2 minutes ago, Scada said:

My take away is as follows.

1. Set expectations and boundaries from the beginning. 

2. If she is sure that you not capable of getting another romantic partner... in that case she will take you for granted .. She will not be on her toes. Time to time self improvement lekapothe evarina granted ga tiskuni disco adistaru..anduke nuv kakapothe ikokathi ane abundance mentality important ani na opinion. ( Women make rules for betas and break rules for Alphas)

3. The one who needs the other the least, will be in control of relationship. 

4. Yeah honey moon phase tarvata ...responsibilities and partner pros and cons telustai kabatti bajana anipistadi..adi ekadina common a kadha.

5. Relationship lo unapudu dont lose yourself for the other person happiness. Its ok to compromise now and then though.

6. Open communication pakka undali...temper motham build up iyaka okey sari 10 topics meda  blast ipothe relationship lo cracks osthai.

7. Inka you cannot buy a camry and change it into an Accord. Picking the partner is extremely important so that abiprayalu will match.. alavatlu match avakapoina parledu in the long term.

8. Godavalu ekada ostunayi ante one partner trying to change other or forcing to do something that other wont do.. e aspect lo another partner ki controlling ga looking. So try to pick a partner with similar mental outlook/perspective so that both will get along smoothly.

over to @Amrita

 

 

Akka already selavu ichharu. Bagne vnnav ninna doubt vachindi ado thodu needa ante. Line lo ki vachav Nice boy 

5 minutes ago, Scada said:

My take away is as follows.

1. Set expectations and boundaries from the beginning. 

2. If she is sure that you not capable of getting another romantic partner... in that case she will take you for granted .. She will not be on her toes. Time to time self improvement lekapothe evarina granted ga tiskuni disco adistaru..anduke nuv kakapothe ikokathi ane abundance mentality important ani na opinion. ( Women make rules for betas and break rules for Alphas)

3. The one who needs the other the least, will be in control of relationship. 

4. Yeah honey moon phase tarvata ...responsibilities and partner pros and cons telustai kabatti bajana anipistadi..adi ekadina common a kadha.

5. Relationship lo unapudu dont lose yourself for the other person happiness. Its ok to compromise now and then though.

6. Open communication pakka undali...temper motham build up iyaka okey sari 10 topics meda  blast ipothe relationship lo cracks osthai.

7. Inka you cannot buy a camry and change it into an Accord. Picking the partner is extremely important so that abiprayalu will match.. alavatlu match avakapoina parledu in the long term.

8. Godavalu ekada ostunayi ante one partner trying to change other or forcing to do something that other wont do.. e aspect lo another partner ki controlling ga looking. So try to pick a partner with similar mental outlook/perspective so that both will get along smoothly.

over to @Amrita

 

 

2 tappa i agree on all other points. Oka mogavadikey inko ammayi dorikite ammayiki abbayilu dorakara? Thats too bad. Never play emotionally to keep other person in control. Win with love not power. My husband cannot live without me is gelupu potademo vadilesi anedi bhayam tinnado ledo anedi prema pettakapote emaipotadu anedi compassion. Evanni lekapote ( not bhayam others) pelli waste better be single. 

2 minutes ago, Jombo0108 said:

Ok mam. Evening pooja annaru ado post lo happy ga cheskondi.

Thanks !

6 minutes ago, Scada said:

My take away is as follows.

1. Set expectations and boundaries from the beginning. 

2.  Time to time self improvement lekapothe evarina granted ga tiskuni disco adistaru..anduke nuv kakapothe ikokathi ane abundance mentality important ani na opinion. ( Women make rules for betas and break rules for Alphas)

3. The one who needs the other the least, will be in control of relationship. 

4. Yeah honey moon phase tarvata ...responsibilities and partner pros and cons telustai kabatti bajana anipistadi..adi ekadina common a kadha.

5. Relationship lo unapudu dont lose yourself for the other person happiness. Its ok to compromise now and then though.

6. Open communication pakka undali...temper motham build up iyaka okey sari 10 topics meda  blast ipothe relationship lo cracks osthai.

7. Inka you cannot buy a camry and change it into an Accord. Picking the partner is extremely important so that abiprayalu will match.. alavatlu match avakapoina parledu in the long term.

8. Godavalu ekada ostunayi ante one partner trying to change other or forcing to do something that other wont do.. e aspect lo another partner ki controlling ga looking. So try to pick a partner with similar mental outlook/perspective so that both will get along smoothly.

over to @Amrita

 

evaru babu nuvvu.....Db lo disco ni serious ga teeskoni minutes of meeting taayar chesaav

Just now, panipoori said:

evaru babu nuvvu.....Db lo disco ni serious ga teeskoni minutes of meeting taayar chesaav

pani paata em  ledu eroju

7 minutes ago, Amrita said:

2 tappa i agree on all other points. Oka mogavadikey inko ammayi dorikite ammayiki abbayilu dorakara? Thats too bad. Never play emotionally to keep other person in control. Win with love not power. My husband cannot live without me is gelupu potademo vadilesi anedi bhayam tinnado ledo anedi prema pettakapote emaipotadu anedi compassion. Evanni lekapote ( not bhayam others) pelli waste better be single. 

can't agree more 

35 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Two people living together will have so many issues just like with roommates. Honey moon phase varaku lust valla bavuntundi but men and women wiring is also different appudu inka chirakulu parakulu common.  Few can build love and realtionship meanwhile and that drives them to be together all life. Reality sink to expectation set chesukoni pelli chesukunte regret avvaru . Unrealistic ga unte frustration peaks lo untundi. Mogudu ki batta tala vachi chendalam ga untadu pellam dobbu setu avvachu ane factors kuda realistic sync undali. Some husbands always want wives to be slim akkada nunchi pillala diaper marche varaku laundry touch any topic evi untayi. Marriage is not a rosy rosy dream tale shown on TV. Ninna other thread lo kuda ade cheppa nenu. Marriage is glorified as ultimate destination but it doesnt suit everyone if they are not ready to compromise and make sacrifices for family.

well said

dobbu setu anta lol

8 minutes ago, panipoori said:

evaru babu nuvvu.....Db lo disco ni serious ga teeskoni minutes of meeting taayar chesaav

Chala ba summarize chestunnadu infact i want to copy and keep them.  Edi ayite manam repeated ga anukuntamo ade avutam. Spirituality concept kuda satsang ki same reason edaite repeated ga vintu antu untamo ade avutamu. 

 

12 minutes ago, Scada said:

pani paata em  ledu eroju

You are awesome bro i am serious. You will be successful in personal and professional life. 

1 minute ago, Amrita said:

 

 

idi nijamena?

3 minutes ago, LazyRohit said:

idi nijamena?

For me it is !!  Puranalu satsang lu enduku ? Adhyatimikata pustakalu cant make permanent impact. Touch lo untu untene ade path lo untam. It can be applied to any aspect of life is my feeling. Positive thoughts and positive ppl to unte manamu + ve ga untam negative depressed people to unte manam alane tayaravutam. Energy influence chala untundi. i believe this 100% we become what we think subconsciously. 

3 minutes ago, Amrita said:

You are awesome bro i am serious. You will be successful in personal and professional life. 

thanks akka...na confidence ni boost chesaru

Just now, Amrita said:

For me it is !!  Puranalu satsang lo enduku ? Adhyatimikata pustakalu cant make permanent impact. Touch lo untu untene ade path lo untam. It can be applied to any aspect of life is my feeling. Positive thoughts and positive ppl to unte manamu + ve ga untam negative depressed people to unte manam alane tayaravutam. Energy influence chala untundi. i believe this 100% as we because what we think subconsciously. 

Paralu paralu rasthunaru me opika 😲 your crossing potti narsi in this matter

1 minute ago, Scada said:

thanks akka...na confidence ni boost chesaru

1 minute ago, alpachinao said:

Paralu paralu rasthunaru me opika 😲 your crossing potti narsi in this matter

I take it as compliment na varasudu @Scada ney