Need advise brothers (situation is bad)

[Sarvapindi]

2 minutes ago, vin421 said:

Bro, i did already. She is unable to lose it. It's not upto her. Some people are obese anthe. I don't want to blame her and push too much about her body.

Try lipo surgery...

[vin421]

2 minutes ago, Paidithalli said:

Chex ante enti ? Inserting 🌭 into a 🍩. 
ammai rupurekhalu, andhachandhalu, etthupallalu kanna aa 5-10 mins erect ayina nee d!ck ni donut lo petti ...vancha theeskodame sex

ee picchi normal ga unte kamam... that’s normal ... ekkuva unte madham... adhe rapist laki undedhi 

kamam anedhi thappu ledhu. D!ck erect avthundhi ante dhantlo blood circulate avthundhi anthe anedhi ... chex ante inthena? Ane roju neeku ardham avthundhi .

nee wife chex vishayam lo thappa inkem vishayam lo problem lekunte naccha cheppuko thanaki ... bathimalu, bujjaginchu, Nuvvu kuda thanatho gym Ki vellu . Personal care edho nuvve theesko ...

body lo Oka part lo blood circulation kosam jeevithanni buggipalu cheskoku

 

vere problems unnai. she annoys me a bit but light le. i must be annoying to her too. Immediate problem is sex life.

 

 

[vin421]

Just now, Sarvapindi said:

Try lipo surgery...

good idea...

[Paidithalli]

1 minute ago, kathanayaka said:

okadiki heroine istam. okadiki colleague istam .. okadiki PANI MANISHI istam .. neeku enduku ra ivanni. evadi priorities aadivi

Heroin ishtamunnodu maha ayithe shag cheskuntadu anthe 😂

[Paidithalli]

1 minute ago, vin421 said:

good idea...

Haha 😂 lupo okkasari flop kuda ayithadhi Ex:arthi Agarwal 

[nashpen94]

55 minutes ago, vin421 said:

konni years kritham maa wife ni kalisa. appatlo kodiga boddhuga undedi but bagundedi and baga gym ki velledi but ipudu chala laavuga tayaraindi. nenemo entha tinna laavu avanu. body type anhta. public loki velthe ibbandiga untundi, tanu laavuga and nenu sannamga. sarle idi vadileddam.

main problem vachi sexual life. naaku sannam ga or average ga unde ammailu istam. maa wife tho sex interest poindi. ipudu life bore kodutundi. apudapudu istam leni sex, adi kuda tanu adigithene. tanu bayatiki velinapudu nenu porn chusukuntu, hands use chestunta. atleast 4 to 5 times a week. 

naa life ok for now. no issues anywhere.

bayatiki poyi evarina manchi ammaini chusukundamanipistundi. kaani tanani cheat cheyalanipinchatledu. inka life inthena anipistundi? please advise brothers. ilanti situation lo evarina unnara? emina solution unda?

wife gym ki veltundi. kaani results sunna. i think tanu chala less exercise chestundi but ade ekkuvanukundemo. oh and rojantha tintune untundi, she eats good diet though.

ilaane life aipotundemo. i really really need a change.

please serious advises only. thanks in advance!

 

Update: naaku oka FWB ammayi undedi, ipudu kuda touch lo untundi. vere state lo untundi. maa iddariki marriages ayipoyaka, memu light teesukunnam but alanti figure kavali anipistundi. her figure is like ananya paandey. FWB restart cheyalani undi tanatho but i don't know tanu emantundo. Also feeling bad to cheat. BUT don't want to waste life. inko 10-15 years lo, sex elanu enjoy cheyalenu. so age unnapude enjoy cheyali kada..........

This is a serious issue. You need to do few things from your side.

First thing you need to do is stop jerking off to porn. If you keep fantasizing about porn stars, you will never be able to find your wife attractive and enjoy sex with her. Make a note of how many times you're jerking off to porn and slowly bring it to 0 in a few weeks (very difficult but you have to do it)

Next, talk to your wife about you not enjoying sex compared to before and say you have some ideas about how to make it better. Don't be blunt and say I don't find you attractive, it will make things worse.

Genes play a huge role in how one looks. Not sure how women look in your wife's extended family, but you have to realize that it's not going to be easy for your wife to become the way you want her to be and be realistic. You have a role to play in her losing weight. You can start going to gym along with her, build muscle and inspire her. Go to hiking/walking with her often and inspire/encourage her towards losing weight. You switch to a healthier diet as well and make sure you both stick to it. Just going to gym and eating decent food won't be enough to become slim. There should be a plan, best way to do is to consult a RD and come up with a custom plan for her.

Going to counselling helps depending upon your wife's mentality. Not everyone can be open to visiting counselor and making changes in life.

If you think from your wife's side, she might not have any clue about all of this and just leading a normal life. You just can't fantasize and expect her to become the way you want without working on this and helping her.

The thoughts of cheating is dangerous and not good for you emotionally/mentally. You probably need to see a counselor for this or talk to your close friend who can talk to you regularly and keep you away from these thoughts.

It will take time for things to change. Just don't sit and do nothing and think within yourself.

 

[vin421]

31 minutes ago, Mirage said:

Not the right thing to do buddy, IMO. I mean it’s up-to you, finally. But.. Why don’t you both go to a professional marriage counselor once the corona situation becomes better?

also, I’m assuming her thyroid functioning and all are good and the weight gain is not because of underlying health issues

ya, she might. healthy kaane untundi but underlying issues undachu.

counselling waste bro. problem is i have some needs which she can't fulfill. counsellor can't do anything for that.

[Paidithalli]

Doggy ishtama bro neeku ... ma friend okadu masth lavunna papà ni cheskunnadu. She’s very rich . Paisal kosam cheskunnava ani memu edipisthunte daily doggy cheskocchu. We’re good in our sex life annadu .. 

[Sarvapindi]

3 minutes ago, Paidithalli said:

Haha 😂 lupo okkasari flop kuda ayithadhi Ex:arthi Agarwal 

 Very rare...manchi doctors daggariki vellali anduke

[Scada]

[Mirage]

5 minutes ago, nashpen94 said:

This is a serious issue. You need to do few things from your side.

First thing you need to do is stop jerking off to porn. If you keep fantasizing about porn stars, you will never be able to find your wife attractive and enjoy sex with her. Make a note of how many times you're jerking off to porn and slowly bring it to 0 in a few weeks (very difficult but you have to do it)

Next, talk to your wife about you not enjoying sex compared to before and say you have some ideas about how to make it better. Don't be blunt and say I don't find you attractive, it will make things worse.

Genes play a huge role in how one looks. Not sure how women look in your wife's extended family, but you have to realize that it's not going to be easy for your wife to become the way you want her to be and be realistic. You have a role to play in her losing weight. You can start going to gym along with her, build muscle and inspire her. Go to hiking/walking with her often and inspire/encourage her towards losing weight. You switch to a healthier diet as well and make sure you both stick to it. Just going to gym and eating decent food won't be enough to become slim. There should be a plan, best way to do is to consult a RD and come up with a custom plan for her.

Going to counselling helps depending upon your wife's mentality. Not everyone can be open to visiting counselor and making changes in life.

If you think from your wife's side, she might not have any clue about all of this and just leading a normal life. You just can't fantasize and expect her to become the way you want without working on this and helping her.

The thoughts of cheating is dangerous and not good for you emotionally/mentally. You probably need to see a counselor for this or talk to your close friend who can talk to you regularly and keep you away from these thoughts.

It will take time for things to change. Just don't sit and do nothing and think within yourself.

 

 @vin421 inthakante ekkuva inka evaru cheppaleru.. 

[Peter123]

1 hour ago, vin421 said:

she tries bro. 1 year nunchi gym ki veltundi. 200$ monthly bokka and diet antu extra prices on food. I lost hopes now.

There is a diet called Keto. Ask her to follow this and talk to a nutrionist in your area with respect t Keto diet. 

I have lost 50 pounds in 3 months with Keto Diet. Ofcourse i change my diet regularly

Good Luck

[Sarvapindi]

8 minutes ago, vin421 said:

 

vere problems unnai. she annoys me a bit but light le. i must be annoying to her too. Immediate problem is sex life.

 

 

Anduke pelli ki mumdhe anni correct suskuni seskovali...chala mandi ki ide problem untadi but adjust aitar anthey....

[SharkTank]

4 minutes ago, vin421 said:

ya, she might. healthy kaane untundi but underlying issues undachu.

counselling waste bro. problem is i have some needs which she can't fulfill. counsellor can't do anything for that.

you also do diet with her , but eat more and make her eat consistently ....have fat and protein shift to keto diet

[Mirage]

5 minutes ago, vin421 said:

ya, she might. healthy kaane untundi but underlying issues undachu.

counselling waste bro. problem is i have some needs which she can't fulfill. counsellor can't do anything for that.

Get her health checked if you are unsure