ammesaru... business ano inka denikano... appudu divorce ante em chestam

arranged marriage itself is bad... 1) consummating within the same gene pool increases diseases (same caste marriage) 2) these financial problems and the behaviours of different persons involved.

 

ila blanket psychology and assumptions apali

i know equal cases failing in love marriages too.....na cousin married after loving for 5yrs......1yr kuda kaledu appudu divorce ani thinking 

ala ani arranged marriage super ani kadu

it depends bro......but please dont conclude n make theories 

 

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Posted
2 minutes ago, kasi said:

ila blanket psychology and assumptions apali

i know equal cases failing in love marriages too.....na cousin married after loving for 5yrs......1yr kuda kaledu appudu divorce ani thinking 

ala ani arranged marriage super ani kadu

it depends bro......but please dont conclude n make theories 

 

dont conclude kadu bro... atleast love marriagelo spouse psycho na etc athani behaviour telustundi kada... arranged marriage lo teledu... just oka 2-3 months mundu kalustaru and they act good for these months...malli same gene pool lo pelli chesukodam is not good...

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Just now, Ara_Tenkai said:

dont conclude kadu bro... atleast love marriagelo spouse psycho na etc athani behaviour telustundi kada... arranged marriage lo teledu... just oka 2-3 months mundu kalustaru and they act good for these months...malli same gene pool lo pelli chesukodam is not good...

 

4 minutes ago, kasi said:

ila blanket psychology and assumptions apali

i know equal cases failing in love marriages too.....na cousin married after loving for 5yrs......1yr kuda kaledu appudu divorce ani thinking 

ala ani arranged marriage super ani kadu

it depends bro......but please dont conclude n make theories 

 

marriage fail avvadam gurinchi nenu matladatle... fail avvadaniki chala reasons untayi... US lo enni divorcelu chudatle but atleast psycholu kadu ani telustadi kada...

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1 minute ago, Ara_Tenkai said:

dont conclude kadu bro... atleast love marriagelo spouse psycho na etc athani behaviour telustundi kada... arranged marriage lo teledu... just oka 2-3 months mundu kalustaru and they act good for these months...malli same gene pool lo pelli chesukodam is not good...

babu manarikam ki.....arranged marriage ki chala difference undhi 

same gene pool enti saammy...sFun_duh2

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53 minutes ago, Ara_Tenkai said:

first I will state my opinion: Katnam adagatam and ashinchadam tappu... isthe teesukovadamlo tappu ledu... okavela adagalanukunna pelliki mundu adagali.. okasari pelli ayyaka dani gurinchi pattinchukovaddu...

Lets talk just economics...In these days boys and girls are equal... ammayilu pelli chesukune mundu vellaki venaka asthulu emaina unnaya leda.. entha mandi abbayilu unnaru.. property ela share avuthundi ani calculate chesi pelli chesukuntaru... nuvvu annattu evarido kastam evariko enduku ivvali ani... mari abbayi parents di kastam kada...vellu pelli chesukunnaka valla asthi enjoy cheyara.... boys parentsdi ammayilu enjoy chestunnappudu ammayi parents di abbayilu enduku teesukokudadu...

Evadi theory vaadidhi brother, nenu kuda katnam tiskoledhu. The way my wife and my in-laws treat me is way different from what my friends face, there is a great amount of respect. I am not answerable to anyone for any of my financial choices or career choices. 

Above everything you get to keep your self respect.

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1 minute ago, kasi said:

babu manarikam ki.....arranged marriage ki chala difference undhi 

same gene pool enti saammy...sFun_duh2

same castelone chesukuntaru kada bro... mostly... anduke same gene pool anna... 

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Just now, kukka_bathuku said:

Evadi theory vaadidhi brother, nenu kuda katnam tiskoledhu. The way my wife and my in-laws treat me is way different from what my friends face, there is a great amount of respect. I am not answerable to anyone for any of my financial choices or career choices. 

Above everything you get to keep your self respect.

ma oorlo katnam vadu antea.....neelo edo issue undhi ani doubt padatharu^^

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1 minute ago, kukka_bathuku said:

Evadi theory vaadidhi brother, nenu kuda katnam tiskoledhu. The way my wife and my in-laws treat me is way different from what my friends face, there is a great amount of respect. I am not answerable to anyone for any of my financial choices or career choices. 

Above everything you get to keep your self respect.

nenu teesukole bro... but isthe teesukovadamlo tappu ledu... adigi vedinchoddu antunna.. self respect antava...na answelo stictly economic sense ani mention kuda chesa...

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Just now, Ara_Tenkai said:

nenu teesukole bro... but isthe teesukovadamlo tappu ledu... adigi vedinchoddu antunna.. self respect antava...na answelo stictly economic sense ani mention kuda chesa...

idhea hypocrisy anthea

"NO" anea oka word undi dictionary, neeku thelidhu emo@3$%

Posted
Just now, kasi said:

ma oorlo katnam vadu antea.....neelo edo issue undhi ani doubt padatharu^^

doubt unte rammanu inti koka lady ni.

Posted
1 hour ago, Ara_Tenkai said:

first I will state my opinion: Katnam adagatam and ashinchadam tappu... isthe teesukovadamlo tappu ledu... okavela adagalanukunna pelliki mundu adagali.. okasari pelli ayyaka dani gurinchi pattinchukovaddu...

Lets talk just economics...In these days boys and girls are equal... ammayilu pelli chesukune mundu vellaki venaka asthulu emaina unnaya leda.. entha mandi abbayilu unnaru.. property ela share avuthundi ani calculate chesi pelli chesukuntaru... nuvvu annattu evarido kastam evariko enduku ivvali ani... mari abbayi parents di kastam kada...vellu pelli chesukunnaka valla asthi enjoy cheyara.... boys parentsdi ammayilu enjoy chestunnappudu ammayi parents di abbayilu enduku teesukokudadu...

alantappudu pelli chesukovaddu bhayya. paisala kosama pelli chesukonedi. or wife to life ni enjoy cheyyadam kosama? (oka todu needa kosama?) 

Posted
1 hour ago, Ara_Tenkai said:

but one thing... vallu entha ista ante teesukovali...vedincha kudadu... antha istam lekapothe asalu pelli chesukovaddu but vallani matram badha pettoddu..

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Posted
1 minute ago, kasi said:

idhea hypocrisy anthea

"NO" anea oka word undi dictionary, neeku thelidhu emo@3$%

usualga human tendency entante... avathala valla theories ardam chesukodaniki try cheyyam... we stand on what we believe... including me..

remember prathi situation ki exact yes and no ani answers undavu...

for ex: needi middle class manchiga IAS pass ayyavu... oka koteeswarudi ammayi ninnu love chestundi.. thanu vachi na kuthurni chesukoo oka bungalow istha jubilee hillslo ... oka 3 crores money istha ante teesukodamlo tappu emundi...ledu vachi na gudiselone undali antava... he has excess money... he will get a good son in law... neeku manchi life vastadi... win- win

ex2: needi middle class... neeku nachina ammayi father 2 acres farmer... pelliki aa 2 acres kuda ammi neeku money ista antadu... pelli ayyaka aa parents ki em migaladu... they you need to say NO as a human...

the rest i leave the imagination to you...

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2 hours ago, kasi said:

katnalu ichetappudu , liquid ivakantira iyaa 

jewelry ooo, ammay peru meeda properties ivandhi ra iyaa 

 

ippudea ee TV actor samrat gadi news chusthuna........jagrathara babu 

 

10gey neelanti ugly looking asssholes katnalu ravvu vachevadi meeda crying. Batta potta poti black uncle 10geyy

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