Been married for 7months...seeing stars

[Anta Assamey]

24 minutes ago, kitkat said:

Iam 32, married summer 2020. agebar ani intlo tondara pettaru, carona kuda kalasi vachindi...pelli ayyepoyendi.

wife is 27, she is also in same situation ...ageing ani valla intlo kuda fast decision...merupu laa pelli ayyepoyendi. 

now we are in NJ. 

endo bhayya this women is totally diff than my expectations . TV sound estam leedu anta madam ki, chicken estam leedu anta 

ela okati kaadu. daggariki vellithee neeku all time edee gola na   edukee pelli chesukunna va ani eedupu moham... neenu ready leenu

ani valla parents ni tidutundi pelli chesaru ani....  laagi okati peekudama anipistundi but control control ani...edi ekkadi godava anna naaku...

cooking baanee chestundi and surprisingly she asks me should I wait for you or eat ani. july nunchi we are living together but nothing much

intlo bayata ekkada cheppaleenu . I always think Iam a decent person by every means...looks like Iam wrong.  

I know its COVID time but still Go for a vacation if possible ... May that will change something between you guys .. 

[Kootami]

Just now, Anta Assamey said:

I know its COVID time but still Go for a vacation if possible ... May that will change something between you guys .. 

poyyi em cheyali ani TS asking ?

[NiranjanGaaru]

1 minute ago, Rebel_Uncle said:

First I tell the problems here. 

1) Nuvu ipatidaka edi evaritho share chesukoledu, I mean when you watch laptop or when she watch laptop then its like no sharing concept. 

Main disadvantage of marying 25+ girl. 

Always look for girl who just passed b.tech ala chinna vallu aythy chepina mata vintaru. 

nuvu muduru amayini chesukonavu, she lost herself in world so she probably never going to accept whoyou are 

Better keep low expectations and hangout with friends or st...rp bars or something. 

Tell her if she contninue like this you are not a fit for marriage life and then I need ot look outside which leads complications choice is yours ani chepu debaki darlo kosthadhi

Call atha mama and tell the issues properly, they will certainly understand and fix immediately. 

Beat somes when you are unable to control the frustation, its common thats how olden days mens use to control this kind of women. 

Last but not least sachi potha ani bedirinchu, idi guarantee work avudhi. 

ok one important  must read disclamier 

Sames advice ma friend gadiki chepa, Marriage ended in divorce though. Pity for him. But you dont care might me ne case lo work avochu, good luck, Marriage ante Mens ki advantage kosam. Anthe kani womens kadu. 

 

Pichi inka tagaledu anamata niku

[yemdoing]

12 minutes ago, Kootami said:

try saying   in front of mirror for no reason..... repeat this untill you are comfortable saying it even in sleep

raasuo ra samba 

[kitkat]

she does painting, papercutting , basically craft work.  india nunchi evo chinna chinna tools techukundi for art work. I took her to michales, I can see glow in her face, she is very happy...evo chinna chinna vi teesukundi. 60$ ayyendi. neenu edo evi 60$ aa anna...that's it. nee dabbu karchu chestunna anukuntunna va, return chesesta ...ela okatiki okati mix chesesindi baa..neenu pichodi nypoya...how can a person think like this

 cheppa baa neenee...na brain dobbindi that evening...

[godfather03]

28 minutes ago, kitkat said:

Iam 32, married summer 2020. agebar ani intlo tondara pettaru, carona kuda kalasi vachindi...pelli ayyepoyendi.

wife is 27, she is also in same situation ...ageing ani valla intlo kuda fast decision...merupu laa pelli ayyepoyendi. 

now we are in NJ. 

endo bhayya this women is totally diff than my expectations . TV sound estam leedu anta madam ki, chicken estam leedu anta 

ela okati kaadu. daggariki vellithee neeku all time edee gola na   edukee pelli chesukunna va ani eedupu moham... neenu ready leenu

ani valla parents ni tidutundi pelli chesaru ani....  laagi okati peekudama anipistundi but control control ani...edi ekkadi godava anna naaku...

cooking baanee chestundi and surprisingly she asks me should I wait for you or eat ani. july nunchi we are living together but nothing much

intlo bayata ekkada cheppaleenu . I always think Iam a decent person by every means...looks like Iam wrong.  

Nuvvu cheppina prakaram ayithe stars em kanipichatam ledu akkada...Cinema lo chupinchinattu cut chesthe romantic song anedi reality lo undadhu...Koddiga likes and dislikes telusukuntu interact avuthu...proceed with everything in life...Go for drives and plan for lunch/dinners at home in a different way...She is your life partner, so nuvvu expectations pettukunnattu aame side nunchi kooda expectations untay...

[yemdoing]

31 minutes ago, kitkat said:

Iam 32, married summer 2020. agebar ani intlo tondara pettaru, carona kuda kalasi vachindi...pelli ayyepoyendi.

wife is 27, she is also in same situation ...ageing ani valla intlo kuda fast decision...merupu laa pelli ayyepoyendi. 

now we are in NJ. 

endo bhayya this women is totally diff than my expectations . TV sound estam leedu anta madam ki, chicken estam leedu anta 

ela okati kaadu. daggariki vellithee neeku all time edee gola na   edukee pelli chesukunna va ani eedupu moham... neenu ready leenu

ani valla parents ni tidutundi pelli chesaru ani....  laagi okati peekudama anipistundi but control control ani...edi ekkadi godava anna naaku...

cooking baanee chestundi and surprisingly she asks me should I wait for you or eat ani. july nunchi we are living together but nothing much

intlo bayata ekkada cheppaleenu . I always think Iam a decent person by every means...looks like Iam wrong.  

is she also working ? or used to work ?

did you and/or had past relationships ?

[Jane]

3 minutes ago, kitkat said:

she does painting, papercutting , basically craft work.  india nunchi evo chinna chinna tools techukundi for art work. I took her to michales, I can see glow in her face, she is very happy...evo chinna chinna vi teesukundi. 60$ ayyendi. neenu edo evi 60$ aa anna...that's it. nee dabbu karchu chestunna anukuntunna va, return chesesta ...ela okatiki okati mix chesesindi baa..neenu pichodi nypoya...how can a person think like this

 cheppa baa neenee...na brain dobbindi that evening...

Pelli ayina kothalone control lo petukovali ani ammayillu anukuntaaru....don’t know if all this is regarding that 

[yemdoing]

3 minutes ago, kitkat said:

she does painting, papercutting , basically craft work.  india nunchi evo chinna chinna tools techukundi for art work. I took her to michales, I can see glow in her face, she is very happy...evo chinna chinna vi teesukundi. 60$ ayyendi. neenu edo evi 60$ aa anna...that's it. nee dabbu karchu chestunna anukuntunna va, return chesesta ...ela okatiki okati mix chesesindi baa..neenu pichodi nypoya...how can a person think like this

 cheppa baa neenee...na brain dobbindi that evening...

you need to buy at least $250 worth stuff as surprise gift ( or a gift card) ... believe me it will be best for you.

encourage her passion. 

[Anta Assamey]

15 minutes ago, Kootami said:

poyyi em cheyali ani TS asking ?

Potey emaina workout avutundi emo try chesukovachu kada ani ..

[romeo09]

5 minutes ago, kitkat said:

she does painting, papercutting , basically craft work.  india nunchi evo chinna chinna tools techukundi for art work. I took her to michales, I can see glow in her face, she is very happy...evo chinna chinna vi teesukundi. 60$ ayyendi. neenu edo evi 60$ aa anna...that's it. nee dabbu karchu chestunna anukuntunna va, return chesesta ...ela okatiki okati mix chesesindi baa..neenu pichodi nypoya...how can a person think like this

 cheppa baa neenee...na brain dobbindi that evening...

First issue ide bro..my suggestion first let her get use to your surroundings and mellaga friends...obviously covid time valla into ne undadam valla sagam sava D but again try to go for small walks in the evening cold undi ani nannu anaku jackets anni veskoni teskoni po mellaga weekends atla chinna chinna shopping la start cheyi nuvu annattu Micheals/tj maxx etc..obviously dinners will also help but ipudu una situation ki chuskoni plan those too they might help...ipudi daka nuve unav kabati atlanti faltu vatiki 60$ endi ani nee feeling but thats how it is...ne interests kuda Enti anedi of course chepi untav but start off with these give yourself and herself some time don't rush but most importantly AVESA PADI CHETHULU KAALU LEKAPAKU SASTAVVV 😁

[TensionNahiLeneka]

49 minutes ago, kitkat said:

Iam 32, married summer 2020. agebar ani intlo tondara pettaru, carona kuda kalasi vachindi...pelli ayyepoyendi.

wife is 27, she is also in same situation ...ageing ani valla intlo kuda fast decision...merupu laa pelli ayyepoyendi. 

now we are in NJ. 

endo bhayya this women is totally diff than my expectations . TV sound estam leedu anta madam ki, chicken estam leedu anta 

ela okati kaadu. daggariki vellithee neeku all time edee gola na   edukee pelli chesukunna va ani eedupu moham... neenu ready leenu

ani valla parents ni tidutundi pelli chesaru ani....  laagi okati peekudama anipistundi but control control ani...edi ekkadi godava anna naaku...

cooking baanee chestundi and surprisingly she asks me should I wait for you or eat ani. july nunchi we are living together but nothing much

intlo bayata ekkada cheppaleenu . I always think Iam a decent person by every means...looks like Iam wrong.  

time anni sardestadi...wait..feel avvaku..charana paisa labham vundadu..

all will go well ..try to spend as much time as you can with your wife for now. 

 

[Rebel_Uncle]

18 minutes ago, kitkat said:

she does painting, papercutting , basically craft work.  india nunchi evo chinna chinna tools techukundi for art work. I took her to michales, I can see glow in her face, she is very happy...evo chinna chinna vi teesukundi. 60$ ayyendi. neenu edo evi 60$ aa anna...that's it. nee dabbu karchu chestunna anukuntunna va, return chesesta ...ela okatiki okati mix chesesindi baa..neenu pichodi nypoya...how can a person think like this

 cheppa baa neenee...na brain dobbindi that evening...

oka pani cheyi 

Give your salary to her and ask her to take care of expenses make her treat like queen. 

Me atha mama ki illu konivu, athagariki banagaram aythy inka better. 

Alane bamardi vunte ivvu. 

[hunkyfunky]

16 minutes ago, kitkat said:

she does painting, papercutting , basically craft work.  india nunchi evo chinna chinna tools techukundi for art work. I took her to michales, I can see glow in her face, she is very happy...evo chinna chinna vi teesukundi. 60$ ayyendi. neenu edo evi 60$ aa anna...that's it. nee dabbu karchu chestunna anukuntunna va, return chesesta ...ela okatiki okati mix chesesindi baa..neenu pichodi nypoya...how can a person think like this

 cheppa baa neenee...na brain dobbindi that evening...

Boss, if you want to save marriage.. Then have patience. Not eating chicken and low sound are very common and individual preferences. In India , lot of women don't eat Chicken...just ignore.

Looks like she didn't work in India going by art work etc... Encourage her to take that more and probably take classes. 

Intimacy - she is not in teens anymore for harmones to kick in and enjoy sex easily . She spent 12 years of her teen life without sex and used to it . Have patience , give 2 or 3 days gap and when she agrees do lot of foreplay ( do hand job for yourself before so that you are not in hurry).  Take her to peaks with foreplay, fingering...do this if she is liking it of course. If she is shy and says stop or enough, don't listen... Just continue. 

Believe me once they come once , orgasm , squirt once they can't go back. I know for sure to that 70% indian women never come or orgasm... They take more time and indian husbands don't have that much patience.

[Shameless]

56 minutes ago, kitkat said:

Iam 32, married summer 2020. agebar ani intlo tondara pettaru, carona kuda kalasi vachindi...pelli ayyepoyendi.

 

 

wife is 27, she is also in same situation ...ageing ani valla intlo kuda fast decision...merupu laa pelli ayyepoyendi. 

 

 

now we are in NJ. 

endo bhayya this women is totally diff than my expectations . TV sound estam leedu anta madam ki, chicken estam leedu anta 

ela okati kaadu. daggariki vellithee neeku all time edee gola na   edukee pelli chesukunna va ani eedupu moham... neenu ready leenu

ani valla parents ni tidutundi pelli chesaru ani....  laagi okati peekudama anipistundi but control control ani...edi ekkadi godava anna naaku...

cooking baanee chestundi and surprisingly she asks me should I wait for you or eat ani. july nunchi we are living together but nothing much

intlo bayata ekkada cheppaleenu . I always think Iam a decent person by every means...looks like Iam wrong.  

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Posted 39 minutes ago

tv sound naku istam vundadhu ekkuva pedithe it is individual thing 

maa friends valla intlo kuda mood bavunna roju ok but so many times nene tv sound taginchandi ani annanu 

chicken kuda chala mandi ladies tinaru maa friends valla wifes lo chusanu 

indian ladies andaru ade antaru dggariki velithe it is common thing 

relation ship ki maree kottaga vunnavu ga 

 

 

 

Wife and Husband both here in DB and clearing their misunderstandings...problem solved..