Does your wife/you supports buying items to their own family members

[Ellen]

8 minutes ago, Anta Assamey said:

Sharing is caring no doubt .... But it sounded more like a Roommate sharing than a husband sharing... Naaku ala anipinchindi cheptunanu ...

Additional privileges unnai ga...roommates don’t have our personal bank account access. This one does. 

[Anta Assamey]

Just now, Ellen said:

Additional privileges unnai ga...roommates don’t have our personal bank account access. This one does. 

Daavvuuudaaa.... 

[Galactus]

I buy things for my in-laws with out my wife asking so when ever I gift something to my parents or siblings she will not have any objections

[friesNfrappe]

1 hour ago, Ellen said:

Bad idea 

[DummyVariable]

5 hours ago, MysoreJackson said:

ma vallaki edaina konte indirect ga why spending so much adi idi antundi .... valla parents ki edaina konalante second thought lekunda spends.... I think mojority of the ladies are like this

This is the only correct post in this thread. Even children are taken away from in laws. They socialize mostly with the wife’s side of the family too. If she has siblings, you might as well give up on your family. 

[DummyVariable]

18 hours ago, toranam said:

Ento bro ..ee ladies thinking don’t understand...

Vuu

[Shameless]

20 hours ago, toranam said:

Mee family ki Konte mee wife / mee wife valla family Konte nuvvu support chestara or complain always?

We do support each other...never had any problems with spending the money on buying things for both sides of the familes...I only buy for my family before I visit them probably once every 2 years. and for her it is regular like Christmas, Mother's day, etc but luckily we do receive the similar value gifts too...

[Tesla_Elon]

19 hours ago, Ellen said:

I never had any issue with him buying stuff for his family, in fact i always  encourage him to do that. I keep gifting something for my in-law side relatives( been doing this for many years now). Kottalo valla daggara adarsh bahu impression kotteyadanki started  , now it became a habit.   He also never stopped me from spending my own money for parents. But i never got the opportunity to do that, my parents always said aadapilla dagara teeskovadam manchidi kaadu(they keep telling random superstitions 😮 ) so dont give. By chance okati rendu  sarlu  mem edana ivadanki try cheste, they felt guilty scared...not worth it anipichi I just keep saving something for them with a hope to give something one day. 

Good parents ur husband is lucky.. ee kalam ammayila parents maari ekkada eppudu em dorukuthada free ga CBN lega waiting ani agraharam lo talk

[Tesla_Elon]

17 hours ago, friesNfrappe said:

$200-500 worth gifts ki kuda godavalu endhuku uncle 😆 

Yearly once ante ok every month ante ne problem ani maga maharajulu telling

[friesNfrappe]

1 hour ago, Tesla_Elon said:

Yearly once ante ok every month ante ne problem ani maga maharajulu telling

Family ni chuskuntu migilipoina savings tho evari istam valladhi anukunta but i dont think anyone will spend every month on cousins gifts.. 

[Tesla_Elon]

58 minutes ago, friesNfrappe said:

Family ni chuskuntu migilipoina savings tho evari istam valladhi anukunta but i dont think anyone will spend every month on cousins gifts.. 

savings anevi migilipovadam undadu.. savings is for something useful in future for family.. evari istam valladi ante nenu every month na savings tho thaagi tandanalu adatha leka pothe every months oka LV konta ante nenu vaatha pedtha

[Ellen]

1 minute ago, Tesla_Elon said:

savings anevi migilipovadam undadu.. savings is for something useful in future for family.. evari istam valladi ante nenu every month na savings tho thaagi tandanalu adatha leka pothe every months oka LV konta ante nenu vaatha pedtha

Savings ante for our family future no? like prospective kids and couple health etc ...okavela india lo edana emergency expense pettalsoste daniki

[Tesla_Elon]

Just now, Ellen said:

Savings ante for our family future no? like prospective kids and couple health etc ...okavela india lo edana emergency expense pettalsoste daniki

After marriage mana family ante u ur husband and kids.. emergency purposes ki evvadu no cheppadu chepthe vadu manishe kadu but regular ga ee gifts gatra big no...

[prayanam]

22 hours ago, Ellen said:

I never had any issue with him buying stuff for his family, in fact i always  encourage him to do that. I keep gifting something for my in-law side relatives( been doing this for many years now). Kottalo valla daggara adarsh bahu impression kotteyadanki started  , now it became a habit.   He also never stopped me from spending my own money for parents. But i never got the opportunity to do that, my parents always said aadapilla dagara teeskovadam manchidi kaadu(they keep telling random superstitions 😮 ) so dont give. By chance okati rendu  sarlu  mem edana ivadanki try cheste, they felt guilty scared...not worth it anipichi I just keep saving something for them with a hope to give something one day. 

I can relate to this.. my parents never take stuff from my sisters instead they ask me to gift them when possible.. always give to girls don’t take ani valla version..

[Tesla_Elon]

1 minute ago, prayanam said:

I can relate to this.. my parents never take stuff from my sisters instead they ask me to gift them when possible.. always give to girls don’t take ani valla version..

Thats how most parents are even pedda ga chaduvukoni vallu kuda ade chestharu but ee genx parents completely different unnaru.. ma ammayi money maku kaka inka evvariki istundi annatu unnaru ma circle lo chala episodes chusa..