Calling girls of this dB

[Amrita]

9 minutes ago, karthikn said:

yeah.. chala lessons learnt over the course of last 3-4 years. so things will be better anukuntunna

Mars 7th house ani... marriage ayaka full arguents ani JC told.. so let's see @Amrita

[JollyBoy]

4 minutes ago, Paidithalli said:

I like hasini in bommarillu type of girls. 

ipduu ninnu fappu @LokeshGandhi antaru

inka ee days attanti girls eda dorukutaru

[JollyBoy]

Just now, JollyBoy said:

ipduu ninnu fappu @LokeshGandhi antaru

inka ee days attanti girls eda dorukutaru

dorikina nuv barinxhalev man @Paidithalli @matashmalhotra

[karthikn]

4 minutes ago, JollyBoy said:

vuuuu

pelli kaganey set sestaru seppina mata inalani

nenu b susina recently married one of my friend 

1st week nundi beating hyd lo

mogudu em.septe adi listening inka

lekapote atha mama ki call sesi gola fetting

ee days lo adi kuda city lo ila unnara anukunna 

mom's cousin(pinni) husband.. athanu TX lo settled from early 2000s .. picha torture he and his parents.. motham daily involvement..rules restrictions. cheppinde vinali type.. pichi lepevaru pinni ki andf contnues

nenu vella last year, authoritative behavior etc.. oka 2 days undi jump baboy..malli ponu.. ee kalam ammayi aithe rendu reverse lo thomudhi anukunna, but nuvvu cheppina scenario chusthe except those rod ladies, every else ok for suffering #MiddleClass 

[karthikn]

6 minutes ago, Amrita said:

already fixed nenu full argument aithayi ani.. so it's good ,will be mentally prepared lol.. 

[JollyBoy]

Just now, karthikn said:

mom's cousin(pinni) husband.. athanu TX lo settled from early 2000s .. picha torture he and his parents.. motham daily involvement..rules restrictions. cheppinde vinali type.. pichi lepevaru pinni ki andf contnues

nenu vella last year, authoritative behavior etc.. oka 2 days undi jump baboy..malli ponu.. ee kalam ammayi aithe rendu reverse lo thomudhi anukunna, but nuvvu cheppina scenario chusthe except those rod ladies, every else ok for suffering #MiddleClass 

thome valu unnaru 

thomichukune valu unnaru

felli aite kani telidu situqtion enti ani

[Paidithalli]

1 minute ago, karthikn said:

mom's cousin(pinni) husband.. athanu TX lo settled from early 2000s .. picha torture he and his parents.. motham daily involvement..rules restrictions. cheppinde vinali type.. pichi lepevaru pinni ki andf contnues

nenu vella last year, authoritative behavior etc.. oka 2 days undi jump baboy..malli ponu.. ee kalam ammayi aithe rendu reverse lo thomudhi anukunna, but nuvvu cheppina scenario chusthe except those rod ladies, every else ok for suffering #MiddleClass 

Mee pinni ki nijanga dhandam pettali . Chinna godavaki kuda eerojullo ammailu ardham cheskunela leru .. really chala great mee pinni 

[JollyBoy]

1 minute ago, karthikn said:

already fixed nenu full argument aithayi ani.. so it's good ,will be mentally prepared lol.. 

good for u  . atleast kothaga em undadu

expected kabatti

[karthikn]

3 minutes ago, Paidithalli said:

Mee pinni ki nijanga dhandam pettali . Chinna godavaki kuda eerojullo ammailu ardham cheskunela leru .. really chala great mee pinni 

agreed.. mom adhe antadhi she is great ani... inka aame brought up in hyderabad.. asalu who will suffer daily mental torture.. 

kompa 14K lot size hai.. deniki if no relative comes lol 

[Amrita]

1 hour ago, karthikn said:

mom's cousin(pinni) husband.. athanu TX lo settled from early 2000s .. picha torture he and his parents.. motham daily involvement..rules restrictions. cheppinde vinali type.. pichi lepevaru pinni ki andf contnues

nenu vella last year, authoritative behavior etc.. oka 2 days undi jump baboy..malli ponu.. ee kalam ammayi aithe rendu reverse lo thomudhi anukunna, but nuvvu cheppina scenario chusthe except those rod ladies, every else ok for suffering #MiddleClass 

Prev generation most men were authoritative. Few are lucky whose husband was very understanding. Anduke middle class ammayilaki adjusting em pedda kashtam kadu pinni, peddammma, atha's . cousins life chusi married life ante adjustment ani teens lo telisipotundi whether someone tell them or not. Oka age/individuality vachaka we can fight for some things ani telustundi kani mari extreme ki vellaru ilanti environment lo perigina vallu. Also financial backing/ family bg also plays a role. Baga paisal unte family support unte anta adjust karu. Parents aey vedhava veshalu cheste intloki kuda raniyyaru ani clarity unte they adjust with hsuband better  i think. Anduke pelli ayyaka middle class lo parents ammayi life lo involve karu. Preti daniki ni husband and in laws ishtam antaru frustration vachina its good for their family in some aspects. Alano kiratakudaite valle deggariki tesukuntaru so thats for good though konni aspects lo its dangerous.

[Amrita]

1 hour ago, karthikn said:

agreed.. mom adhe antadhi she is great ani... inka aame brought up in hyderabad.. asalu who will suffer daily mental torture.. 

kompa 14K lot size hai.. deniki if no relative comes lol 

Ma pinni, peddamma kind of same life. Andaru vastaru relatives though but they have absolutely no say. US lo undi kuda ila unnaru ante i feel surprised. Vallu torture ani kuda anukovatledu and they say our husbands love us adi just valla nature antaru. I think they got adjusted to that in these years that they dont even think thats torture. Malla andariki help chestaru family lo financially and they love all but very ego centric dominating people. My mom is extremely lucky prev generation lone my dad treated my mom as equal. 

[jefferson1]

5 hours ago, Amrita said:

It depends on person to person . One list don't apply for all but after i started to understand world and have more guy friends my observations are 

Positives :

1. Guys are less selfish. They are just not over obsessed with their own family.  They try to help friends and people they care even if they aren't close family/friends.

2.  Most men  good husband/ boy friend ayina kakapoyina  they are good father's/ brothers / sons.

3. Most good men want a girl who genuinely love him and care  his kids/family. Educated ammayi kavali anukuntaru kani they dont eye on her income and choose her for the same .

4. Premiste preminche ammayi kosam emaina chestaru but anta honest ga preminchadame kashtam.

5.  10 men can be together in harmony but three women cannot live without fighting under same roof seems to be fair statement.

6.   Men risk more in most aspects anduke their growth rate is great ( Ex:  Financially (Investments, stocks, real estate, saving plans etc ))

7.  Not all but considerable percentage of men has clarity about what they want and has clarity about future. 

8. E rojullo men talk and support their wife if their mom is wrong . This is big change from past generation.

9. E rojullo reasonable % of men are helping wife in kitchen. 

10. Men look tough but emotionally they are very weak and child like. Manchi relationship unte fortunately they do everything possible under sun for their loved ones . 

11. Bayata men are more gentle towards women.  Adavallu gatti gattiga arichina they are usually silent , patient and try to end the fight  without continuing arguments that much. I am really surprised by their patience. Ariche mogavallu raising pitch chala chala takkuva.

12. Men do not think too much about future like women. 

 

 

Negatives:

1. Guys lie a lot for impressing a girl. Cannot just believe them by what they talk ( Need to be critical while believing them . If they start talking too nice just consider it all fake). 

2.  Pelli ayye varaku chachina don't believe a guy 100% you never know when their stand changes. Natistunnaro genuine oo cheppadam kashtam so be in your limits so that you dont have to regret much later.

3. Appulu eda peda chestaru even beyond their capacities. Calculated risk anedi vallaki ishtam ayina vishyam lo out of equation ayipotundi.

4. Respect lekapote ego hurt ayyi gila gila kottukuntaru. Prema is blind folded when ego is hurt. Easy ga em marchiporu though they act that way.

5. Some men are very fickle minded/ confused/egostic and try to dominate the other person . Freedom, space , agree/disagree undadu. They think premiste vallani kukka ni pandi anamanna anali anukuntaru anakapote tattukoleru.

6. Women are men's weakness so husband ni enta ammayila deggara nunchi dooram unchite anta better. Kompa eppudu kolleru avutundo cheppalem. 

7. Cannot treat a woman equal to them how smart she is.  Society + raising issue edi but change avvadam ishtapadaru. I feel they know it inside but just cant agree. 

8. Most men don't know how to console a woman,. They want to solve problems when all that is needed is a hearing ear. 

9. Men are very closed and not expressive about their emotions . Very very hard to understand. They behave weird when in a problem.

10. Men do not think too much about future like women. 

 

Some are contrasting points but all kind of people untaru so just my observations. I might be wrong too because i cant generalize billions of men based on my circle.

those two comments are funny

[SushmaReddy]

5 hours ago, jefferson1 said:

What are somethings you noticed about guys that you liked in recent years 

list them here pls 

Kindness 

[jefferson1]

3 minutes ago, SushmaReddy said:

Kindness 

just one?

[SushmaReddy]

Just now, jefferson1 said:

just one?

Richness