Mid 30’s Crisis

[Amrita]

3 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

I believe everyone goes through some sort of crisis. How you get out of it varies between person to person 

That crisis need not be in mid age is my point. Life interesting ga lead cheyadam anedi ma chetulloney untundi. Daniki kuda badhakam ayite em cheyalem. Also need to be content and appreciate what we have in life. Anni undi privileged ayyi undi inka crisis ante whom will we blame except our perspective ? Agree to disagree though. 

[Unityunity2]

Just now, Rushabhi said:

I believe everyone goes through some sort of crisis. How you get out of it varies between person to person 

Crisis will be more with responsibilites.. if you take less responsibilities..you will be younger always 

[Sarvapindi]

9 minutes ago, Amrita said:

I dont believe it exists. 60's lo 20's la feel ayyi active unde vallu unnaru and 20's lo musalolla laga active lekunda weekend vaste nidra poyevallu unnaru. E crisis tokka totakura life interesting ga lead cheyaleni vallaki untayi. Age is just a number. 

neku pelli ayi pillal unte telustadi

[Amrita]

6 minutes ago, Sarvapindi said:

neku pelli ayi pillal unte telustadi

Every person is different. Andari lives same undavu. It depends on the way we want to lead life. Mostly our choices. Anyways cant argue now not being there oka vela ah time ki DB lo unte i will comeback and reply you again.

[Rushabhi]

7 minutes ago, Unityunity2 said:

Crisis will be more with responsibilites.. if you take less responsibilities..you will be younger always 

No then you go through a different kind of crisis. Evaru kosam ee life anna deeniki vastham by 40s

[r2d2]

A crisis is when one has to take an important/difficult decision.. it need not always have negative connotations...

[riashli]

Na routine last 5 yrs nundi change avvaledu peddaga, but I have no complaints

[Unityunity2]

34 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

No then you go through a different kind of crisis. Evaru kosam ee life anna deeniki vastham by 40s

That's our typical indian mentality. life will for you and your partner only. Don't expect anything's  from kids 

[srinima]

1 hour ago, RPG_Reloaded said:

Define enjoyment antunna @TOM_BHAYYA

Enjoyment edho peekudam ani kadhu... monthly once oka movie oka pub aney chinna chinna saradalu kuda levu.. maa iddariki time dorakadam ledhu... 

[LazyRohit]

3 hours ago, AndhraneedSCS said:

1) Pelli ayithe wife torture kakapothe prathiokkadu pelli eppudu ani torture.. 

2) Pelli ayyina tarvatha pillalu unte oka torture lekapothe. inka pillalu lera ani torture 

3) Oka kid ni kanna tarvatha, 2nd kid eppudu ani.. Kid ki bore kodtundi ani kotta torture 

4) ee Kids gola ala undaga.. madyalo wife job chestanu ani cheyyanu ani oka gola 

5) ika kid koncham perugutunte valla school, after school activities (Kumon, Karate, Dance, Swimming, ....)

 

 

Ila oka dani tarvatha inkokati.. veetiki thodu hospitals and Dr visits 

 

 

[Somedude]

4 hours ago, mettastar said:

40s lo emanna change untadantava

Alavataudhindhi.

[RPG_Reloaded]

39 minutes ago, srinima said:

Enjoyment edho peekudam ani kadhu... monthly once oka movie oka pub aney chinna chinna saradalu kuda levu.. maa iddariki time dorakadam ledhu... 

Send them india

enjoy here with u r wife

[Somedude]

4 hours ago, RPG_Reloaded said:

Career munduku saagadam ledu

chex life boring

kids ni raise cheyadam vaalla buttex wash cheyadam

us la undal leka India 10geyala ane confusion

 

ivannee undaga joy miss autunna ane feel vastundha?

 

 

 

 

 

3 hours ago, AndhraneedSCS said:

1) Pelli ayithe wife torture kakapothe prathiokkadu pelli eppudu ani torture.. 

2) Pelli ayyina tarvatha pillalu unte oka torture lekapothe. inka pillalu lera ani torture 

3) Oka kid ni kanna tarvatha, 2nd kid eppudu ani.. Kid ki bore kodtundi ani kotta torture 

4) ee Kids gola ala undaga.. madyalo wife job chestanu ani cheyyanu ani oka gola 

5) ika kid koncham perugutunte valla school, after school activities (Kumon, Karate, Dance, Swimming, ....)

 

 

Ila oka dani tarvatha inkokati.. veetiki thodu hospitals and Dr visits 

 

 

 

4 hours ago, srinima said:

Same here 34  age with 2 kids... diapers and hospital and chores... ivi tappa not able to enjoy more

 

3 hours ago, Bestguy said:

Same here vallani 2 schools lo drop cheytam picking..More over health issues side lo..Life lo peace anedhi ledhu..

 

Forget what people may think here. With the experience you have gone through, if the life has given you second chance, do prefer the same life again? Like marriage, kids and etc. Or do you prefer being single. Honest opinion. Choosing either option wouldn't make you less of a good dad towards your kids. I could see you guys are a bit frustated because you are performing the dad's responsiblity very well. Thats why you are not able to enjoy the other things. We see some people who don't care about what you guy do and just enjoy with their lives even after the kids - irresponsbile parenting.

[Sarvapindi]

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[samaja_varagamana]

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