pellaina vallu - how do you split your finances?

[saahasa]

husband asking that we split everything 50%, and says he is teaching responsibility. I have paid back my fee (state fee - he paid) during internship. now after full time, asking me to share expenses.

[quickgun_murugun]

1 minute ago, saahasa said:

husband asking that we split everything 50%, and says he is teaching responsibility. I have paid back my fee (state fee - he paid) during internship. now after full time, asking me to share expenses.

Pichal... change the husband ... 

[No_body_friends]

1 minute ago, saahasa said:

husband asking that we split everything 50%, and says he is teaching responsibility. I have paid back my fee (state fee - he paid) during internship. now after full time, asking me to share expenses.

Common to have split wise accounts

Also better cook separate 

[Catalpha]

Lol

[BeautyQueen]

6 minutes ago, saahasa said:

husband asking that we split everything 50%, and says he is teaching responsibility. I have paid back my fee (state fee - he paid) during internship. now after full time, asking me to share expenses.

Keep your 50% salary and his 50% salary in one joint account and use it for monthly expenses. Don’t give control over ur entire money to him and keep ur 50% and use it or save it do whatever u want. Also as husband he is supposed to provide everything to u and u can take care of small expenses with your salary if he wants help. I don’t recommend to be dependent on him financially and at the same time giving access to ur entire money .. make wise decision based on ur family situation. 

[Catalpha]

1 minute ago, BeautyQueen said:

Keep your 50% salary and his 50% salary in one joint account and use it for monthly expenses. Don’t give control over ur entire money to him and keep ur 50% and use it or save it do whatever u want. Also as husband he is supposed to provide everything to u and u can take care of small expenses with your salary if he wants help. I don’t recommend to be dependent on him financially and at the same time giving access to ur entire money .. make wise decision based on ur family situation. 

Lol

[BeautyQueen]

2 minutes ago, Catalpha said:

Lol

Nuvu okkadhanive 

[jalsa01]

2 minutes ago, BeautyQueen said:

Keep your 50% salary and his 50% salary in one joint account and use it for monthly expenses. Don’t give control over ur entire money to him and keep ur 50% and use it or save it do whatever u want. Also as husband he is supposed to provide everything to u and u can take care of small expenses with your salary if he wants help. I don’t recommend to be dependent on him financially and at the same time giving access to ur entire money .. make wise decision based on ur family situation. 

Husband to provide everything but she shouldn't depend on him.. ettanti sankanakipoe ideas thone Sagam families suffering.. TS just try to understand ur husband and tell is no U and I only us ani...

[Help_please]

7 minutes ago, BeautyQueen said:

Keep your 50% salary and his 50% salary in one joint account and use it for monthly expenses. Don’t give control over ur entire money to him and keep ur 50% and use it or save it do whatever u want. Also as husband he is supposed to provide everything to u and u can take care of small expenses with your salary if he wants help. I don’t recommend to be dependent on him financially and at the same time giving access to ur entire money .. make wise decision based on ur family situation. 

[AFDB_Director]

8 minutes ago, BeautyQueen said:

Keep your 50% salary and his 50% salary in one joint account and use it for monthly expenses. Don’t give control over ur entire money to him and keep ur 50% and use it or save it do whatever u want. Also as husband he is supposed to provide everything to u and u can take care of small expenses with your salary if he wants help. I don’t recommend to be dependent on him financially and at the same time giving access to ur entire money .. make wise decision based on ur family situation. 

Wow. Suggestions like these will pave a nice 6 lane highway to divorce. 

TS - start a joint account and put both salaries in that account and spend from that account. Marriage is not business, there is no you and I in marriage. It should be 'Us' in marriage always. 

[riashli]

12 minutes ago, BeautyQueen said:

Keep your 50% salary and his 50% salary in one joint account and use it for monthly expenses. Don’t give control over ur entire money to him and keep ur 50% and use it or save it do whatever u want. Also as husband he is supposed to provide everything to u and u can take care of small expenses with your salary if he wants help. I don’t recommend to be dependent on him financially and at the same time giving access to ur entire money .. make wise decision based on ur family situation. 

Em rasav, oka sari malli chaduvu

[Catalpha]

Remember this thumb rule, only if you're okay with having the same account as your fiance, may it be checkings or savings account or even 401k (ofcourse that can't be joint, but if you can list them as beneficiary), only then get married. If you're not sure, sign a prenup or don't get married. 

[BeautyQueen]

3 minutes ago, jalsa01 said:

Husband to provide everything but she shouldn't depend on him.. ettanti sankanakipoe ideas thone Sagam families suffering.. TS just try to understand ur husband and tell is no U and I only us ani...

Husband ki job lekapothey wife will take up that responsibility. I don’t know what exactly is TS situation but if two people are working expenses share cheskovachu like I said before 50-50. 
Inka ekuva na words ni drag cheyakandi edo friday night baga mekki tochindi cheppa .. not an expert as I am not married yet lol 😎 

 

[AndhraneedSCS]

Contract marriage?

[BeautyQueen]

5 minutes ago, AFDB_Director said:

Wow. Suggestions like these will pave a nice 6 lane highway to divorce. 

TS - start a joint account and put both salaries in that account and spend from that account. Marriage is not business, there is no you and I in marriage. It should be 'Us' in marriage always. 

Okay