July 2, 20215 yr Author 5 minutes ago, Shameless said: First thing believe me there is no such thing as right partner...with the time, you will learn everything about your partner and vice versa...every person is different and each person has his own taste....respecting individual goals and dreams and what each one of you would help the other person to reach their milestones gains more respect...never try to rule your partner like in old Indian style or Telugu movie style bro... most of us live in the US but still follow the 50s/60s wife/husband desi style of living...present generation girls are way more faster and mature than our moms' generation... My expectations for my wife initially were that she will wake up everyday in the morning and pray to my feet (just joking)...but she said we both have to do the same to each other... my expectation was I just work in the office and I don't have to do nothing at home and the reality is we both share the household chores like I wash the dishes almost everyday and she cooks, or when I cook indian food, she helps me with cutting vegetables, cooking bagara rice, and washing dishes... She hates cooking, so we eat outside every weekend which I am against but I respect her decision too. My expectation is/was to be intimate everyday whatever mood I am in and the reality is you can't understand the mood of a woman, so dont expect everyday ...she might be good now and might be moody the next hour... I don't drink and smoke but my wife drinks and I don't like it. She drinks smirnoff only during family parties and stays under control and now I don't have any problem with that... She expected a lot from me and I expected a lot from her but it doesn't work that way...end of the day, we respect each other and our relationship... Some sensible answer. Saving this one.
July 2, 20215 yr 10 minutes ago, Shameless said: First thing believe me there is no such thing as right partner...with the time, you will learn everything about your partner and vice versa...every person is different and each person has his own taste....respecting individual goals and dreams and what each one of you would help the other person to reach their milestones gains more respect...never try to rule your partner like in old Indian style or Telugu movie style bro... most of us live in the US but still follow the 50s/60s wife/husband desi style of living...present generation girls are way more faster and mature than our moms' generation... My expectations for my wife initially were that she will wake up everyday in the morning and pray to my feet (just joking)...but she said we both have to do the same to each other... my expectation was I just work in the office and I don't have to do nothing at home and the reality is we both share the household chores like I wash the dishes almost everyday and she cooks, or when I cook indian food, she helps me with cutting vegetables, cooking bagara rice, and washing dishes... She hates cooking, so we eat outside every weekend which I am against but I respect her decision too. My expectation is/was to be intimate everyday whatever mood I am in and the reality is you can't understand the mood of a woman, so dont expect everyday ...she might be good now and might be moody the next hour... I don't drink and smoke but my wife drinks and I don't like it. She drinks smirnoff only during family parties and stays under control and now I don't have any problem with that... She expected a lot from me and I expected a lot from her but it doesn't work that way...end of the day, we respect each other and our relationship... Masth cheppinavu anna .. same to same na mind lo vunnadi cheppavu
July 2, 20215 yr Just now, Unityunity2 said: Masth cheppinavu anna .. same to same na mind lo vunnadi cheppavu thanks bro...this is our 11th year in relationship and we still are learning about each other...our current behavior and way of living has something to do with what we have gone through in our past....
July 2, 20215 yr 26 minutes ago, Shameless said: First thing believe me there is no such thing as right partner...with the time, you will learn everything about your partner and vice versa...every person is different and each person has his own taste....respecting individual goals and dreams and what each one of you would help the other person to reach their milestones gains more respect...never try to rule your partner like in old Indian style or Telugu movie style bro... most of us live in the US but still follow the 50s/60s wife/husband desi style of living...present generation girls are way more faster and mature than our moms' generation... My expectations for my wife initially were that she will wake up everyday in the morning and pray to my feet (just joking)...but she said we both have to do the same to each other... my expectation was I just work in the office and I don't have to do nothing at home and the reality is we both share the household chores like I wash the dishes almost everyday and she cooks, or when I cook indian food, she helps me with cutting vegetables, cooking bagara rice, and washing dishes... She hates cooking, so we eat outside every weekend which I am against but I respect her decision too. My expectation is/was to be intimate everyday whatever mood I am in and the reality is you can't understand the mood of a woman, so dont expect everyday ...she might be good now and might be moody the next hour... I don't drink and smoke but my wife drinks and I don't like it. She drinks smirnoff only during family parties and stays under control and now I don't have any problem with that... She expected a lot from me and I expected a lot from her but it doesn't work that way...end of the day, we respect each other and our relationship... super bro....marriage is always a learning hill...there will be ups, downs, curves and straight paths
July 2, 20215 yr 1 minute ago, appaji_pesarattu said: super bro....marriage is always a learning hill...there will be ups, downs, curves and straight paths Right bro...we are always learning...no individual is same and when it comes to relationship, it is always about understanding and patience...
July 2, 20215 yr 1 hour ago, Shameless said: First thing believe me there is no such thing as right partner...with the time, you will learn everything about your partner and vice versa...every person is different and each person has his own taste....respecting individual goals and dreams and what each one of you would help the other person to reach their milestones gains more respect...never try to rule your partner like in old Indian style or Telugu movie style bro... most of us live in the US but still follow the 50s/60s wife/husband desi style of living...present generation girls are way more faster and mature than our moms' generation... My expectations for my wife initially were that she will wake up everyday in the morning and pray to my feet (just joking)...but she said we both have to do the same to each other... my expectation was I just work in the office and I don't have to do nothing at home and the reality is we both share the household chores like I wash the dishes almost everyday and she cooks, or when I cook indian food, she helps me with cutting vegetables, cooking bagara rice, and washing dishes... She hates cooking, so we eat outside every weekend which I am against but I respect her decision too. My expectation is/was to be intimate everyday whatever mood I am in and the reality is you can't understand the mood of a woman, so dont expect everyday ...she might be good now and might be moody the next hour... I don't drink and smoke but my wife drinks and I don't like it. She drinks smirnoff only during family parties and stays under control and now I don't have any problem with that... She expected a lot from me and I expected a lot from her but it doesn't work that way...end of the day, we respect each other and our relationship... Anna endhi idhi e paragraphs. @anna_gattiga_eyyi ramantunadu
July 2, 20215 yr 3 hours ago, Jombo0108 said: What’s are some of the things that you realized after marriage ??? expectation vs reality. Congrats buddy pelli set ayindha?
July 2, 20215 yr 13 minutes ago, Hungry_DinoBaby said: Congrats buddy pelli set ayindha? Intake neeku pelli agenda ??
July 2, 20215 yr Just now, Unityunity2 said: Intake neeku pelli agenda ?? Intaku neeku Pelli agenda ??
July 2, 20215 yr Expectations entha takkuva unte bp antha control lo untundi. Prati step lo compromise avutu velladame.
July 2, 20215 yr 3 hours ago, Shameless said: First thing believe me there is no such thing as right partner...with the time, you will learn everything about your partner and vice versa...every person is different and each person has his own taste....respecting individual goals and dreams and what each one of you would help the other person to reach their milestones gains more respect...never try to rule your partner like in old Indian style or Telugu movie style bro... most of us live in the US but still follow the 50s/60s wife/husband desi style of living...present generation girls are way more faster and mature than our moms' generation... My expectations for my wife initially were that she will wake up everyday in the morning and pray to my feet (just joking)...but she said we both have to do the same to each other... my expectation was I just work in the office and I don't have to do nothing at home and the reality is we both share the household chores like I wash the dishes almost everyday and she cooks, or when I cook indian food, she helps me with cutting vegetables, cooking bagara rice, and washing dishes... She hates cooking, so we eat outside every weekend which I am against but I respect her decision too. My expectation is/was to be intimate everyday whatever mood I am in and the reality is you can't understand the mood of a woman, so dont expect everyday ...she might be good now and might be moody the next hour... I don't drink and smoke but my wife drinks and I don't like it. She drinks smirnoff only during family parties and stays under control and now I don't have any problem with that... She expected a lot from me and I expected a lot from her but it doesn't work that way...end of the day, we respect each other and our relationship... Ba u marry videshi girl?
July 2, 20215 yr 5 hours ago, Jombo0108 said: What’s are some of the things that you realized after marriage ??? expectation vs reality. nee expectations ento cheppu reality mem cheptham ani antunna DB lo pelli ayina youths. one thing for sure, edi vunna autopilot lo povadame.
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