Divorce

[MathuloMazaahhh]

23 minutes ago, EisMcSquare said:

Check personal messages box . 

Thanks for the details and your time 

[Prada_lover]

People plz 

Dont just say “ get divorce “ it’s not so easy especially with a kid 

Think about kids life , he will grow up as insecured And Vulnerable 

Also its not easy being a divorced women India lo Anta mali, vammoo that’s one heck of a life 

NO she have to be financially independent and then rest will fall into place 

[pahelwan]

27 minutes ago, Prada_lover said:

People plz 

Dont just say “ get divorce “ it’s not so easy especially with a kid 

Think about kids life , he will grow up as insecured And Vulnerable 

Also its not easy being a divorced women India lo Anta mali, vammoo that’s one heck of a life 

NO she have to be financially independent and then rest will fall into place 

So kottina sampina undalantav

[meri_zindagi]

19 minutes ago, pahelwan said:

So kottina sampina undalantav

Tirigi kotti line lo pettagalgithe better ani @Prada_lover meant

[EisMcSquare]

2 hours ago, DummyVariable said:

@EisMcSquare uncle ee point ki em antaru?

 

Ok I will answer you.  Let me tell you this my dad died in accident in when I was in 9th class,  when I was in 10th class  my mother could not even afford school ofcourse relatives were there but help was limited.

The point I am telling here,  a women with out  husband( or strong men support ) is  treated very badly in society.  Many bad men in society will try to take  advantage of  such women, they are treated badly. I know it personally how mom  was being treated in society . Society looks  such women very badly.  I dont want  go in much details , if  I put with specific cases  whats happening society then your blood will boil... I knew it  bcoz I have seen it .  Just imagine.. how we feel if some one ask our  mother to come and sleep if she goes any govt office (  let it municipal office, revenue office ,  banks).

@Prada_lover  said correctly.  Its very difficult  ,  such women need to play a smart step. Patience is factor, and this patience is weapon of harassing  people. i.e that is women patience  (weakness) is bad mens power to  torture them.

Yes she needs financial support but its not easy, if she is educated she can find job depending on the location where she is living.  She has to play smart.  Just like sindu sharma a daughter in law  judge  collected all evidences(videos)  of in laws harassment. 

Step 1) Take  a help of people i.e right people who  dont take side  , these people should also be powerfull( has good command in family or society) .Some cases If I have seen, some good police will call to police station to talk and  tell them firstly nicely   and then I will warn indirectly. Basically a good counselling is needed for both parties. 

Step 2) If Step 1) fails  after specific time its the legal terms..  to get separated..

Step 2) Is very painful its not just for women, its for men    , i mean to say separation is painful  spot which stays in heart for life long  those who are honest. We see many being cheated by girls.. and such men  who loved  honestly will suffer alot.  Luckily society never harasses men  but society people (some people) will harass for women for sure..

For any women these  standing on their own feet is very important irrespective of financial status.

If you come across any such women if your friends.. just support them , i.e  morally, boost their confidence... 

Lastly guys dont make  fun such topics requesting for help , A small moral boost can save a life.I know  personally some people who commit suicide . A small phone call conversation can boost their confidence.

Let it be women or men.Just try to help.

[AleAle]

Life is meant to be happy and peaceful 

One life short life 

kukkalu morgutune untay evadiki tochinattu but in real no one helps salahalu ivdaniki untaru leda adadani jeevitanni lokuva chesi matladtaru

she deserves peace ,make peace with life,u can’t control any one except  u 

if he/she is killing with their deeds it’s must to leave them and move on 

aa abusive harassment relationship lo unte life expectancy kuda taggipotadi

no one knows life Ela turn avtundo,ipdu evo  salahalu istu women life kastam sodi ani matladevallu matalu patinchukoddu,these words self sympathy and weak chestay 

self sympathy chala dangerous never encourage that ,tell her to be strong and move on .

 

[Prada_lover]

1 hour ago, pahelwan said:

So kottina sampina undalantav

Nenu ala antala ,0ka  solid plan undali ga overnight paripovataniki Idhi cinema kadu ga , mana pilla Eam chiranjeevi kuturu kadu ga okadu kaadu ante inkokadu edho middle class life 

solution financial ga strong undatam money money money so a pilla first job aa job tho she will get busy koncham koncham lifestyle change ravachu 

I know her heart is broken she no longer wants to live with him but kids kosam konni rojullu compromise avalsindhe 

1 hour ago, meri_zindagi said:

Tirigi kotti line lo pettagalgithe better ani @Prada_lover meant

Tirigi kottadalu kottukovatalu won’t solve problems 

Koncham ego pakana petti pros cons think cheskoni future map Esko mantuna 

 

[AleAle]

Be independent , hardworking ,knowledgeable .when u become strong ,people start admiring you 

divorce or single doesn’t matter people admire that woman ofcourse jealous toh online trolling chese vedavalu untaru

[AleAle]

36 minutes ago, Prada_lover said:

Nenu ala antala ,0ka  solid plan undali ga overnight paripovataniki Idhi cinema kadu ga , mana pilla Eam chiranjeevi kuturu kadu ga okadu kaadu ante inkokadu edho middle class life 

solution financial ga strong undatam money money money so a pilla first job aa job tho she will get busy koncham koncham lifestyle change ravachu 

I know her heart is broken she no longer wants to live with him but kids kosam konni rojullu compromise avalsindhe 

Tirigi kottadalu kottukovatalu won’t solve problems 

Koncham ego pakana petti pros cons think cheskoni future map Esko mantuna 

 

She has to move on ,financially independent avvali tanu and things will fall at place ,that is sure 

[riashli]

12 minutes ago, AleAle said:

Life is meant to be happy and peaceful 

One life short life 

kukkalu morgutune untay evadiki tochinattu but in real no one helps salahalu ivdaniki untaru leda adadani jeevitanni lokuva chesi matladtaru

she deserves peace ,make peace with life,u can’t control any one except  u 

if he/she is killing with their deeds it’s must to leave them and move on 

aa abusive harassment relationship lo unte life expectancy kuda taggipotadi

no one knows life Ela turn avtundo,ipdu evo  salahalu istu women life kastam sodi ani matladevallu matalu patinchukoddu,these words self sympathy and weak chestay 

self sympathy chala dangerous never encourage that ,tell her to be strong and move on .

 

+Million 

[MathuloMazaahhh]

Thanks for all the support @MagaMaharaju @EisMcSquare @AleAle @Prada_lover

 

[EisMcSquare]

Respect women. Being men we are physiological strong then women, that does not make us to command a women , we we should welcome discussion of course discussion goes hot.. but we need to remember its 
" WE" as family hurting each other with words / action/ physically is very bad. 

Women goes through alot from monthly cycles  , taking care of kids , taking of men, cooking for men, taking care of elders.  As a men we never see how much pain a women faces when she carries a baby.. to deliver with full blood bleeding.   

[Prada_lover]

15 minutes ago, AleAle said:

Be independent , hardworking ,knowledgeable .when u become strong ,people start admiring you 

divorce or single doesn’t matter people admire that woman ofcourse jealous toh online trolling chese vedavalu untaru

K

[Peter123]

hope all this gets settled for her...🙏

[JollyBoy]

financial independence lekunda.. family support lekudna chala kastam..  as a thrid person manam enni cheppina she has to make her own decision and be content with it. rising kid as a single mother is tough in indian society. hope she finds peace in whatever she decides.