I have a PhD and a stable job but my gf still dumped me two months ago. My heart aches now

[KisMisNaidu]

17 minutes ago, psycopk said:

Phd. Chesina nanta easy anukuntunava ammai ni gelavatam antuna halwa

Cc @Pappu_Packitmaar and @LavangamNaidu

[DonnyStrumpet]

Part 2 continues now. 

Naa love proposal accept chesina roju I felt the luckiest man on face of earth. Grand Canyon nundi texas vacche route lo enni muddhulu pettanooo lekka ledhu. 

Life back to normal. Physically and emotionally connect ayithunna time lo thanu graduate date dhaggara padindhi. 

Valla parents visiting ki vasthunnaru. Vallaki relationship gurinchi thelusu gani okka dhaggara untunnam ani thelidhu. So I moved out for few weeks.

Valla parents chala manchollu. They really liked me and uncle my family gurinchi adigadu... 

[DonnyStrumpet]

Valla parents 2 months tharvatha India return ayyaru. Eee process lo professor gadi pellam vadim divorce icchindhiii.

Vadi sadism antha naaa meedha start chesaduuu. Vadi kindha pani chese iddaru students lo nenu okkodini and Ashley is other. She is white vomerican. Valla father reasonably sound party. 

[DonnyStrumpet]

So nenu Ashley and thanu baga discuss chesevallam future gurinchi. At one point phdddd vadilesi masters degree theesukoni graduate ayipodham anukunna. But thanaku adhi istam ledhu. Ala days nadusthunna time lo thanu full time jobs ki trial chesthundhi. Ayithe no luck. Already opt start ayyi 3 months ayyindhani oka consultancy lo join ayyindhi

[DonnyStrumpet]

One fine day valla akka phone chesi atlanta ki ra. Ikkada job trail cheyi ani advise icchindhi. Thanaku istam ledhu but already 4 months jobless. So she went there for couple of weeks in mind. 

Ikkada valla bava gurinchi matladali. Vadu India nundi USA vacchina bot. Konchem insecure gadu. Money ante yevarri doddiii ayina thintadu. Gadiki 8 years nundi GC ravatle ani oookatee yedupu. Appudu appudu pellam meedha frustration chupisthadu mentally ani talk. 

Ayithe vadu  na karma kali thanu visit chesina time lo ne oka 3 to 4 houses lo edho okati pick chesi konadaniki plan lo unnaduuu. 

[DonnyStrumpet]

Thanu kuda vallatjo vellindhi. Aaa houses chusi thanaku kuda money minded seeds brain lo start chesindhi. Valla bava gadu thanaku sql lo training icchi motthaniki oka consultancy dwara  job kottinchadu in Virginia 

[DonnyStrumpet]

Ikkada Texas lo nenu Ashley daily hang out avthu appudu appudu mandhuuu thagithunnam. Life continued this way for 3 to 4 months. I'm getting on track again with my PhD. 

[DonnyStrumpet]

Oka long weekend ki texas ki visiting ki vacchindhi. Fully commercial ga matladadam  start chesindhi. Emaina ante my frnds ki hour ki intha. 80 per hour ala topics anni. 

Nenu endhuko nuvvu commercial topics gurinchi ekkuva matladuthunnav ani cheppina. Thanu kuda avunu I'm ani cheppindhi. But still same topics. Valla bava baga money minded ga thayaru chesaduuu

[Lonelyloner]

Ashley na..valla father sound party ani amene cheppindha...

..orike phd antav endi man 

phd savokichindhi.

 

[sri_india]

18 minutes ago, DonnyStrumpet said:

Part 2 continues now. 

Naa love proposal accept chesina roju I felt the luckiest man on face of earth. Grand Canyon nundi texas vacche route lo enni muddhulu pettanooo lekka ledhu. 

Life back to normal. Physically and emotionally connect ayithunna time lo thanu graduate date dhaggara padindhi. 

Valla parents visiting ki vasthunnaru. Vallaki relationship gurinchi thelusu gani okka dhaggara untunnam ani thelidhu. So I moved out for few weeks.

Valla parents chala manchollu. They really liked me and uncle my family gurinchi adigadu... 

you should have counted and noted them man ... malli breakup ayyaka , vaapas immani adagadaniki chance undedhi kadha

[DonnyStrumpet]

She went back to Virginia and I'm close to graduating. 

Oka conference kosam nenu ashley and my professor Washington DC vellamu. Akkada nundi Virginia dhaggara ani cafe rent chesi velli thananu kalisanu. She is so swamped with work and job. Enduku edho missing ani feeling vacchindhi. 

I felt like we are drifting apart due to the distance. Chala badha ga anipinchindji. 

Oka roju full thagi na gf valla akka ki phone chesanu. Naa badha antha thanatho cheppanu...

[DonnyStrumpet]

2 weeks lo naaa defense undhi anagaaa all of a sudden phone chesi let's break up ani cheppindhi. 

I was shocked. Mentally completely disturbed ayyanu. Full concentrate cheyalsina time lo ilanti news thelisi baga disturb ayyanu. Not able to prepare my thesis or my slides. Roju thanaku phone chesi calls matladali ani anukunta 1 week ayyindhi 

Velli professor ki I can't graduate this semester ani cheppanu  because I wasn't mentally ready. 

[MagaMaharaju]

nuv graduate avvakunda ae visa paina FT doing man?

Just for information asking not that I don't trust your story

[DannyArcher]

4 minutes ago, DonnyStrumpet said:

She went back to Virginia and I'm close to graduating. 

Oka conference kosam nenu ashley and my professor Washington DC vellamu. Akkada nundi Virginia dhaggara ani cafe rent chesi velli thananu kalisanu. She is so swamped with work and job. Enduku edho missing ani feeling vacchindhi. 

I felt like we are drifting apart due to the distance. Chala badha ga anipinchindji. 

Oka roju full thagi na gf valla akka ki phone chesanu. Naa badha antha thanatho cheppanu...

valla akka em chepindhi nee badha vinna tarwata ? 

[DonnyStrumpet]

Professor gadi first lo oppokoledhu. Tharvatha okay annadu. 

Inka full mandhu thagi padukovadam anthe. Lab ki kotadam manesanuuuu. Eee vishayam thanaku thelisi. I want you to focus on your graduation. Edho kopam lo annanu but I still have feelings for you ani cheppindhi. 

Ala cheppina matalu  naaku chala encouraging aaa anipinchindhi. In 1 month I defended my thesis and I finally got my doctorate.