Thappad

[sboyr2r]

19 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

Naaku kids leru. Siblings valla kids entha nag chesina kottanu. Kallu pedhavi chesi choostha arustha. Antha varake nenu chesedhi. Ippudu parenting antha actions and consequences meedha run avuthondi ga. Kids ni kottina vallaki ardham kaadhu ani naa feeling. Debbalaki alavatu padipotharu , chese pani parents ki teleekunda chestharu or else mondiga ayipotharu.

nee kids ni sibling kids ni oka laga chudavu period. 

out of context. 

 

mondiga ippudu kuda avtunnar. don't divert to parenting. 

nenu cheppindi entii kids ni eduku odilesav context to they are not equal to adults annattu matladithe I said they are emotional beings too adults and kids ani differnce chupivaddu ani cheppa ante 

 

[meri_zindagi]

4 minutes ago, Ellen said:

It's everywhere , not just husband wife . Narcissism ekada unte akada Gaslighting vachestadi

But I am afraid, Mari intha minute level lo chusthe,. Relationships too much complicate avtayi emo.

[Rushabhi]

4 minutes ago, IRVK said:

Ida parents enduku vachare mental

miru ila mata mata ki parents to link edataru kabate miku thappads padtai.

Civilized ga discuss cheyyaleka pothe like @sboyr2r or @DummyVariable did get out discussion nunchi. Discussion can be done with equals only.

[Ellen]

Just now, meri_zindagi said:

But I am afraid, Mari intha minute level lo chusthe,. Relationships too much complicate avtayi emo.

Andaru narcissistic enduku untaru , unnollu itla pichi pichi manipulate chesi pakka vallaki mental teppistaru ani cheptunna, indulo manam chuddanki em le, some people drive us insane. You have such abusive bosses too. 

[Rushabhi]

2 minutes ago, sboyr2r said:

nee kids ni sibling kids ni oka laga chudavu period. 

out of context. 

 

mondiga ippudu kuda avtunnar. don't divert to parenting. 

nenu cheppindi entii kids ni eduku odilesav context to they are not equal to adults annattu matladithe I said they are emotional beings too adults and kids ani differnce chupivaddu ani cheppa ante 

 

Right. Not saying no. Pillala tho ekkuva touch ledhu. Anduke teesuku raaledhu discussion loki

[meri_zindagi]

4 minutes ago, sboyr2r said:

nee kids ni sibling kids ni oka laga chudavu period. 

out of context. 

 

mondiga ippudu kuda avtunnar. don't divert to parenting. 

nenu cheppindi entii kids ni eduku odilesav context to they are not equal to adults annattu matladithe I said they are emotional beings too adults and kids ani differnce chupivaddu ani cheppa ante 

 

It was easy to take it in other way. Sorry dude.

[Scurvy]

27 minutes ago, Ellen said:

Sarcasm kaadane clarification ichina. Ma amma nanna nannu kuda badakesi uthike pencharu. But ivala repu kuda kodtara annattu asked. Our days are long gone. It's not a very good method to beat kids ani na feeling. Anduke itla psychollaga mana frustration lu eeda anonymous ga teerchukunta tirgutunam. Epudu evadni tokkeddama evadni criticise cheddama ani oka false superiority la bathkutam

Ala em ledu le baa . Atleast they are being blunt and honest in expressing their views where they try to be pleasers and snow flakes in real life.

[Rushabhi]

1 minute ago, Ellen said:

Andaru narcissistic enduku untaru , unnollu itla pichi pichi manipulate chesi pakka vallaki mental teppistaru ani cheptunna, indulo manam chuddanki em le, some people drive us insane. You have such abusive bosses too. 

Abusive bosses saw the effects of it. Maa husband lo. Oorike bayapadatam. Emante emavuthundi ani anxiety attacks ravatam choosa. Enni rakalu ga try chesina workout avvaledhu. Job maaratame workout ayyindi. Unfortunately pelli ayithe antha easy kaadhu ga exit avvatam. 
Nenu notice chesindi enti ante abbayilaki ekkuva effect untundi. Wives emotional abuse chesthunnaru ani bayataki vasthe abbayilu generally society ardham chesukodhu

[LazyRohit]

14 minutes ago, meri_zindagi said:

Konthamandi jump ikkada chusava

Aa rotta movie ni trailer ke meeru inta disco cheste repu movie ayyaka min 100 pages emo

Humans are not machines to be cool always 

[IRVK]

4 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

Civilized ga discuss cheyyaleka pothe like @sboyr2r or @DummyVariable did get out discussion nunchi. Discussion can be done with equals only.

nik sammaga edite civilized reply...direct ga edite uncivilized reply anukuntunav... valu chepndi kuda same...

respect elders ani sadkoleda ‘civilized’ fellow? parents ki link enduk ane adiga kada you loser. 

nido lavdalo discussion mali danki rules..

[Ellen]

18 minutes ago, Scurvy said:

Ala em ledu le baa . Atleast they are being blunt and honest in expressing their views where they try to be pleasers and snow flakes in real life.

I understand bhayya.

Na badha kuda endante mari venna poosa laga undakkarle kani simple ga chepta bhayya....mana time lo majority of us had no other way but to grow up in a certain way like do well in studies and pick a certain job. Mana parents kuda chala harsh environments lo perigaru, so manato konchem strict unde. We are in a better position today and we provide much more sophisticated environments for them to grow up in. Intha posh posh ga untu, pillalni moratu ga penchite non-synch ayyi friction pergutadi. Today's children have a different kind of awareness and so do parents. Manaki kuda chala awareness vachesindi like emotional control ela undali etc veeti meeda. Alantapudu kids ni kottentha kopam , mana meeda manaki control lekapovadam lanti chinna vishyalu kuda teliyakapote , we won't fit well in the society

[redsox]

[Rushabhi]

1 minute ago, IRVK said:

nik sammaga edite civilized reply...direct ga edite uncivilized reply anukuntunav... valu chepndi kuda same...

respect elders ani sadkoleda ‘civilized’ fellow? parents ki link enduk ane adiga kada you loser. 

nido lavdalo discussion mali danki rules..

You are the loser bayya. Naa point kooda adhe. Respect elders so vallanu kottamu. Kodithe samskaram ledhu anukuntam. Valla meedha kooda chala sarlu kopam vasthundi but kottamu. Since it is a worst thing to do. Why not extrapolate the same thinking to spouse ani naa point

[Prada_lover]

15 minutes ago, sboyr2r said:

Is gas lighting to only hubby/wife or relationships  -- or can it be attributed to frndshps too ?? 

flying monkeys aithe DB lo vunnar anukunta --- for H1 amendment/extension or GC issues trump is the reason 

Flying monkeys are supporters of narassists 

for example oka hubby emotionally harassing wife intlo but bayata wala daggara he acts as a good person even her parents believe he is a good guy 

oka roju ilage one thappad and she leaves home he calls in-laws and says that he cares abt her so much she is just depressed and retard so mom starts fight with daughter to go back cause guy is nice she is overreacting for one thappad ,every family has issues girl has to adjust, girl never listens mom starts second stage calling her names , comparing to other women and saying how she is a loser for not adjusting ,blackmailing , wat society thinks kinda abuse 

in this story girls mom is a flying monkey believing narassist and abusing the victim 

 

[Ellen]

9 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

Abusive bosses saw the effects of it. Maa husband lo. Oorike bayapadatam. Emante emavuthundi ani anxiety attacks ravatam choosa. Enni rakalu ga try chesina workout avvaledhu. Job maaratame workout ayyindi. Unfortunately pelli ayithe antha easy kaadhu ga exit avvatam. 
Nenu notice chesindi enti ante abbayilaki ekkuva effect untundi. Wives emotional abuse chesthunnaru ani bayataki vasthe abbayilu generally society ardham chesukodhu

Sad