very tension situation, please advise

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, Pumpuhaar said:

[Pumpuhaar]

3 minutes ago, Veeraveera said:

Avesham paniradhu brah. Sister and two nieces affect ayitharu. 

His brother in law is intoxicated with that new lady. It's just matter of time to realise she is a .  Once it happens he will realise value of wife and kids 

nee yenki...naak enduk aavesam gattiga in the sense asal problem endo kanukoni bujjaginchadam...deggara undi chooskovadam

[psycopk]

1 hour ago, AFDB__REBEL said:

bhayas.

naku oka sister undhi, she is married for last 6 years.

oka 3 years bane unde marriage. daughter was born

Things were going well, but after second daughter was born, things change.

Sis husband torture start chesadu. Intlo money ivvadam ledhu. Pillal toh sambhandam ledhu naku antunadu

Office ki veldam early morning, night late ga ravadam. kavalani function ki out of city veldam alone.

Kavalani ma parents ki call chesi teskoni velandi me daughter ki nenu kapuram cheyanu. 

Naku vere ammyin toh relation undhi ani chepadu sis ki. Em cheskuntav chesko po, nenu ilane unta. 

Akkada ma parents papam daily tension lo unaru. Nen kuda lenu akkada. They are alone. relatives unnaru kaani vallu em chestar.

At this age parents  kuda ee torture to chala frustrate unaru. Mother ki high BP, hospital lo kuda admit chasaru.

Nenu ikad nunchi em cheyileka pothunav. 

Please suggest how to deal this situation, chala helpless ka feel avuthuna. 

Vadu emo akkada nakhral chestunadu. 

abbai valla parents tho personal ga velli matladandi... kudirite.. mee mom ni velli valla tho oka one month stay chesi rammanu... edo oka vratham peru tho friends and families ni invite chestu unadandi..

mee relatvies kuda regular ga visit chese la paln cheyandi... things will sort out..

,ee bava ki call chesi oka sari how r things annatu casual ga matladu... india ki ostuna.. emana kavala drinks ani conversation start cheyi.. kudirite oka one month velli personal ga kalisi ra..

[MeetFriendz]

1 hour ago, AFDB__REBEL said:

katnam chala icchinam ...inka enti shower money bro

tappuga anukoku kani .. aasalu problem yemito teliyakunda solution kosam vethakadam waste.

1) nee quote tho meeru baaga ne yecharu mee bava ki ani ardam avutundhi .. but in first place yendhuku yechavo alochinchu .. as a custom ga yechavu .. if so think that he is worst of all and inka yevadam lo me akka family set avutundhi anukunte yevadam lo tappud ledhu kadha .. ala ani adiginapudalla yevali .. ledha dabuulu yevali ani kadhu to make things right we need to go away from normal way of thinking. 

 

2) neeku valla family set cheyali ani anukunte take leave and go and sit with them ... problem eamiti ani mee akka ni adugu infornt of him and then listen to your bava version and ask solution from him itself. tanucheppina reason ki if you can come up with a solution then bring it up in front of him (think solution in a way that should make him happy) 

at the end of the day vidadeesthe yedina vidipotundhi kalapali antene you will get better by yourself too .. 

yevariki complaint chesina end result alochinchu do you want a family to be split or make them grow. Yee roju nuvu or mee parents help chestaru mee sister ki  in case if she gets split. Later on nuvee help cheyalsi vuntundhi .. there after when you get your own family nuvu kuda hand yestavuu or situations make you do that though you are not of that kind.

total ga my point is try your best to make your bava stick with them. 

 

 

 

[MeetFriendz]

42 minutes ago, SonaParv_522 said:

Oka beautiful ammai (jr artost) ni set chesi mee bava ni trap cheyyamanu(just acting). Oka 1month ala thippinchukunnaka one fine day place fix chesi kalavamani cheppu. Ade time ki police dress lo iddaru junior artists ni dimpu. Automatic ga kaallu pattesukoni em chepthe adi chestadu.

Hhahahahhaaha 

[SonaParv_522]

1 minute ago, psycopk said:

abbai valla parents tho personal ga velli matladandi... kudirite.. mee mom ni velli valla tho oka one month stay chesi rammanu... edo oka vratham peru tho friends and families ni invite chestu unadandi..

mee relatvies kuda regular ga visit chese la paln cheyandi... things will sort out..

,ee bava ki call chesi oka sari how r things annatu casual ga matladu... india ki ostuna.. emana kavala drinks ani conversation start cheyi.. kudirite oka one month velli personal ga kalisi ra..

Abbai vaalla parents heaven lo unnaranta, cbn emanna flights este velli maatladi vastaru

[JANASENA]

domestic violence case petti 10gandi. debbadiki anni set aitha aadu set avuthadu. 

[psycopk]

Just now, SonaParv_522 said:

Abbai vaalla parents heaven lo unnaranta, cbn emanna flights este velli maatladi vastaru

parents leka pote.. family untadi kada.. babai.. or pedannna... atta.. whom he likes more.. 6years lo tanu evariki respect istado kuda teliyada..

[psycopk]

Just now, JANASENA said:

domestic violence case petti 10gandi. debbadiki anni set aitha aadu set avuthadu. 

police case not a good idea.. tege daga lagakodadu...

[SonaParv_522]

Just now, psycopk said:

parents leka pote.. family untadi kada.. babai.. or pedannna... atta.. whom he likes more.. 6years lo tanu evariki respect istado kuda teliyada..

Hmm good idea. But wife ke respect ivvanodu inka relatives ni em pattinchukuntadu. Okavela antha respect unte situation intha dooram raadu kada.

[MeetFriendz]

39 minutes ago, AFDB__REBEL said:

nenu married bro...ikkada family aani vadilesi how to go bro for that long

Ohh neeku kuda responsibilities vunayaa .. still leave tesukoni vellu 2 weeks ala and try hard ... 

[Spartan]

Talk to ur Sister, get her opnion on whether she wants to give a chance to set things right..or go for divorce.

then proceed on it.

hope the family reunites and stay happy...

[raithu_bidda1]

naa ladu lodi 

"Divorce is the new beginning in life"

ide mana ladies kotha trend....

amana ante makana thopu avadu ledu highly independent avarni patinchukomu antunaru

[MeetFriendz]

40 minutes ago, futureofandhra said:

Going against doesn't solve any purpose

Finding the root cause n checking if he will change

If not divorce better 

exactly .... vedhava ani telisinappudu vadini rechagodithe inka rechi pothadu tappa nuvu chepedhi yedhi vinadu .. polic court or  any law will not be a problem for him as he knows how things work. problem chesthe eami avutundho teliyakunda yevadu problem ni create cheyadu tapinchuko galanu ani first decide iyakane he will create havoc. ledhu yedari valla kavadam ledhu ani vallu decide iyethe better to go in divorce path. if only one is restraining from the relationship bratimali iyena chekabetali ... vidagodatha buddi chebutha ante aa pani vallaki vallu kuda chesuko galaru kadha   

[MeetFriendz]

42 minutes ago, AFDB__REBEL said:

i get that bro...but ikkada na family kids unnarau kadha bhaya...

ivvi anni vadelesi nenu akkada velipovadam antha easy kadhu bro...i have 2 kids who go to school

motha family tho kadhu dude ... get a ticke tjust for you. If your wife is unable to drive or cant get regualr chores done then its the basic mistake our ppl are doing. which we can talk about it later though. oo friend or colleague akkada parichayam vunnavallani koncham help tesuko manu while you are away.

your presence make some difference for your parents sister as well as your bava.

nee confidence yeevuu mee bava .. say if he says girl kids nenu bear cheyalenu ante nenu vunanu ani cheppu. lavish karuchulaki support cheyalenu but avasaraniki nuvu yepudu ready ani support cheye. Or say if kids support is not the problem and he has relation ship with some other, then tackle in that way.