raithu_bidda1 Posted September 6, 2018 Report Posted September 6, 2018 http://www.nridivorce.com/PersonalStories.htm I went through abortion and divorce at the age of 24: I was a very simple girl. Born to a service class conservative and traditional family, in a small and a very beautiful city in India, I never had to face much hardship in my childhood. I had very loving and caring parents who provided me the best education possible within their means. Academically good, I got my bachelors degree in Engineering from a prestigious college in India at the age of 21. Got job and I had hardly worked for few months, my family started to find a boy for me. After a couple of interviews in which I rejected some candidates and some rejected me, I (apparently) found my Mr. Right. He was working for an Indian company on H1-B visa in U.S. My first divorce was a lot harder than my second: My first divorce was a lot harder than my second. Probably because we got married on the spur of the moment, when there was a lot of passion and not much time to think about what getting married meant. and we split up pretty early into it. like a few days, i think. it just freaked us both out. An NRI Guy's perspective: Interview with an NRI Divorcee: When Nisha Sharma brought her dowry-monger of a fiancé to justice, she became media's favourite maiden. An icon for young women, a case study for ladies' forums and the torch-bearer of the Indian middleclass girl's cause.But there are a few guys out there who do not take dowry and never make the headlines.Like this young NRI software engineer who gives Hyderabad Times an account (on the condition of anonymity) of how his marriage ended in a disaster. Life has just started for me: In the last 50+ years I have never been alone. The now blissfully quiet home has brought peace and harmony in my life. The inevitable sadness of a divorce lingers with a question in mind as to what more you could have done to avoid the situation. But a new year has come with new hope. Is there a happily ever after? The girl with the flowing golden hair looks starry-eyed at the tall,dazzlingly handsome and muscular man who in turn is gazing adoringly at her. Locked in a passionate embrace, the man says to her, "My love, I want to marry you!" The girl closes her eyes in ecstasy at the fulfillment of her dream, and with great joy replies, "Yes! Oh, yes!" They kiss. Divorce: a daughter's perspective: I still shudder when I hear a door slam or heavy foot steps from the floor above. Although it has been 15 years since my mother divorced him, my memories of growing up with an abusive father linger. There are particular episodes that have been burned in my memory. And then there are the countless, outbreaks of violence that I have chosen to forget. There was the night he came home to find my baby brother had scribbled on the orange, plastic table cloth, and he held my brother's head by the neck and forced him to lick off the embedded ball point pen markings. Night after night he came home drunk; me, my sister and two brothers would scamper, making sure not to get caught in his way. There was no warning when he would find us guilty of something that he disapproved of, there was always another excuse to show us how angry he could become. Green Maya - the fictionalized story of an Indian woman who faced divorce in her mid-fifties. Passing of a Marriage -- the practical importance of keeping records. On a balmy summer evening, the news that floated into my life changed it forever. My partner of ten years and husband of less than a year had died in an accident. The overwhelming reaction was disbelief. Of course, such things happened to many people but why would it happen to me? I had led such a comfortable, trauma-free life since childhood. I thought I had made wise choices and did not think that any hugely nasty event would mark my life. Breaking up is hard to do My children and divorce: I have to say, in my case, I was extremely lucky with the way my children have handled the break-up. admittedly, we had been spending a lot of time apart already. and he has made an active effort - stopping by and putting them to bed, etc., to stay in their lives. Other Featured Stories: Recognition of foreign divorce decree: An Indian perspective NRI husbands claim harassment by anti-dowry law NRI marriages: India to take tips from Pak NRI men are opting for Filipino wives?! 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raithu_bidda1 Posted September 6, 2018 Author Report Posted September 6, 2018 17 minutes ago, Veeraveera said: Arey em Anna. Poni fafam vadileyi. Why bother ladies brah adi addadi kadu vaa Quote
raithu_bidda1 Posted September 6, 2018 Author Report Posted September 6, 2018 5 minutes ago, Veeraveera said: Antha confident ga chepthunnav. Neeku emaina unayya theepi gnapakalu dani divorcee story niku telavadu Quote
raithu_bidda1 Posted September 6, 2018 Author Report Posted September 6, 2018 5 minutes ago, Veeraveera said: @Android__Halwa and @ranku_mogudu okkarena?? no RM is  pulka Quote
psycopk Posted September 6, 2018 Report Posted September 6, 2018 endi ladies meda ita paga batesav... intlo sister edipistunda? Quote
kevinUsa Posted September 6, 2018 Report Posted September 6, 2018 17 minutes ago, Veeraveera said: @Android__Halwa and @ranku_mogudu okkarena?? both are diff Quote
MuPaGuNa Posted September 6, 2018 Report Posted September 6, 2018 1 hour ago, raithu_bidda1 said: adi addadi kadu vaa Meeru eppudu ekkada ela emi choosithiro vivaramuga cheppumu Quote
Peddayana Posted September 6, 2018 Report Posted September 6, 2018 arey raithu anna , enduku vayya ladies ni edipistunnavu , vadileyi Quote
raithu_bidda1 Posted September 6, 2018 Author Report Posted September 6, 2018 43 minutes ago, psycopk said: endi ladies meda ita paga batesav... intlo sister edipistunda? ledu vayya ms porilu naa mida paga pattesaru maa akka tho relation ippude baga aindi infact Quote
ranku_mogudu Posted September 6, 2018 Report Posted September 6, 2018 2 hours ago, raithu_bidda1 said: no RM is  pulka vokey alaney fix aipondi... Quote
ranku_mogudu Posted September 6, 2018 Report Posted September 6, 2018 2 hours ago, kevinUsa said: both are diff same bro Quote
k2s Posted September 6, 2018 Report Posted September 6, 2018 5 hours ago, raithu_bidda1 said: http://www.nridivorce.com/PersonalStories.htm I went through abortion and divorce at the age of 24: I was a very simple girl. Born to a service class conservative and traditional family, in a small and a very beautiful city in India, I never had to face much hardship in my childhood. I had very loving and caring parents who provided me the best education possible within their means. Academically good, I got my bachelors degree in Engineering from a prestigious college in India at the age of 21. Got job and I had hardly worked for few months, my family started to find a boy for me. After a couple of interviews in which I rejected some candidates and some rejected me, I (apparently) found my Mr. Right. He was working for an Indian company on H1-B visa in U.S. My first divorce was a lot harder than my second: My first divorce was a lot harder than my second. Probably because we got married on the spur of the moment, when there was a lot of passion and not much time to think about what getting married meant. and we split up pretty early into it. like a few days, i think. it just freaked us both out. An NRI Guy's perspective: Interview with an NRI Divorcee: When Nisha Sharma brought her dowry-monger of a fiancé to justice, she became media's favourite maiden. An icon for young women, a case study for ladies' forums and the torch-bearer of the Indian middleclass girl's cause.But there are a few guys out there who do not take dowry and never make the headlines.Like this young NRI software engineer who gives Hyderabad Times an account (on the condition of anonymity) of how his marriage ended in a disaster. Life has just started for me: In the last 50+ years I have never been alone. The now blissfully quiet home has brought peace and harmony in my life. The inevitable sadness of a divorce lingers with a question in mind as to what more you could have done to avoid the situation. But a new year has come with new hope. Is there a happily ever after? The girl with the flowing golden hair looks starry-eyed at the tall,dazzlingly handsome and muscular man who in turn is gazing adoringly at her. Locked in a passionate embrace, the man says to her, "My love, I want to marry you!" The girl closes her eyes in ecstasy at the fulfillment of her dream, and with great joy replies, "Yes! Oh, yes!" They kiss. Divorce: a daughter's perspective: I still shudder when I hear a door slam or heavy foot steps from the floor above. Although it has been 15 years since my mother divorced him, my memories of growing up with an abusive father linger. There are particular episodes that have been burned in my memory. And then there are the countless, outbreaks of violence that I have chosen to forget. There was the night he came home to find my baby brother had scribbled on the orange, plastic table cloth, and he held my brother's head by the neck and forced him to lick off the embedded ball point pen markings. Night after night he came home drunk; me, my sister and two brothers would scamper, making sure not to get caught in his way. There was no warning when he would find us guilty of something that he disapproved of, there was always another excuse to show us how angry he could become. Green Maya - the fictionalized story of an Indian woman who faced divorce in her mid-fifties. Passing of a Marriage -- the practical importance of keeping records. On a balmy summer evening, the news that floated into my life changed it forever. My partner of ten years and husband of less than a year had died in an accident. The overwhelming reaction was disbelief. Of course, such things happened to many people but why would it happen to me? I had led such a comfortable, trauma-free life since childhood. I thought I had made wise choices and did not think that any hugely nasty event would mark my life. Breaking up is hard to do My children and divorce: I have to say, in my case, I was extremely lucky with the way my children have handled the break-up. admittedly, we had been spending a lot of time apart already. and he has made an active effort - stopping by and putting them to bed, etc., to stay in their lives. Other Featured Stories: Recognition of foreign divorce decree: An Indian perspective NRI husbands claim harassment by anti-dowry law NRI marriages: India to take tips from Pak NRI men are opting for Filipino wives?! NRI weddings: The reel and the real Workshop On ‘Problems Relating To NRI Marriages’ inagurated NRI couples cope with troubled knots NCW helpline for ‘migrant’ brides Indian American husbands claim to be victims of an Indian law against dowry Wipro won’t sack NRI for torturing wife NRIs queue up for KANK Single Rebound After wedding planners, here come the ‘divorce planners’! Indian brides seek protection from abusive grooms The H4 virus Indian Americans Seek Life After Divorce PIL guns for NRI grooms New York Times on Indian Marriages and Bollywood Deserted wife and NRI NRI doctor’s murder: Wife to stand trial Divorce, NRIs and Fraud NRI grooms tortured and fleeced by Indian brides NRI divorces wife in US court, she fights back No punishment to blackmailers using 498A against NRIs Reprieve for Italian NRI in divorce case NRI marriage sufferer gets justice, divorced from husband Indian Supreme Court concerned over broken marriages Nizams former wife says verdict a triumph for women Sexiest Desi Actresses Preity Zinta says divorce is highly avoidable! NCW for educating people on problems in NRI marriages Want divorce? Add extra sugar to tea Report on Alarming Situation: Misuse of Anti-dowry laws in marital disputes For Rs 25 lakh, NRI gets divorce settlement Battered Half Needed: Laws for kids of broken NRI marriages NRI marriages: Dreams to nightmares Query on Indians divorcing in the US NRI's wife blames Shilpa for break-up Man booked for torturing NRI wife Reprieve for Italian NRI in divorce case More aware, women assert their rights man post one estory a day and keep DB ppl entertained man Quote
Luke Posted September 7, 2018 Report Posted September 7, 2018 3 hours ago, k2s said: man post one estory a day and keep DB ppl entertained man 💡 Quote
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