Parents or Children Confusion?

[Amrita]

14 hours ago, Peddayana said:

no confusion , I accepted the fact that kids will eventually leave and live their own lives whether they grow up here or in India

timepass discussions ivvanni , India lo unna , parents/in-laws will be in a different city , vallu intlo unte daily interference tattukolem, it will be okay for an year or so but after that problems will start in marriage , atta idi andi , kodalu idi andi ani , not practical these days , thats the fact , kadu ani chepptollu andaru sollu telling

ikkaada 20 years undi last lo regret avutunnaru anta , anta fake pakodi stories , they know all these things , ikkadi vachadu ante avi anni alochinche vastharu , like they care more about career than parents etc, again kadu ani chepputollu sollu telling

anni telisi ,life antha bathiki , chivariki ee sodhi cheptaru next gen ki  , regret adi idi ani ,gooba meedha kottali yedavalni

Good post !! 100% agreed.

[samaja_varagamana]

16 hours ago, Peddayana said:

no confusion , I accepted the fact that kids will eventually leave and live their own lives whether they grow up here or in India

timepass discussions ivvanni , India lo unna , parents/in-laws will be in a different city , vallu intlo unte daily interference tattukolem, it will be okay for an year or so but after that problems will start in marriage , atta idi andi , kodalu idi andi ani , not practical these days , thats the fact , kadu ani chepptollu andaru sollu telling

ikkaada 20 years undi last lo regret avutunnaru anta , anta fake pakodi stories , they know all these things , ikkadi vachadu ante avi anni alochinche vastharu , like they care more about career than parents etc, again kadu ani chepputollu sollu telling

anni telisi ,life antha bathiki , chivariki ee sodhi cheptaru next gen ki  , regret adi idi ani ,gooba meedha kottali yedavalni

kids or parents chepale pedayana

[Amrita]

18 minutes ago, samaja_varagamana said:

kids or parents chepale pedayana

Present situation based selfishness tone untam in our comfort zone .I  have seen parents who lost value being too much with kids pani manushulu valla pillalaki. Same with children  who live with parents in joint families . When they are old appudu responsibility and we have to take care with humanity at least . Appadi Varaku evadi freedom to valla comfort zone undadam better and is also peaceful . 

My parents tell me when I argue why they can’t live with me for 6 months as they are retired now . Moham mida ma Amma cheppindi we like our independence too . Pillala deggara depend ayyi undalemu Enta baga chusina miru hyd lo ma intlo unteney maku happy ga untundi avasaram ayinappudu miku tappakunda vastamu ani . I was hurt but she is right . Ah age lo vallaki valla freedom is important they can’t live being frustrated in US . I was glad she told on face unlike my other aunts and uncles who are living very unhappily with kids here . 

Relationships will be awesome when people live in their own lines whether be parents or kids . Deggara unte pedda Vallu chadastam apukoleka nalugu salahalu istaru adi manaku chirak Manam deggara unte kuda cheptam vallaki chirak vastundi e age lo restricting ani . When in need we should support each other anthe . 

[Pipucbn]

4 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Present situation based selfishness tone untam in our comfort zone .I  have seen parents who lost value being too much with kids pani manushulu valla pillalaki. Same with children  who live with parents in joint families . When they are old appudu responsibility and we have to take care with humanity at least . Appadi Varaku evadi freedom to valla comfort zone undadam better and is also peaceful . 

My parents tell me when I argue why they can’t live with me for 6 months as they are retired now . Moham mida ma Amma cheppindi we like our independence too . Pillala deggara depend ayyi undalemu Enta baga chusina miru hyd lo ma intlo unteney maku happy ga untundi avasaram ayinappudu miku tappakunda vastamu ani . I was hurt but she is right . Ah age lo vallaki valla freedom is important they can’t live being frustrated in US . I was glad she told on face unlike my other aunts and uncles who are living very unhappily with kids here . 

Relationships will be awesome when people live in their own lines whether be parents or kids . Deggara unte pedda Vallu chadastam apukoleka nalugu salahalu istaru adi manaku chirak Manam deggara unte kuda cheptam vallaki chirak vastundi e age lo restricting ani . When in need we should support each other anthe . 

As it is reply.... Maa intlo

[Amrita]

6 minutes ago, Pipucbn said:

As it is reply.... Maa intlo

What ever makes them happy anthe can’t frustrate them at this age

[user789]

1 hour ago, Amrita said:

Present situation based selfishness tone untam in our comfort zone .I  have seen parents who lost value being too much with kids pani manushulu valla pillalaki. Same with children  who live with parents in joint families . When they are old appudu responsibility and we have to take care with humanity at least . Appadi Varaku evadi freedom to valla comfort zone undadam better and is also peaceful . 

My parents tell me when I argue why they can’t live with me for 6 months as they are retired now . Moham mida ma Amma cheppindi we like our independence too . Pillala deggara depend ayyi undalemu Enta baga chusina miru hyd lo ma intlo unteney maku happy ga untundi avasaram ayinappudu miku tappakunda vastamu ani . I was hurt but she is right . Ah age lo vallaki valla freedom is important they can’t live being frustrated in US . I was glad she told on face unlike my other aunts and uncles who are living very unhappily with kids here . 

Relationships will be awesome when people live in their own lines whether be parents or kids . Deggara unte pedda Vallu chadastam apukoleka nalugu salahalu istaru adi manaku chirak Manam deggara unte kuda cheptam vallaki chirak vastundi e age lo restricting ani . When in need we should support each other anthe . 

Most parents think about kids future & hapiness.. but when they go through tough times (health wise) I bet Almost all parents would prefer a son/daughter next to them... Even though they are tough .. & have good Will power..

Thats when as a kid one needs to decide..what is important being away or next to them to take care.. 

away - I don’t mean not even visiting ..

[user789]

1 hour ago, samaja_varagamana said:

kids or parents chepale pedayana

Neither anta 

[user789]

6 hours ago, samaja_varagamana said:

enduku raja ?

neeku inka pelli avaledhu...neeku altanitivi ardham avadani chala time unde le...

[r2d2]

 

[kevinUsa]

simple guys

necessity of living evadi bathuku vadi brathakali ante

[user789]

16 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

simple guys

necessity of living evadi bathuku vadi brathakali ante

Adi telavake ne vaadu post vesadu..

[samaja_varagamana]

27 minutes ago, user789 said:

neeku inka pelli avaledhu...neeku altanitivi ardham avadani chala time unde le...

telusukunta bro plz chepachu ga

[Amrita]

2 hours ago, user789 said:

Most parents think about kids future & hapiness.. but when they go through tough times (health wise) I bet Almost all parents would prefer a son/daughter next to them... Even though they are tough .. & have good Will power..

Thats when as a kid one needs to decide..what is important being away or next to them to take care.. 

away - I don’t mean not even visiting ..

Anduke i said health issues appudu and when they really need  moral support have to support ani. Daughter in law/ son in law parents to undadam is kinda next to impossible and not practical . Unna manashanti kuda potundemo vallaki. Own kids aey adjust avvadam kashtam inka bayata nunchi vachina vallu same intlo undi chusukovadam anedi i doubt how much possible. Prema ekkada untundi spouse kosam cheyadame tappa? Bhakthi TV deggara nunchi vastayi godavalu. It is very easy said than done 

3 hours ago, Amrita said:

Present situation based selfishness tone untam in our comfort zone .I  have seen parents who lost value being too much with kids pani manushulu valla pillalaki. Same with children  who live with parents in joint families . When they are old appudu responsibility and we have to take care with humanity at least . Appadi Varaku evadi freedom to valla comfort zone undadam better and is also peaceful . 

My parents tell me when I argue why they can’t live with me for 6 months as they are retired now . Moham mida ma Amma cheppindi we like our independence too . Pillala deggara depend ayyi undalemu Enta baga chusina miru hyd lo ma intlo unteney maku happy ga untundi avasaram ayinappudu miku tappakunda vastamu ani . I was hurt but she is right . Ah age lo vallaki valla freedom is important they can’t live being frustrated in US . I was glad she told on face unlike my other aunts and uncles who are living very unhappily with kids here . 

Relationships will be awesome when people live in their own lines whether be parents or kids . Deggara unte pedda Vallu chadastam apukoleka nalugu salahalu istaru adi manaku chirak Manam deggara unte kuda cheptam vallaki chirak vastundi e age lo restricting ani . When in need we should support each other anthe . 

 

[kevinUsa]

58 minutes ago, user789 said:

Adi telavake ne vaadu post vesadu..

exactly

remember our parents have left for the city leaving our grandparents.

we left the country leaving our parents

our kids will do the same.

 

[r2d2]

Just now, kevinUsa said:

exactly

remember our parents have left for the city leaving our grandparents.

we left the country leaving our parents

our kids will do the same.

 

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