very tension situation, please advise

[futureofandhra]

2 minutes ago, Pumpuhaar said:

 

 

ee situations anni India lo undi deal cheyaale vayya phone lo sort kaavu

think about your parents and your sister they need you in this moment ippudu ee situations ki nuvvu responsibility teeskoka pothe you are not a man.

 nuvvu ikkade unta not possible anukunta koosuntey akkada vaalu anyaayam aipotaaru.

America adiki podu malli future lo raavochu first you need to take care of these things.

Can you tell me what he can do ??

In my opinion nothing with out knowing solution

[whatsapp]

44 minutes ago, AFDB__REBEL said:

bhayas.

naku oka sister undhi, she is married for last 6 years.

oka 3 years bane unde marriage. daughter was born

Things were going well, but after second daughter was born, things change.

Sis husband torture start chesadu. Intlo money ivvadam ledhu. Pillal toh sambhandam ledhu naku antunadu

Office ki veldam early morning, night late ga ravadam. kavalani function ki out of city veldam alone.

Kavalani ma parents ki call chesi teskoni velandi me daughter ki nenu kapuram cheyanu. 

Naku vere ammyin toh relation undhi ani chepadu sis ki. Em cheskuntav chesko po, nenu ilane unta. 

Akkada ma parents papam daily tension lo unaru. Nen kuda lenu akkada. They are alone. relatives unnaru kaani vallu em chestar.

At this age parents  kuda ee torture to chala frustrate unaru. Mother ki high BP, hospital lo kuda admit chasaru.

Nenu ikad nunchi em cheyileka pothunav. 

Please suggest how to deal this situation, chala helpless ka feel avuthuna. 

Vadu emo akkada nakhral chestunadu. 

Me bava ki era veyyi ...oka paritho matladunchu ...just make her friend and ask howz things in home he open up all his family issues...me sister badhyata ne valla kadu ...ala ani adadhani vontari dhani chesty e lokam inka kampu kampu chestharu ! Until you dont know problem you cannt sort ...pedamanshulahto panchayithi pettinchu !!

[Amrita]

3 minutes ago, Pumpuhaar said:

 

 

ee situations anni India lo undi deal cheyaale vayya phone lo sort kaavu

think about your parents and your sister they need you in this moment ippudu ee situations ki nuvvu responsibility teeskoka pothe you are not a man.

 nuvvu ikkade unta not possible anukunta koosuntey akkada vaalu anyaayam aipotaaru.

America adiki podu malli future lo raavochu first you need to take care of these things.

I told the exact same thing above

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, futureofandhra said:

Can you tell me what he can do ??

In my opinion nothing with out knowing solution

Em cheyalekapoyina ala vallani vadilestara? He should at least go and give moral support if not solution.  Pellam pillale kadu he has amma nanna and akka too in his life 

[futureofandhra]

1 minute ago, Amrita said:

Em cheyalekapoyina ala vallani vadilestara? He should at least go and give moral support if not solution.  Pellam pillale kadu he has amma nanna and akka too in his life 

I agree am not saying leave them like that

So far in this thread not even one is able to give practical solution 

One says go against

It doesn't work that way

He needs to find his blw plan n drive things According to it 

Practical world is different

As he knows what his sis wants 

[WHAT]

8 minutes ago, AFDB__REBEL said:

i get that bro...but ikkada na family kids unnarau kadha bhaya...

ivvi anni vadelesi nenu akkada velipovadam antha easy kadhu bro...i have 2 kids who go to school

nuvvu velli chesedi em ledu.... mee bava tho okasari cool ga matladu..... mee sis ni adugu future lo athanu change aye sitautions emina unnaya ani 

and mee sis ki job or business edina help chey ASAP.... 

mee sis life important but nee family ni disturb chesukoku travel chesi asale contracting job antunnav .... nee expenses taggunchukuni sis ki money pampu oka 2-3 months

[futureofandhra]

2 minutes ago, Veeraveera said:

Simple suggestion. Sometimes give it time. People will eventually change. Don't make any hasty decisions. Even if it's a year or two, he will realise who is his real family is. 

Antha varaku support your sister financially and morally. Even after 1 or 2 years situation change avvakapothe then take legal action. 

I'm for your sister brah. Please call her every day and tell every thing will be fine. It's just a rough phase 

Good suggestion if his blw is single till that time

[Pumpuhaar]

Just now, futureofandhra said:

Can you tell me what he can do ??

In my opinion nothing with out knowing solution

em maatladtunnav vayya akkada undi vaani tho maatladochu phone cut cheste direct ga...assal nee problem endi rabbai ani gattiga adgochu edo oka solution ostadi..ikkada nunchi em aithadi?

ofcourse, chaatha kaanodiki ikkada unna akkada unna em peekaledu 

[WHAT]

divorce varaki velthe antha penta avuthadi ..... future lo kalise chances takkuva .... kids effect avutharu .... ...

[futureofandhra]

Just now, Pumpuhaar said:

em maatladtunnav vayya akkada undi vaani tho maatladochu phone cut cheste direct ga...assal nee problem endi rabbai ani gattiga adgochu edo oka solution ostadi..ikkada nunchi em aithadi?

ofcourse, chaatha kaanodiki ikkada unna akkada unna em peekaledu 

If he is in India then ok 

I thought blw in USA 

[Amrita]

2 minutes ago, futureofandhra said:

I agree am not saying leave them like that

So far in this thread not even one is able to give practical solution 

One says go against

It doesn't work that way

He needs to find his blw plan n drive things According to it 

Practical world is different

As he knows what his sis wants 

E problem wife and husband can only solve but as a bro he should go and support family. Ilanti times lo kuda moral support ki lekapote inka pillalu/siblings enduku man sudha dandaga. 

[WHAT]

10 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Em cheyalekapoyina ala vallani vadilestara? He should at least go and give moral support if not solution.  Pellam pillale kadu he has amma nanna and akka too in his life 

we dont know TS visa and job situation ..... and athanu okkade working annadu kada... ee time lo risk avasarama...

[Amrita]

Just now, WHAT said:

we dont know TS visa and job situation ..... and athanu okkade working annadu kada... ee time lo risk avasarama...

Job risk vs life risk . I don't want to say more. 

[Pumpuhaar]

5 minutes ago, Amrita said:

I told the exact same thing above

[futureofandhra]

2 minutes ago, Veeraveera said:

Avesham paniradhu brah. Sister and two nieces affect ayitharu. 

His brother in law is intoxicated with that new lady. It's just matter of time to realise she is a .  Once it happens he will realise value of wife and kids 

Ya but it's a question mark on blw mentality