Calling aryeman

[sboyr2r]

In other thread you mentioned abt being in open relationship, what do you get out of this ?? 

@aryeman

just curious. 

[LazyRohit]

46 minutes ago, sboyr2r said:

In other thread you mentioned abt being in open relationship, what do you get out of this ?? 

@aryeman

just curious. 

post thread link maaa 

[aryeman]

In short better relationship and needs addressed. She works in west coast and I work in east coast, as so much we want to work our monogamy relationship, our job schedules and long distance doesn't let us keep up with our physical needs. We don't care how other people structure their relationships as long as everything is ethical and consensual. We keep each other informed on whom and when we are meeting, there is no point of jealousy, cheating or feeling abandoned. I know monogamy is the perfect relationship for almost everyone and it has worked for many, no relationship model can predict the success of other relationship which might work well for them based on their compatability. We set some ground rules initially, they didn't matter to us after couple of meets as we were within our limits and never stepped on each others toes. I'm not saying this works for everyone, but fortunately we found it serves us well.

[snoww]

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[ShwethaNaidu]

4 hours ago, sboyr2r said:

In other thread you mentioned abt being in open relationship, what do you get out of this ?? 

@aryeman

just curious. 

Idiot 

[LazyRohit]

11 minutes ago, aryeman said:

In short better relationship and needs addressed. She works in west coast and I work in east coast, as so much we want to work our monogamy relationship, our job schedules and long distance doesn't let us keep up with our physical needs. We don't care how other people structure their relationships as long as everything is ethical and consensual. We keep each other informed on whom and when we are meeting, there is no point of jealousy, cheating or feeling abandoned. I know monogamy is the perfect relationship for almost everyone and it has worked for many, no relationship model can predict the success of other relationship which might work well for them based on their compatability. We set some ground rules initially, they didn't matter to us after couple of meets as we were within our limits and never stepped on each others toes. I'm not saying this works for everyone, but fortunately we found it serves us well.

[sboyr2r]

10 minutes ago, aryeman said:

In short better relationship and needs addressed. She works in west coast and I work in east coast, as so much we want to work our monogamy relationship, our job schedules and long distance doesn't let us keep up with our physical needs. We don't care how other people structure their relationships as long as everything is ethical and consensual. We keep each other informed on whom and when we are meeting, there is no point of jealousy, cheating or feeling abandoned. I know monogamy is the perfect relationship for almost everyone and it has worked for many, no relationship model can predict the success of other relationship which might work well for them based on their compatability. We set some ground rules initially, they didn't matter to us after couple of meets as we were within our limits and never stepped on each others toes. I'm not saying this works for everyone, but fortunately we found it serves us well.

That’s actually interesting. 

May be we are hardwired to tend to get attached to the persons or things. So when we are in a wedlock (not just relationship/dating or whatsoever) we take it as exclusive, may be in your case you are detached with your wife (May be in a sense that you own her/or you have complete rights on her) 

but what gets interesting is that what happens when you guys have kids ?? Do you think you guys will continue the same. What if your wife bears child of other guy without letting you know, later you come to know. 

What if, this thing started casual with random guy or girl with your wife or you, then you get to attached to the third person seeing each other without letting your partner know and the story goes on. how would address those kind of situations. 

[sboyr2r]

15 minutes ago, ShwethaNaidu said:

Idiot 

Nee g 

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[LazyRohit]

10 minutes ago, sboyr2r said:

That’s actually interesting. 

May be we are hardwired to tend to get attached to the persons or things. So when we are in a wedlock (not just relationship/dating or whatsoever) we take it as exclusive, may be in your case you are detached with your wife (May be in a sense that you own her/or you have complete rights on her) 

but what gets interesting is that what happens when you guys have kids ?? Do you think you guys will continue the same. What if your wife bears child of other guy without letting you know, later you come to know. 

What if, this thing started casual with random guy or girl with your wife or you, then you get to attached to the third person seeing each other without letting your partner know and the story goes on. how would address those kind of situations. 

endi e raccha

TS pelli ayyi open relationship a?

[sboyr2r]

2 minutes ago, LazyRohit said:

endi e raccha

TS pelli ayyi open relationship a?

Yes nohit sharma 

[aryeman]

13 minutes ago, sboyr2r said:

That’s actually interesting. 

May be we are hardwired to tend to get attached to the persons or things. So when we are in a wedlock (not just relationship/dating or whatsoever) we take it as exclusive, may be in your case you are detached with your wife (May be in a sense that you own her/or you have complete rights on her) 

but what gets interesting is that what happens when you guys have kids ?? Do you think you guys will continue the same. What if your wife bears child of other guy without letting you know, later you come to know. 

What if, this thing started casual with random guy or girl with your wife or you, then you get to attached to the third person seeing each other without letting your partner know and the story goes on. how would address those kind of situations. 

We don't have any plans for kids in near future. We will decide when we are ready for that phase. And, bearing a child of other person, it would happen only if we want it to happen. We don't want it to, so we use protection and precaution. Getting attached to someone works the same way when you are in monogamy relationship, what happens when you are attracted and have feelings while you are married? And what if all of that happens behind your back? There is no way you could guarantee a relationship by restrictions. Atleast we are honest to each other and know what we want.

[LazyRohit]

idedo biscuit evvaram la vundi nammable ga ledu man

[sboyr2r]

Just now, aryeman said:

We don't have any plans for kids in near future. We will decide when we are ready for that phase. And, bearing a child of other person, it would happen only if we want it to happen. We don't want it to, so we use protection and precaution. Getting attached to someone works the same way when you are in monogamy relationship, what happens when you are attracted and have feelings while you are married? And what if all of that happens behind your back? There is no way you could guarantee a relationship by restrictions. Atleast we are honest to each other and know what we want.

Agreed bro, to what you say. 

Monogamous relationship gurinchii kaadu, ppl mindset change, sometime you come across a person whom your are smitten by his aura/persona whatever the crap and you want to experience to be with him/her for rest of the life, see manasu chanchalam you can’t control it unless you are a yogi. So aa situations arise ayinappudu you or your partner cannot control whatever the case is appudu em chestaru ani na question. 

Monogamous relationship lo if you eff around, they seek separation or get separated and the other partner can do  whatever effing the want to do. 

Open lo you are already in a situation what if your significant other want to get detached with you appudu what will you do anedi naa yokka qochen 

[sboyr2r]

3 minutes ago, LazyRohit said:

idedo biscuit evvaram la vundi nammable ga ledu man

Nammakura gif esuko