Amrita Posted July 21, 2019 Report Share Posted July 21, 2019 14 hours ago, Peddayana said: no confusion , I accepted the fact that kids will eventually leave and live their own lives whether they grow up here or in India timepass discussions ivvanni , India lo unna , parents/in-laws will be in a different city , vallu intlo unte daily interference tattukolem, it will be okay for an year or so but after that problems will start in marriage , atta idi andi , kodalu idi andi ani , not practical these days , thats the fact , kadu ani chepptollu andaru sollu telling ikkaada 20 years undi last lo regret avutunnaru anta , anta fake pakodi stories , they know all these things , ikkadi vachadu ante avi anni alochinche vastharu , like they care more about career than parents etc, again kadu ani chepputollu sollu telling anni telisi ,life antha bathiki , chivariki ee sodhi cheptaru next gen ki , regret adi idi ani ,gooba meedha kottali yedavalni Good post !! 100% agreed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samaja_varagamana Posted July 21, 2019 Report Share Posted July 21, 2019 16 hours ago, Peddayana said: no confusion , I accepted the fact that kids will eventually leave and live their own lives whether they grow up here or in India timepass discussions ivvanni , India lo unna , parents/in-laws will be in a different city , vallu intlo unte daily interference tattukolem, it will be okay for an year or so but after that problems will start in marriage , atta idi andi , kodalu idi andi ani , not practical these days , thats the fact , kadu ani chepptollu andaru sollu telling ikkaada 20 years undi last lo regret avutunnaru anta , anta fake pakodi stories , they know all these things , ikkadi vachadu ante avi anni alochinche vastharu , like they care more about career than parents etc, again kadu ani chepputollu sollu telling anni telisi ,life antha bathiki , chivariki ee sodhi cheptaru next gen ki , regret adi idi ani ,gooba meedha kottali yedavalni kids or parents chepale pedayana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amrita Posted July 21, 2019 Report Share Posted July 21, 2019 18 minutes ago, samaja_varagamana said: kids or parents chepale pedayana Present situation based selfishness tone untam in our comfort zone .I have seen parents who lost value being too much with kids pani manushulu valla pillalaki. Same with children who live with parents in joint families . When they are old appudu responsibility and we have to take care with humanity at least . Appadi Varaku evadi freedom to valla comfort zone undadam better and is also peaceful . My parents tell me when I argue why they can’t live with me for 6 months as they are retired now . Moham mida ma Amma cheppindi we like our independence too . Pillala deggara depend ayyi undalemu Enta baga chusina miru hyd lo ma intlo unteney maku happy ga untundi avasaram ayinappudu miku tappakunda vastamu ani . I was hurt but she is right . Ah age lo vallaki valla freedom is important they can’t live being frustrated in US . I was glad she told on face unlike my other aunts and uncles who are living very unhappily with kids here . Relationships will be awesome when people live in their own lines whether be parents or kids . Deggara unte pedda Vallu chadastam apukoleka nalugu salahalu istaru adi manaku chirak Manam deggara unte kuda cheptam vallaki chirak vastundi e age lo restricting ani . When in need we should support each other anthe . 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pipucbn Posted July 21, 2019 Report Share Posted July 21, 2019 4 minutes ago, Amrita said: Present situation based selfishness tone untam in our comfort zone .I have seen parents who lost value being too much with kids pani manushulu valla pillalaki. Same with children who live with parents in joint families . When they are old appudu responsibility and we have to take care with humanity at least . Appadi Varaku evadi freedom to valla comfort zone undadam better and is also peaceful . My parents tell me when I argue why they can’t live with me for 6 months as they are retired now . Moham mida ma Amma cheppindi we like our independence too . Pillala deggara depend ayyi undalemu Enta baga chusina miru hyd lo ma intlo unteney maku happy ga untundi avasaram ayinappudu miku tappakunda vastamu ani . I was hurt but she is right . Ah age lo vallaki valla freedom is important they can’t live being frustrated in US . I was glad she told on face unlike my other aunts and uncles who are living very unhappily with kids here . Relationships will be awesome when people live in their own lines whether be parents or kids . Deggara unte pedda Vallu chadastam apukoleka nalugu salahalu istaru adi manaku chirak Manam deggara unte kuda cheptam vallaki chirak vastundi e age lo restricting ani . When in need we should support each other anthe . As it is reply.... Maa intlo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amrita Posted July 21, 2019 Report Share Posted July 21, 2019 6 minutes ago, Pipucbn said: As it is reply.... Maa intlo What ever makes them happy anthe can’t frustrate them at this age Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
user789 Posted July 21, 2019 Report Share Posted July 21, 2019 1 hour ago, Amrita said: Present situation based selfishness tone untam in our comfort zone .I have seen parents who lost value being too much with kids pani manushulu valla pillalaki. Same with children who live with parents in joint families . When they are old appudu responsibility and we have to take care with humanity at least . Appadi Varaku evadi freedom to valla comfort zone undadam better and is also peaceful . My parents tell me when I argue why they can’t live with me for 6 months as they are retired now . Moham mida ma Amma cheppindi we like our independence too . Pillala deggara depend ayyi undalemu Enta baga chusina miru hyd lo ma intlo unteney maku happy ga untundi avasaram ayinappudu miku tappakunda vastamu ani . I was hurt but she is right . Ah age lo vallaki valla freedom is important they can’t live being frustrated in US . I was glad she told on face unlike my other aunts and uncles who are living very unhappily with kids here . Relationships will be awesome when people live in their own lines whether be parents or kids . Deggara unte pedda Vallu chadastam apukoleka nalugu salahalu istaru adi manaku chirak Manam deggara unte kuda cheptam vallaki chirak vastundi e age lo restricting ani . When in need we should support each other anthe . Most parents think about kids future & hapiness.. but when they go through tough times (health wise) I bet Almost all parents would prefer a son/daughter next to them... Even though they are tough .. & have good Will power.. Thats when as a kid one needs to decide..what is important being away or next to them to take care.. away - I don’t mean not even visiting .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
user789 Posted July 21, 2019 Report Share Posted July 21, 2019 1 hour ago, samaja_varagamana said: kids or parents chepale pedayana Neither anta Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
user789 Posted July 21, 2019 Report Share Posted July 21, 2019 6 hours ago, samaja_varagamana said: enduku raja ? neeku inka pelli avaledhu...neeku altanitivi ardham avadani chala time unde le... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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kevinUsa Posted July 21, 2019 Report Share Posted July 21, 2019 simple guys necessity of living evadi bathuku vadi brathakali ante Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
user789 Posted July 21, 2019 Report Share Posted July 21, 2019 16 minutes ago, kevinUsa said: simple guys necessity of living evadi bathuku vadi brathakali ante Adi telavake ne vaadu post vesadu.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samaja_varagamana Posted July 21, 2019 Report Share Posted July 21, 2019 27 minutes ago, user789 said: neeku inka pelli avaledhu...neeku altanitivi ardham avadani chala time unde le... telusukunta bro plz chepachu ga Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amrita Posted July 22, 2019 Report Share Posted July 22, 2019 2 hours ago, user789 said: Most parents think about kids future & hapiness.. but when they go through tough times (health wise) I bet Almost all parents would prefer a son/daughter next to them... Even though they are tough .. & have good Will power.. Thats when as a kid one needs to decide..what is important being away or next to them to take care.. away - I don’t mean not even visiting .. Anduke i said health issues appudu and when they really need moral support have to support ani. Daughter in law/ son in law parents to undadam is kinda next to impossible and not practical . Unna manashanti kuda potundemo vallaki. Own kids aey adjust avvadam kashtam inka bayata nunchi vachina vallu same intlo undi chusukovadam anedi i doubt how much possible. Prema ekkada untundi spouse kosam cheyadame tappa? Bhakthi TV deggara nunchi vastayi godavalu. It is very easy said than done 3 hours ago, Amrita said: Present situation based selfishness tone untam in our comfort zone .I have seen parents who lost value being too much with kids pani manushulu valla pillalaki. Same with children who live with parents in joint families . When they are old appudu responsibility and we have to take care with humanity at least . Appadi Varaku evadi freedom to valla comfort zone undadam better and is also peaceful . My parents tell me when I argue why they can’t live with me for 6 months as they are retired now . Moham mida ma Amma cheppindi we like our independence too . Pillala deggara depend ayyi undalemu Enta baga chusina miru hyd lo ma intlo unteney maku happy ga untundi avasaram ayinappudu miku tappakunda vastamu ani . I was hurt but she is right . Ah age lo vallaki valla freedom is important they can’t live being frustrated in US . I was glad she told on face unlike my other aunts and uncles who are living very unhappily with kids here . Relationships will be awesome when people live in their own lines whether be parents or kids . Deggara unte pedda Vallu chadastam apukoleka nalugu salahalu istaru adi manaku chirak Manam deggara unte kuda cheptam vallaki chirak vastundi e age lo restricting ani . When in need we should support each other anthe . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevinUsa Posted July 22, 2019 Report Share Posted July 22, 2019 58 minutes ago, user789 said: Adi telavake ne vaadu post vesadu.. exactly remember our parents have left for the city leaving our grandparents. we left the country leaving our parents our kids will do the same. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
r2d2 Posted July 22, 2019 Report Share Posted July 22, 2019 Just now, kevinUsa said: exactly remember our parents have left for the city leaving our grandparents. we left the country leaving our parents our kids will do the same. Ekkadiki elthaaru.. China? Moon? Mars? kal kya hoga kisko patha.. abhi zindagika lelo mazaa.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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