Cation Posted September 27, 2019 Report Posted September 27, 2019 1 minute ago, MagaMaharaju said: I used to be in this phase long time ago. now I settled for being a mediocre I can't seem to settle. Quote
meri_zindagi Posted September 27, 2019 Report Posted September 27, 2019 11 minutes ago, Cation said: I can't seem to settle. Jus keep working towards your expectations. Never settle down. There are some tricks not to fall into depression. Find what works for you. 1 Quote
DummyVariable Posted September 27, 2019 Report Posted September 27, 2019 On 9/27/2019 at 1:57 PM, Cation said: Myself, I get depressed because I set too high expectations for myself. This is followed by being overwhelmed, depression and lethargy in the same order. And the cycle continues. Sounds like you are just conditioning yourself to feel extremely sad whenever you failed to achieve your goals. People fail when they try to achieve a lot in a short period of time. Play the long innings. Choose targets that can only be achieved in the long term. Quote
DummyVariable Posted September 27, 2019 Report Posted September 27, 2019 6 minutes ago, meri_zindagi said: Jus keep working towards your expectations. Never settle down. There are some tricks not to fall into depression. Find what works for you. Be Narcissistic. Quote
panipoori Posted September 27, 2019 Report Posted September 27, 2019 25 minutes ago, Cation said: Myself, I get depressed because I set too high expectations for myself. This is followed by being overwhelmed, depression and lethargy in the same order. And the cycle continues. PhD effect Quote
MagaMaharaju Posted September 27, 2019 Report Posted September 27, 2019 3 minutes ago, DummyVariable said: Be Narcissistic. Am becoming one now Quote
DummyVariable Posted September 27, 2019 Report Posted September 27, 2019 6 minutes ago, panipoori said: PhD effect Vadhilela levuga. 🤨 Quote
Cation Posted September 27, 2019 Report Posted September 27, 2019 9 minutes ago, DummyVariable said: Sounds like you are just conditioning yourself to feel extremely sad whenever you could not achieve your goals. People fail when they try to achieve a lot in a short period of time. Play the long innings. Choose targets that can only be achieved in the long term. I don't need your advice, but @thanks for trying. I tend to have unrealistic expectations so I can push myself. I feel sad sometimes, but who doesn't? Besides, I have too much to do that I won't kill myself. So, what should I be worried about? Mental health? Not really a concern at the moment. Quote
meri_zindagi Posted September 27, 2019 Report Posted September 27, 2019 6 minutes ago, DummyVariable said: Be Narcissistic. Up to what level ? Highly narcissistic person is not grounded to reality. They cant empathize others. I don't want to be such. Btw You can't dictate me... I will be me. Quote
DummyVariable Posted September 27, 2019 Report Posted September 27, 2019 8 minutes ago, meri_zindagi said: Up to what level ? Highly narcissistic person is not grounded to reality. They cant empathize others. I don't want to be such. Btw You can't dictate me... I will be me. Why should one have empathy? Quote
DummyVariable Posted September 27, 2019 Report Posted September 27, 2019 17 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said: Am becoming one now Quote
DummyVariable Posted September 27, 2019 Report Posted September 27, 2019 21 minutes ago, Cation said: I don't need your advice, but @thanks for trying. I tend to have unrealistic expectations so I can push myself. I feel sad sometimes, but who doesn't? Besides, I have too much to do that I won't kill myself. So, what should I be worried about? Mental health? Not really a concern at the moment. If you know that there is a chance that you can fail then why feel sad? Quote
panipoori Posted September 27, 2019 Report Posted September 27, 2019 24 minutes ago, DummyVariable said: Vadhilela levuga. 🤨 Just letting one taste their own medicine Quote
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.