amma nanna going back

[kreole]

2 hours ago, proudtobeandhrite said:

1. Both women and men are providers for the family. It is apparent that there is miscommunication/miusunderstanding, so if the girl didnt have maturity as a better half husband should explain.

2. In india they got financial freedom. When they are in western countries they got both financial and societal freedom. Ammayi abbayi parents ni chudali lekapothe maturity ledu antaaru kaani abbayi ammayiki and her family ki respect ivvalani matram chepparu. If lot of women are entitled, then you should have know that Indian men are so entitled and in this trend for equality they should starting understand and give up their entitlement.

You dont want to be rude, as  a matter of fact your words are not rude, but your entitlement/chuvanism is rude... Since you are point only a girl.

1. Both women and men are providers for the family. It is apparent that there is miscommunication/miusunderstanding, so if the girl didnt have maturity as a better half husband should explain.--Why is there an expectation here for the husband to be the better half? If you want equality, be responsible equally. 

 

2. In india they got financial freedom. When they are in western countries they got both financial and societal freedom. Ammayi abbayi parents ni chudali lekapothe maturity ledu antaaru kaani abbayi ammayiki and her family ki respect ivvalani matram chepparu. If lot of women are entitled, then you should have know that Indian men are so entitled and in this trend for equality they should starting understand and give up their entitlement.

You dont want to be rude, as  a matter of fact your words are not rude, but your entitlement/chuvanism is rude... Since you are point only a girl-- When i say that she should understand his responsibilities towards his parents that does nt mean that the guy is free to be an ass towards her parents. Ee context abbayidhi but even then I thought I mentioned men too when I said "entitled". Ee male chauvinism sodhi inka apandi, the society changed a lot in their attitudes towards women. Women get treated equally or even better these days. There is still progress to be made but we are getting there.

 

[abulu]

Sorry Guys deep upset so unable to respond and answer. Never mind. 

Thanks for those heart warming messages and those who understand the pain of leaving amma anna due to your karma. 

all I can say is I am alone in USA, despite having wife and kids thats not giving me so much happiness when amma nanna is also there. 

Nenu epudana baytaki velthe amma vuntundhi chusukontundhi pillalani ani namakam vundedhi, ipudu memu idarame chusukovali do or die. 

Idarme fight cheyali e desam lo. Chala fight chesa, but epatiki ila cheyale ante kastam kani tapadhu. 

I want to show this otherside world to them but I dont have that luck those who others have. 

 

[BostonBullodu]

2 minutes ago, abulu said:

Sorry Guys deep upset so unable to respond and answer. Never mind. 

Thanks for those heart warming messages and those who understand the pain of leaving amma anna due to your karma. 

all I can say is I am alone in USA, despite having wife and kids thats not giving me so much happiness when amma nanna is also there. 

Nenu epudana baytaki velthe amma vuntundhi chusukontundhi pillalani ani namakam vundedhi, ipudu memu idarame chusukovali do or die. 

Idarme fight cheyali e desam lo. Chala fight chesa, but epatiki ila cheyale ante kastam kani tapadhu. 

 

adedo USA lo nuvvu okkadive ala unnattu cheptunnav kada na yaaldhiii 

[riashli]

11 minutes ago, abulu said:

Sorry Guys deep upset so unable to respond and answer. Never mind. 

Thanks for those heart warming messages and those who understand the pain of leaving amma anna due to your karma. 

all I can say is I am alone in USA, despite having wife and kids thats not giving me so much happiness when amma nanna is also there. 

Nenu epudana baytaki velthe amma vuntundhi chusukontundhi pillalani ani namakam vundedhi, ipudu memu idarame chusukovali do or die. 

Idarme fight cheyali e desam lo. Chala fight chesa, but epatiki ila cheyale ante kastam kani tapadhu. 

I want to show this otherside world to them but I dont have that luck those who others have. 

 

Papam nuvvu 

[futureofandhra]

23 minutes ago, kreole said:

1. Both women and men are providers for the family. It is apparent that there is miscommunication/miusunderstanding, so if the girl didnt have maturity as a better half husband should explain.--Why is there an expectation here for the husband to be the better half? If you want equality, be responsible equally. 

 

2. In india they got financial freedom. When they are in western countries they got both financial and societal freedom. Ammayi abbayi parents ni chudali lekapothe maturity ledu antaaru kaani abbayi ammayiki and her family ki respect ivvalani matram chepparu. If lot of women are entitled, then you should have know that Indian men are so entitled and in this trend for equality they should starting understand and give up their entitlement.

You dont want to be rude, as  a matter of fact your words are not rude, but your entitlement/chuvanism is rude... Since you are point only a girl-- When i say that she should understand his responsibilities towards his parents that does nt mean that the guy is free to be an ass towards her parents. Ee context abbayidhi but even then I thought I mentioned men too when I said "entitled". Ee male chauvinism sodhi inka apandi, the society changed a lot in their attitudes towards women. Women get treated equally or even better these days. There is still progress to be made but we are getting there.

 

Male chauvinism na lol 😂

Those days are gone

[HEROO]

16 minutes ago, abulu said:

Sorry Guys deep upset so unable to respond and answer. Never mind. 

Thanks for those heart warming messages and those who understand the pain of leaving amma anna due to your karma. 

all I can say is I am alone in USA, despite having wife and kids thats not giving me so much happiness when amma nanna is also there. 

Nenu epudana baytaki velthe amma vuntundhi chusukontundhi pillalani ani namakam vundedhi, ipudu memu idarame chusukovali do or die. 

Idarme fight cheyali e desam lo. Chala fight chesa, but epatiki ila cheyale ante kastam kani tapadhu. 

I want to show this otherside world to them but I dont have that luck those who others have. 

 

Siggu sharam emmana vunda ra abulu neeku

[Scada]

1 minute ago, HEROO said:

Siggu sharam emmana vunda ra abulu neeku

+1

[abulu]

12 minutes ago, riashli said:

Papam nuvvu 

 

8 minutes ago, futureofandhra said:

Male chauvinism na lol 😂

Those days are gone

 

20 minutes ago, BostonBullodu said:

adedo USA lo nuvvu okkadive ala unnattu cheptunnav kada na yaaldhiii 

Sorry you guys dont know my situation., Just you guys dont know my situation. Its been a years I stepped outside of the home other than work and groceries. 

I have little toddler who needs attention which is common but the other kid is special needs kid. 

[ILOVEGIRLS]

Just now, abulu said:

Sorry you guys dont know my situation., Just you guys dont know my situation. Its been a years I stepped outside of the home other than work and groceries. 

I have little toddler who needs attention which is common but the other kid is special needs kid. 

Sorry bro for your situation, time will answer all your issues. Time will answer all your issues. Try to send one kid to India may be some ease. 

[BostonBullodu]

3 minutes ago, abulu said:

 

 

Sorry you guys dont know my situation., Just you guys dont know my situation. Its been a years I stepped outside of the home other than work and groceries. 

I have little toddler who needs attention which is common but the other kid is special needs kid. 

malli repeat chesthunna you don't know many people's situation in USA nuvvu okkadive kadu ikkada chala mandi unnaru just that you didn't stepped outside of your home or network.. 

[proudtobeandhrite]

39 minutes ago, kreole said:

1. Both women and men are providers for the family. It is apparent that there is miscommunication/miusunderstanding, so if the girl didnt have maturity as a better half husband should explain.--Why is there an expectation here for the husband to be the better half? If you want equality, be responsible equally.  My intent was to say Equal... Better half ani generic ga use chesa...

 

2. In india they got financial freedom. When they are in western countries they got both financial and societal freedom. Ammayi abbayi parents ni chudali lekapothe maturity ledu antaaru kaani abbayi ammayiki and her family ki respect ivvalani matram chepparu. If lot of women are entitled, then you should have know that Indian men are so entitled and in this trend for equality they should starting understand and give up their entitlement.

You dont want to be rude, as  a matter of fact your words are not rude, but your entitlement/chuvanism is rude... Since you are point only a girl-- When i say that she should understand his responsibilities towards his parents that does nt mean that the guy is free to be an ass towards her parents. Ee context abbayidhi but even then I thought I mentioned men too when I said "entitled". Ee male chauvinism sodhi inka apandi, the society changed a lot in their attitudes towards women. Women get treated equally or even better these days. There is still progress to be made but we are getting there. You might be comparing older generation to current generation males, in that scenario, i agree with you. My point was its not up to the mark ani.  I agree with still progress to be made part. I disagree with women are treated equally or even better statement. You used similar wording "equal or even better" in entitlement part, hence, my explanation regarding entitlement.

 

 

[proudtobeandhrite]

13 minutes ago, abulu said:

 

 

Sorry you guys dont know my situation., Just you guys dont know my situation. Its been a years I stepped outside of the home other than work and groceries. 

I have little toddler who needs attention which is common but the other kid is special needs kid. 

This might be causing the issues. Start planning things around your kids, keep your self busy. I know this is harder than said and i understand it will drain your energy. Start going to the support groups for parents with special needs kids. Make friends within that group and plan activities together with families. Your wife might be overwhelmed with your parents around, as her energy, like yours, is drained with kids and don't have energy to address your parents. Communicate with her about your issues and plans. Communication is the KEY.

Don't ever victimize yourself and its never gonna help.

 

[BeautyQueen]

34 minutes ago, abulu said:

 

 

Sorry you guys dont know my situation., Just you guys dont know my situation. Its been a years I stepped outside of the home other than work and groceries. 

I have little toddler who needs attention which is common but the other kid is special needs kid. 

Sorry man for your troubles, specially your kid . Special needs kid antey chala work Untundi and attention Ivvali and I have seen how difficult and emotional it is. Really feeling for u! Dont worry. Focus on ur kids future and wife tho kuda matladi kids meeda focus pettandi. I am sure ur parents also understand.  I didnt know u had a specil needs kid.. now I understand all ur posts and problems and depression. Keep sharing ur thoughts here man atleast neeku manasulo bharam tagguthundi. Peace. 

[ILOVEGIRLS]

42 minutes ago, BostonBullodu said:

malli repeat chesthunna you don't know many people's situation in USA nuvvu okkadive kadu ikkada chala mandi unnaru just that you didn't stepped outside of your home or network.. 

ne lolli yendira. Papam athanedho athani badha share chesukuntunadu. Special needs kid ante ardam telusa neku, why every one has special needs kid? ma friend koduku vunadu he is 5 years and he dont eat on his own. 

Someone always need to watch him what he will do ani. Its not easy life for everyone who is in that situation. 

[BostonBullodu]

1 minute ago, ILOVEGIRLS said:

ne lolli yendira. Papam athanedho athani badha share chesukuntunadu. Special needs kid ante ardam telusa neku, why every one has special needs kid? ma friend koduku vunadu he is 5 years and he dont eat on his own. 

Someone always need to watch him what he will do ani. Its not easy life for everyone who is in that situation. 

arey babu naku telusu kabatte anna nayanaa na lolli neekenduku raaa