Is it possible to be alone and happy?

[bostonbro]

1 minute ago, odhu_le_macha said:

emotional bonding with wife oka year untademo...tharvatha bore kodthadi ani na feeling

same with faith....i had delusions which change with time....one month one god.....one year another god...

there is a crux with ideology in relationships too

[kasi]

47 minutes ago, odhu_le_macha said:

pelli cheskokunda...DB lo evarina vunnara 35 vachina pelli kani vallu

nee question vachindi antea nea u cant ani meaning......so you cant 

but busy people can.......people are who are dedicated to a life goal and keep themselves busy can easily be single n happy..........in-fact marriage frustrates them 

[odhu_le_macha]

7 minutes ago, Silverado said:

Married but single la enjoy seyamni chepanu

 idedo bagudi..antha manchi wife e kalam lo ekkada dorukuthun di

[odhu_le_macha]

1 minute ago, bostonbro said:

same with faith....i had delusions which change with time....one month one god.....one year another god...

there is a crux with ideology in relationships too

 

[odhu_le_macha]

2 minutes ago, bostonbro said:

same with faith....i had delusions which change with time....one month one god.....one year another god...

there is a crux with ideology in relationships too

kani faith marithe labham , nashtam manake ba..ade wife vishyam alo aithe life antha torture 

[mirchi_bajji]

as you age , your opinions and mindset changes. hard to make such decisions

only advice - marry only if you like someone and want to spend your life with her. society pressure tho pelli cheskoku. neku evaru nachakapothe ...be single

[odhu_le_macha]

3 minutes ago, kasi said:

nee question vachindi antea nea u cant ani meaning......so you cant 

but busy people can.......people are who are dedicated to a life goal and keep themselves busy can easily be single n happy..........in-fact marriage frustrates them 

I will try ba..busy aipotha..

 

[kasi]

1 minute ago, odhu_le_macha said:

I will try ba..busy aipotha..

 

[odhu_le_macha]

2 minutes ago, mirchi_bajji said:

as you age , your opinions and mindset changes. hard to make such decisions

only advice - marry only if you like someone and want to spend your life with her. society pressure tho pelli cheskoku. neku evaru nachakapothe ...be single

mana desis pellillu anni ilantive kada ba...naku thelsina vadu okkade unnadu ippativaraku desi and 42 years untayi ma manger gadu

[Ellen]

4 minutes ago, odhu_le_macha said:

I will try ba..busy aipotha..

 

Kaadu, try to make peace with yourself first. Elanti circumstances lo aina...okari meeda depend avvalsina avasaram aite padadu. If u need an external factor to forget your lonliness and function...aah factors unnanni rojule happy undagalav.  What about after that?

Adapting to living alone is very possible and highly recommended, mainly because we live in an uncertain world. Much understanding, patience and self-compassion are necessary for one to adjust enough to finally Be at peace with oneself.

[JaiTDP]

@odhu_le_macha : nee love story edhaina vunte cheppamantunnadu @Silverado 

[mirchi_bajji]

Just now, odhu_le_macha said:

mana desis pellillu anni ilantive kada ba...naku thelsina vadu okkade unnadu ippativaraku desi and 42 years untayi ma manger gadu

most ppl who do arranged marriages are whose who want to give it a shot. they dont get into it hating the other person and not liking them. many times the relationship works out too and they are happy. most fall into this category

but there are few who get married even though they dont like the girl. just because parents forced them or they get into the notion that they are getting old....they get married. that is dangerous. 

[odhu_le_macha]

2 minutes ago, Ellen said:

Kaadu, try to make peace with yourself first. Elanti circumstances lo aina...okari meeda depend avvalsina avasaram aite padadu. If u need an external factor to forget your lonliness and function...aah factors unnanni rojule happy undagalav.  What about after that?

Adapting to living alone is very possible and highly recommended, mainly because we live in an uncertain world. Much understanding, patience and self-compassion are necessary for one to adjust enough to finally Be at peace with oneself.

nenu extreme introvert ba. I enjoy my own company..natho nenu chala happy ga peaceful ga unta...kani ila enni years untano theliadu

[odhu_le_macha]

3 minutes ago, JaiTDP said:

@odhu_le_macha : nee love story edhaina vunte cheppamantunnadu @Silverado 

chala unnayi ba...LKG to MS 

[Ellen]

1 minute ago, odhu_le_macha said:

nenu extreme introvert ba. I enjoy my own company..natho nenu chala happy ga peaceful ga unta...kani ila enni years untano theliadu

Amazing then. People don't change, they only become more of who they really are.... you ll be happy re.