Unmarried , commit kaani singles

[Rushabhi]

13 minutes ago, Scurvy said:

Reasons sis? Did this guys fooled her around and could live upto expectations ah?

Reasons enduku le. Marriage stability teesukosthundi ante example ga cheppa not all the time ani

[meri_zindagi]

3 minutes ago, Scurvy said:

First of all why to compromise. In case ayina kuda will they be happy later on?

Tbh, we never know what we have not experienced. So what we have is the best anukune chala mandi happy ga untaru. You know it’s just a choice. Compromising to an extent is actually making up mind. Not to the level of marrying someone whom you could never think of.

[Everydayrunner]

45 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

Generalizations enduku le. Before 28-29 marriage ayyi 35 kalla divorce ayina ammayilu telusu. Marriage chesukunte stability vasthundi ante mari divorces enduku avuthayi? Maybe your seniors did not get proper sambandhalu

Love marriage cheskunna couples kooda separate avutunnaru..

 

My message is for girls who think solo brathuke so better ..not to end up like jhansi in same movie...

 

Men can live single and get married at 36 .even though that is not advices .but for women it is unfair..36 tharvatha pregnancy complications..harmonal imbalances issues develop avuthadu..unless she is keeping her health top notch with regular yoga ...

Same applies to men ..but luckily they don't get harmonal challenges like women's anatomy

 

[Everydayrunner]

36 year old uncle can get married to 23 year old kanya..because he has gc or lot of money..

 

While women 34 year old..have to find 38 year old or 35 year old uncle..it is very toughhh

[Everydayrunner]

6 minutes ago, meri_zindagi said:

Tbh, we never know what we have not experienced. So what we have is the best anukune chala mandi happy ga untaru. You know it’s just a choice. Compromising to an extent is actually making up mind. Not to the level of marrying someone whom you could never think of.

Understand that other person is just like you just another gender..unless he cheated his partner before or physically out of shape ..have bad habits like casinos addiction .addiction to backpage girls..have abnormal temper ..we shouldn't judge them

[Everydayrunner]

15 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

Reasons enduku le. Marriage stability teesukosthundi ante example ga cheppa not all the time ani

If you keep giving bad examples it will make younger girls be more speculative..

 

I guess guys are vulnerable to being judged of their defects ..mostly by girls working in usa..hence guys are going for indian working women..and we are seeing increased cases of working women in usa being single 30+

[Everydayrunner]

45 minutes ago, manadonga said:

34 yrs vachhina ladies inka reject chestunaru reason enti antavu ? 

They probably want.. 100,000$ car, 800,000$ home and not bald with proper  hair ..basically they are expecting a well settled man..

 

They are not wrong. Women have right to demand..tappu ledhu..

They should realise the fact that men go for younger women and not 30+if they have all that and there are plenty of fish..

Working women 29+ ee chinna point miss avutunnaru

[Scurvy]

16 minutes ago, meri_zindagi said:

Tbh, we never know what we have not experienced. So what we have is the best anukune chala mandi happy ga untaru. You know it’s just a choice. Compromising to an extent is actually making up mind. Not to the level of marrying someone whom you could never think of.

Don’t you think it is a bit selfish of her and showing sympathy towards the guy. Why are they so rigid initially and later settle for guy who is not desirable. Sorry but i see this pattern repeating it self.

[Rushabhi]

2 minutes ago, Everydayrunner said:

If you keep giving bad examples it will make younger girls be more speculative..

 

I guess guys are vulnerable to being judged of their defects ..mostly by girls working in usa..hence guys are going for indian working women..and we are seeing increased cases of working women in usa being single 30+

I did not say the reason why they got divorced. All I am saying is not to judge individual choices. Marriage is not always the end goal for everyone. For all you know they might be asexual. They may not like getting married. 28 aa age ki most girls will think of getting settled. Early thirties ki most will get settled. For example all except 4 of your friends got settled but you are judging based on those 4. You are not citing all those women who got settled. But they may have their own reasons to not get settled. Konthamandiki intlo responsibilities undi late avochu, kontha mandiki evaru nachakapovachu, commitment phobia undochu or plain marriage e ishtam undakapovachu or previous relationships lo mosapoyi ontariga undatam best anukovachu, health issues undochu, jathakam dosham ani avvochu. Why judge based on those 4 people ani Naa udhesam

[Everydayrunner]

Just now, Rushabhi said:

I did not say the reason why they got divorced. All I am saying is not to judge individual choices. Marriage is not always the end goal for everyone. For all you know they might be asexual. They may not like getting married. 28 aa age ki most girls will think of getting settled. Early thirties ki most will get settled. For example all except 4 of your friends got settled but you are judging based on those 4. You are not citing all those women who got settled. But they may have their own reasons to not get settled. Konthamandiki intlo responsibilities undi late avochu, kontha mandiki evaru nachakapovachu, commitment phobia undochu or plain marriage e ishtam undakapovachu or previous relationships lo mosapoyi ontariga undatam best anukovachu, health issues undochu, jathakam dosham ani avvochu. Why judge based on those 4 people ani Naa udhesam

Your end goal shouldn't change and settle for less... Your speculation always comes wrong in most of the cases as you age..appudu vaddu anukunta malli aa sambandhalu raavu..remember criteria won't change as you age..it is same men you will end up marrying

[No_body_friends]

55 minutes ago, meri_zindagi said:

Cheppalem... arranged marriages are much complicated. Parents ki nachali, jatakalu match avvali, financial status match avvali. Anni bagunna vallu, anni kavali anukuntaru. Edo oka danilo comprimise avvachu. Comprimise aina koda, it happens when it happens anthe.

this is what i noticed with girls :

scenario 1 : girl looks decent, but with half knowledge. 
- expectations high on money and looks
- boys pool limited due to caste and language. 

scenario 2: girl looks no decent, full banda or chubby. 
- half knowledge scenario, expectations high on money or looks 

scenario 3 : girl looks decent, full knowledge
- reasonable expectations, open for connection
- boys pool limited due to caste etc etc

All scenarios : 
- no work putting to expand marriage pool ( either to improve looks or reduce filters )
- no compromise no marriage
 

 

[meri_zindagi]

5 minutes ago, Everydayrunner said:

If you keep giving bad examples it will make younger girls be more speculative..

 

I guess guys are vulnerable to being judged of their defects ..mostly by girls working in usa..hence guys are going for indian working women..and we are seeing increased cases of working women in usa being single 30+

Hehe... you jus donno the other side anthe... girls are judged too. And intlo valla pressure antha intha kadu. Vadu enduku voddu, veedu enduku Nachaledu, veellakem takkuva. Evaraina ala stress chesthe inka adamant avtaru. Poni porapatuna evaraina nacharu antey, maku asalu nachaledu antaru. Most of decisions were biased to impress everyone in family. And already family lo goppa cousins untaru who gets married against everyone’s will. Valla la cheyakodadu ani untundi. It takes time to get to a realization ivanni kadu ra babu we need to think about ourselves first ani. And seriously career can’t be put aside. Annitiki equal importance ivvali. It’s always the process of learning to live the life. Today marriage might be a hurdle, repu inkoti, aa tarvata inkoti. I believe One should have enough courage and zeal towards life. Nothing else matters.

[meri_zindagi]

27 minutes ago, Scurvy said:

Don’t you think it is a bit selfish of her and showing sympathy towards the guy. Why are they so rigid initially and later settle for guy who is not desirable. Sorry but i see this pattern repeating it self.

Did not get you 

[r2d2]

you still running? whatever happened with your move to Boston?

[No_body_friends]

12 minutes ago, meri_zindagi said:

Hehe... you jus donno the other side anthe... girls are judged too. And intlo valla pressure antha intha kadu. Vadu enduku voddu, veedu enduku Nachaledu, veellakem takkuva. Evaraina ala stress chesthe inka adamant avtaru. Poni porapatuna evaraina nacharu antey, maku asalu nachaledu antaru. Most of decisions were biased to impress everyone in family. And already family lo goppa cousins untaru who gets married against everyone’s will. Valla la cheyakodadu ani untundi. It takes time to get to a realization ivanni kadu ra babu we need to think about ourselves first ani. And seriously career can’t be put aside. Annitiki equal importance ivvali. It’s always the process of learning to live the life. Today marriage might be a hurdle, repu inkoti, aa tarvata inkoti. I believe One should have enough courage and zeal towards life. Nothing else matters.

good attitude

courage choopinchi ne pool ni penchuko

alanti zeal unna person dorakochu