SENSIBLE: Weekend question during weekdays - Sorry

[bharathicement]

Sorry for asking this question on public forums, but as we are all anonymous, we have bandwidth enough to express our very private thoughts. This is about new generation issues.

Dont see this as boothu thread, but treat it as an educative thread. 

Of late I am seeing many divorce cases, all happened within a month of the marriage. The very common reasons amongst almost all of them is that the male partner is not able to satisfy the female partner. Earlier days, females were not vocal. But as the financial freedom sets in and social restrictions are erased, wives are simply handing over the divorce papers to the male and walking away. One very close doctor friend based in Hyd was telling chexual DISSATISFACTION is the PRIMARY cause. Its not financial or something else.

What can be the possible solutions mates? Is the entire male breed loosing chexual capacity owing to the addiction to chex sites, too much radiation via Mobiles and Wireless Intenret and food adulteration etc????

Please comment only if you have decent and valid point. No need to mock or insult females.

MODS: Delete the thread if you find answers are not decent enough.

 

[Midnightsun]

Ola uber

Agree 

[sarfaroshi]

8 minutes ago, bharathicement said:

Sorry for asking this question on public forums, but as we are all anonymous, we have bandwidth enough to express our very private thoughts. This is about new generation issues.

Dont see this as boothu thread, but treat it as an educative thread. 

Of late I am seeing many divorce cases, all happened within a month of the marriage. The very common reasons amongst almost all of them is that the male partner is not able to satisfy the female partner. Earlier days, females were not vocal. But as the financial freedom sets in and social restrictions are erased, wives are simply handing over the divorce papers to the male and walking away. One very close doctor friend based in Hyd was telling chexual DISSATISFACTION is the PRIMARY cause. Its not financial or something else.

What can be the possible solutions mates? Is the entire male breed loosing chexual capacity owing to the addiction to chex sites, too much radiation via Mobiles and Wireless Intenret and food adulteration etc????

Please comment only if you have decent and valid point. No need to mock or insult females.

MODS: Delete the thread if you find answers are not decent enough.

 

 

 

[Swatkat]

13 minutes ago, bharathicement said:

Sorry for asking this question on public forums, but as we are all anonymous, we have bandwidth enough to express our very private thoughts. This is about new generation issues.

Dont see this as boothu thread, but treat it as an educative thread. 

Of late I am seeing many divorce cases, all happened within a month of the marriage. The very common reasons amongst almost all of them is that the male partner is not able to satisfy the female partner. Earlier days, females were not vocal. But as the financial freedom sets in and social restrictions are erased, wives are simply handing over the divorce papers to the male and walking away. One very close doctor friend based in Hyd was telling chexual DISSATISFACTION is the PRIMARY cause. Its not financial or something else.

What can be the possible solutions mates? Is the entire male breed loosing chexual capacity owing to the addiction to chex sites, too much radiation via Mobiles and Wireless Intenret and food adulteration etc????

Please comment only if you have decent and valid point. No need to mock or insult females.

MODS: Delete the thread if you find answers are not decent enough.

 

Gen z got more freedom. I belong to gen y i had same freedom growing up and still have it. I think of same way. If someone tries to disrupt my freedom i get frustrated it does not matter if its a friend wife etc. when it comes to girls, more financial freedom, false social media prestige etc comes into play. 
 

most gen z in the west are not religious and it could be one of the reason. Over to @Raven_Rayes @Ryzen_renoir @tennisluvrredux Uncle

[allushirish]

51 minutes ago, bharathicement said:

Sorry for asking this question on public forums, but as we are all anonymous, we have bandwidth enough to express our very private thoughts. This is about new generation issues.

Dont see this as boothu thread, but treat it as an educative thread. 

Of late I am seeing many divorce cases, all happened within a month of the marriage. The very common reasons amongst almost all of them is that the male partner is not able to satisfy the female partner. Earlier days, females were not vocal. But as the financial freedom sets in and social restrictions are erased, wives are simply handing over the divorce papers to the male and walking away. One very close doctor friend based in Hyd was telling chexual DISSATISFACTION is the PRIMARY cause. Its not financial or something else.

What can be the possible solutions mates? Is the entire male breed loosing chexual capacity owing to the addiction to chex sites, too much radiation via Mobiles and Wireless Intenret and food adulteration etc????

Please comment only if you have decent and valid point. No need to mock or insult females.

MODS: Delete the thread if you find answers are not decent enough.

 

@friesNfrappe also did same with her first husband for alimony 

[anna_gari_maata]

1 hour ago, bharathicement said:

Sorry for asking this question on public forums, but as we are all anonymous, we have bandwidth enough to express our very private thoughts. This is about new generation issues.

Dont see this as boothu thread, but treat it as an educative thread. 

Of late I am seeing many divorce cases, all happened within a month of the marriage. The very common reasons amongst almost all of them is that the male partner is not able to satisfy the female partner. Earlier days, females were not vocal. But as the financial freedom sets in and social restrictions are erased, wives are simply handing over the divorce papers to the male and walking away. One very close doctor friend based in Hyd was telling chexual DISSATISFACTION is the PRIMARY cause. Its not financial or something else.

What can be the possible solutions mates? Is the entire male breed loosing chexual capacity owing to the addiction to chex sites, too much radiation via Mobiles and Wireless Intenret and food adulteration etc????

Please comment only if you have decent and valid point. No need to mock or insult females.

MODS: Delete the thread if you find answers are not decent enough.

 

It's called natural selection

Also survival of the fittest

humans tend to forgot that they are animals too

[dewarist]

I believe that the actual reasons are beyond physical satisfactions.

Most people these days lack patience or the attitude to take a step back. It applies to both genders. This is primarily being driven by increased financial freedom and increased ways to engage oneself ( social media/entertainment etc). And in most cases both of them work for long hours and pre-occupied with work related things.

[allushirish]

1 hour ago, Swatkat said:

Gen z got more freedom. I belong to gen y i had same freedom growing up and still have it. I think of same way. If someone tries to disrupt my freedom i get frustrated it does not matter if its a friend wife etc. when it comes to girls, more financial freedom, false social media prestige etc comes into play. 
 

most gen z in the west are not religious and it could be one of the reason. Over to @Raven_Rayes @Ryzen_renoir @tennisluvrredux Uncle

@tennisluvrredux uncle start crying on your wife now

[bharathicement]

21 minutes ago, dewarist said:

I believe that the actual reasons are beyond physical satisfactions.

Most people these days lack patience or the attitude to take a step back. It applies to both genders. This is primarily being driven by increased financial freedom and increased ways to engage oneself ( social media/entertainment etc). And in most cases both of them work for long hours and pre-occupied with work related things.

Sensible response bro.

A short discussion I heard LIVE on the group call (a very close relative within the family relation, recently married), the 1-month-enough-recently married girl saying this: "He is not keeping me happy for more than 2 minutes...Telugu lo cheppaalante, athaniki stamina leedhu, nannu sukhapettaleedu... naaku athanu voddu ". I could not do anything as I did not know how to respond. Till that time Boy was shouting and having full upper hand with his arguments. He did not utter a single word after that. She cut his throat-off with two lines, without a knife.

 

 

[dewarist]

2 minutes ago, bharathicement said:

Sensible response bro.

A short discussion I heard LIVE on the group call (a very close relative within the family relation, recently married), the 1-month-enough-recently married girl saying this: "He is not keeping me happy for more than 2 minutes...Telugu lo cheppaalante, athaniki stamina leedhu, nannu sukhapettaleedu... naaku athanu voddu ". I could not do anything as I did not know how to respond. Till that time Boy was shouting and having full upper hand with his arguments. He did not utter a single word after that. She cut his throat-off with two lines, without a knife.

 

 

sexual satisfaction is all relative. It's does not start or end on the bed. I think sexual satisfaction is a very easy reason to put out. How can one verify/reason out on the claims?

Humans need emotional bonding to make a meaningful relationship. How can one build a emotional bond within a month? It takes time and effort from both people. That is why i said about patience. 

[sarfaroshi]

12 minutes ago, bharathicement said:

Sensible response bro.

A short discussion I heard LIVE on the group call (a very close relative within the family relation, recently married), the 1-month-enough-recently married girl saying this: "He is not keeping me happy for more than 2 minutes...Telugu lo cheppaalante, athaniki stamina leedhu, nannu sukhapettaleedu... naaku athanu voddu ". I could not do anything as I did not know how to respond. Till that time Boy was shouting and having full upper hand with his arguments. He did not utter a single word after that. She cut his throat-off with two lines, without a knife.

 

 

Ask her to buy a Dildo Bro and get help from his Husband in foreplay...

[Vaampire]

Okka cinema dialog undi. Cell phone screen ki scratch padithey cellphone padesi kotha phone konukuney rojulu ivi ani. People dont have patience to repair things.

 

this can be applied in relationships too

[bharathicement]

5 minutes ago, sarfaroshi said:

Ask her to buy a Dildo Bro and get help from his Husband in foreplay...

Okay got it bro. I value your opinion, which is actually the most practical solution.

But when I was made to mediate this and I am given the Father-like role, how can I tell this buddy? I had this in mind but remember I am the main mediator there.

[yoda123]

3 hours ago, bharathicement said:

Sorry for asking this question on public forums, but as we are all anonymous, we have bandwidth enough to express our very private thoughts. This is about new generation issues.

Dont see this as boothu thread, but treat it as an educative thread. 

Of late I am seeing many divorce cases, all happened within a month of the marriage. The very common reasons amongst almost all of them is that the male partner is not able to satisfy the female partner. Earlier days, females were not vocal. But as the financial freedom sets in and social restrictions are erased, wives are simply handing over the divorce papers to the male and walking away. One very close doctor friend based in Hyd was telling chexual DISSATISFACTION is the PRIMARY cause. Its not financial or something else.

What can be the possible solutions mates? Is the entire male breed loosing chexual capacity owing to the addiction to chex sites, too much radiation via Mobiles and Wireless Intenret and food adulteration etc????

Please comment only if you have decent and valid point. No need to mock or insult females.

MODS: Delete the thread if you find answers are not decent enough.

 

 

hmm

intimacy is on many levels ...

if the relation you are speaking is arranged marriage or love marriage ?

if arranged marriage ... there are many things at play ...

1. expectations of in laws that put pressure on bride ... that make her not to respect bot family

2. disrespect of girls family by biy family ... make the girl feel that .. shw wont belong to by family ... which is a big 'intimacy breaker'

3.  apart from above .. if boy and girl work long hours and do not have time to sit and talk in evenings n do funny stuff ... it will not lead to building a relationship ...

4. apart from that if girl had prior chexual experiences where she was satisified and boy an amtuer to the league ... or he might be having medical conditions like 'premature exjaculation' ... then boy and girl needs do rigourous drill in bed ... untill where both are satisified ... make sure that girl reaches orgajam first than boy ... a boy can definitely know that girl reached orgajam ...

5. above all a bonding, a belonging, intimacy takes years to build ... its not over night or month ... to have a bond and belonging ... the couple do not need a certificate of marriage or the indicators of marrige like mettulu, pusthulu etc ...

 

if the marriage is love marriage and they have a prior relationship with physical initimacy for couple of years ... there can still be problemes with relatives .. but as couple they can put time and effort for the marriage to work ...

ABOVE ALLLLLL

marriage is always a work in progress ... it needs lot of effort from both sides to make it work even after a sense bonding and belonging formed ... 

all the best for your friend ...

[MRI]

1 hour ago, Vaampire said:

Okka cinema dialog undi. Cell phone screen ki scratch padithey cellphone padesi kotha phone konukuney rojulu ivi ani. People dont have patience to repair things.

 

this can be applied in relationships too

nuvveppudu ilaane maatladataaventra .. hahahahaha