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Posted
10 minutes ago, raithu_bidda1 said:

naa ladu lodi 

"Divorce is the new beginning in life"

ide mana ladies kotha trend....

amana ante makana thopu avadu ledu highly independent avarni patinchukomu antunaru

nuvvu endi samara.. ammai ni doubtunav.. tanu em chesindi..

Posted
43 minutes ago, whatsapp said:

Me bava ki era veyyi ...oka paritho matladunchu ...just make her friend and ask howz things in home he open up all his family issues...me sister badhyata ne valla kadu ...ala ani adadhani vontari dhani chesty e lokam inka kampu kampu chestharu ! Until you dont know problem you cannt sort ...pedamanshulahto panchayithi pettinchu !!

correct

Posted
3 minutes ago, psycopk said:

nuvvu endi samara.. ammai ni doubtunav.. tanu em chesindi..

I dobbing all girls not this particular one 

in this case I pity the girl

Posted

Am very sorry brother,  I can imagine how much pain you and your family are in...  Firstly, ikkada manam entha discuss chesina, reality lo avi normal discussion la vundavu... Everything goes to big argument for real. Manam ikkada vundi, enni matalu ph lo cheppina, akkada valu cool ga alochinchi decide avvaru... 

 

Naa view aithe, don't make any decision over the phone. Or over the phone nothing will resolve brother. Obviously mee bava di edo vundi something, i can clearly see that... Vaalu veelu cheppindi vinaku, nammaku... Find yourself about what is going on with your bava. If it is definitely another girl, Just go to your bava and try to talk to him openly...  Only serious vishayalu matrame matladu... ala arichadu, ila arichadu (just as an example), ivi anni family lo common and don't discuss such silly things, More importantly dont blame or  pass statements... because, the conversation will immediately heat up and left with only complaints but no discussion. 

Emo malla ee idea work avuddo ledo teledu brother, enduku ante akkada situation intha relaxed ga kurchoni matlade la vundo ledo kuda teledu ga...

short ga, naa suggestion aithe you go to INDIA and solve things yourself... But, ala cheyyali ante, you should take full control over your parents, sister, bava, relatives and society (if you care any)... Nuvvu control teesukoleka pothe, India ki nuvvu vellina adi jarige way lone avuddi... 

 

I wish soon ee godavalu anni sort out avvali... Before all these you take care yourself first, because you are the backbone for your family. YOu must be healthy and strong enough to take care of whole family...

Posted

Inko solution enti ante, asalu aa lady evaro kanukkoni atu side nundi workout cheste result undochu

Posted
43 minutes ago, WHAT said:

divorce varaki velthe antha penta avuthadi ..... future lo kalise chances takkuva .... kids effect avutharu .... ...

yep ... there are so many ppl waiting to get divorce these days avi clear kavadanikee staff saripovadam ledhu court lo ..... parents vuntene sarigaa manage cheyaleka pothunaru kids nika single parent with money vunna its will be very challenging for her in future unless she is very rebel though ,,,

Posted

Talk to your sister first what she wants ani. Kondaru men wife ni ememy la chusina kids meedha full prema untadhi. Kids meedha kuda lekapothe asontodini idishipettadame correct.

your sister needs a lot of support anni rakaluga. Koncham time varaku better to watch her. Suicides kuda attempt chese chances unnay

clearly your bava is having an affair. Case pettadam is not a big deal. His life will be screwed but me sister ki em kavalo telusukondi first.

 

Posted
39 minutes ago, WHAT said:

we dont know TS visa and job situation ..... and athanu okkade working annadu kada... ee time lo risk avasarama...

1 week pay loss shouldnt make much difference bhayaa .. adhe client  vachi forceed vacation tesuko budget ledhu ante eam chestadu nothing but will adjust his expeneses in later months kadha .. always there is an excuse for us .. situation vasthe some how we will deal with it .. so elanti situation direct ga manaki effect kadhu but still unless we take ourself into that situation we will give excuses. 

Posted
5 minutes ago, AFDB__REBEL said:

thank you all for the suggestions....i will look into those....

It happened in my family similar way and cut cheste bava oka north pilla tho affair petukunadu . Akka ( cousin)  ni vadili chukundham Ani pre planned ga chesadu. They got separated , baba north pilla ni cheskunadu and had kids 

Cousin cheskoledhu and cheskonu andhi. 

Keep an eye on that aspect , sometimes people do intentionally to spoil the relation 

Posted
34 minutes ago, JANASENA said:

domestic violence case petti 10gandi. debbadiki anni set aitha aadu set avuthadu. 

yepudu yevadu care cheyadam ledhu .. lawyer ni petukoni vadi side tappu ledhu ani choopinchukovadniki ready iye kurchunaru andaru 

Posted
2 minutes ago, Sachin200 said:

It happened in my family similar way and cut cheste bava oka north pilla tho affair petukunadu . Akka ( cousin)  ni vadili chukundham Ani pre planned ga chesadu. They got separated , baba north pilla ni cheskunadu and had kids 

Cousin cheskoledhu and cheskonu andhi. 

Keep an eye on that aspect , sometimes people do intentionally to spoil the relation 

already chepadu ..vere ammyi toh relation undhi ani kaani proof ledhu na sis degara....

Posted
14 minutes ago, SonaParv_522 said:

Inko solution enti ante, asalu aa lady evaro kanukkoni atu side nundi workout cheste result undochu

atu side nuchi ante aa ammayeni kidnap chesdam antava bro .. hahahahahha

Posted
Just now, MeetFriendz said:

atu side nuchi ante aa ammayeni kidnap chesdam antava bro .. hahahahahha

Can approach her family

Posted
18 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

Talk to your sister first what she wants ani. Kondaru men wife ni ememy la chusina kids meedha full prema untadhi. Kids meedha kuda lekapothe asontodini idishipettadame correct.

your sister needs a lot of support anni rakaluga. Koncham time varaku better to watch her. Suicides kuda attempt chese chances unnay

clearly your bava is having an affair. Case pettadam is not a big deal. His life will be screwed but me sister ki em kavalo telusukondi first.

 

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