Does your wife/you supports buying items to their own family members

[toranam]

Mee family ki Konte mee wife / mee wife valla family Konte nuvvu support chestara or complain always?

[MysoreJackson]

ma vallaki edaina konte indirect ga why spending so much adi idi antundi .... valla parents ki edaina konalante second thought lekunda spends.... I think mojority of the ladies are like this

[Ellen]

I never had any issue with him buying stuff for his family, in fact i always  encourage him to do that. I keep gifting something for my in-law side relatives( been doing this for many years now). Kottalo valla daggara adarsh bahu impression kotteyadanki started  , now it became a habit.   He also never stopped me from spending my own money for parents. But i never got the opportunity to do that, my parents always said aadapilla dagara teeskovadam manchidi kaadu(they keep telling random superstitions 😮 ) so dont give. By chance okati rendu  sarlu  mem edana ivadanki try cheste, they felt guilty scared...not worth it anipichi I just keep saving something for them with a hope to give something one day. 

[toranam]

20 minutes ago, MysoreJackson said:

ma vallaki edaina konte indirect ga why spending so much adi idi antundi .... valla parents ki edaina konalante second thought lekunda spends.... I think mojority of the ladies are like this

Ento bro ..ee ladies thinking don’t understand...

[Jumper]

taking care of parents needs and wants are one of the priority things. if spouse stops then hide it nothing wrong.instead of fights.

[kidney]

1 hour ago, Ellen said:

I never had any issue with him buying stuff for his family, in fact i always  encourage him to do that. I keep gifting something for my in-law side relatives( been doing this for many years now). Kottalo valla daggara adarsh bahu impression kotteyadanki started  , now it became a habit.   He also never stopped me from spending my own money for parents. But i never got the opportunity to do that, my parents always said aadapilla dagara teeskovadam manchidi kaadu(they keep telling random superstitions 😮 ) so dont give. By chance okati rendu  sarlu  mem edana ivadanki try cheste, they felt guilty scared...not worth it anipichi I just keep saving something for them with a hope to give something one day. 

akkayi.. How u couple discuss about both salaries?

Couples lo Financial understandings ela vuntadhi.. if both r working

 

[soodhilodaaram]

1 hour ago, MysoreJackson said:

ma vallaki edaina konte indirect ga why spending so much adi idi antundi .... valla parents ki edaina konalante second thought lekunda spends.... I think mojority of the ladies are like this

true, genetic frablem with Indian ladies

[friesNfrappe]

2 hours ago, toranam said:

Mee family ki Konte mee wife / mee wife valla family Konte nuvvu support chestara or complain always?

I support. Gifts ivvataniki permission endhuku? 
if it is a bigger help, then wife and husband can discuss before proceeding to help.. 

[MRI]

in fact this is the only thing I spoke about during my marriage looks.. hahahahaha

[friesNfrappe]

1 hour ago, Ellen said:

I never had any issue with him buying stuff for his family, in fact i always  encourage him to do that. I keep gifting something for my in-law side relatives( been doing this for many years now). Kottalo valla daggara adarsh bahu impression kotteyadanki started  , now it became a habit.   He also never stopped me from spending my own money for parents. But i never got the opportunity to do that, my parents always said aadapilla dagara teeskovadam manchidi kaadu(they keep telling random superstitions 😮 ) so dont give. By chance okati rendu  sarlu  mem edana ivadanki try cheste, they felt guilty scared...not worth it anipichi I just keep saving something for them with a hope to give something one day. 

Avunu ma fam lo kuda edhi chala sarlu antaru adapilla deggara teskokudadhu and reverse lo girl ni anni ivvali ani .. one fam I know do not even let the girl touch the feet of others - men or women.. they treat the girl as goddess so she shuld not touch others feet ani 😁

[ZoomNaidu]

3 minutes ago, friesNfrappe said:

I support. Gifts ivvataniki permission endhuku? 
if it is a bigger help, then wife and husband can discuss before proceeding to help.. 

haha 😆  - ippudu alaagey antaav le 😉😉 

Pelli ayinaaka ee question ki mee answer em isthaado chuddhaam 😂😂

[friesNfrappe]

1 minute ago, MRI said:

in fact this is the only thing I spoke about during my marriage looks.. hahahahaha

Vuuuuu

[ZoomNaidu]

2 minutes ago, MRI said:

in fact this is the only thing I spoke about during my marriage looks.. hahahahaha

[mirchi_bajji]

dabbunnolla kashtalu....

[ZoomNaidu]

Just now, mirchi_bajji said:

dabbunnolla kashtalu....

Pellam tho godavalu vishayamlo- rich/poor difference ledhani @LadiesTailor antunnaadu