It’s about the priorities. Culture plays a major role.

We want our kids to excel but desi’s have a different meaning for excellence, which means going to the best school and working for the best company if not medical school. Desi culture lo excellence ante ide…this is what we have been taught…

I know a Sardar who is a HVAC Tech and makes $10k/month and another IT guy who also makes 10k/month yet IT guy is sought after in our culture..

End of the day, avutalodini chusi compare chesukuni eduvadam mana budhi…we have to live with it.

 

38 minutes ago, veerigadu said:

Nordic countries lo people enduku healthy and happy untaroooo anukunna....They dont take life too seriously. It makes sense. They enjoy 16 hours and work only 8 hours. He does not think about work when he is not at work. 

Good to learn something from other cultures. 

They dont take life seriously kaadu…they dont take work too seriously…

I think we are all distracted throughout the day.. andariki focus thaggipoyindi bcoz of too many distractions around… though we think we are working long hours, we in fact actually work less than half of that time.. the remaining time is all wasted on watching phone, videos, social media, kids activities, stock trading,  etc.. 

54 minutes ago, ARYA said:

Thata meru akkade retire iyyara

friends unaru baa epudu chusina picha chill avutaru 

a jealous thone recent discussion lo usa ki randi ra kavalante h1b apply chepistha ma emp tho ani chepa 

1 hour ago, Raja_Returns said:

++sweden

i like sweden & denmark people work & personal life balance.

 

i feel that because of the cold they just enjoy outdoor weather when it is good. pushes them to enjoy while it lasts. rest of the year outdoor activities kashtam kada.

1 hour ago, Raja_Returns said:

friends unaru baa epudu chusina picha chill avutaru 

a jealous thone recent discussion lo usa ki randi ra kavalante h1b apply chepistha ma emp tho ani chepa 

lol vallu ekkuva rojulu undaleru kada akkada

2 hours ago, veerigadu said:

4:30 PM tharvtha only family time antaduuu....Always goes on hiking and his kids are travelling a lot with him. Although they are still under 7 years still. Physically active ga raise chesthunnadu....

Very chill family guy. 

introduce him to biryani, thumpsup, weekend pot luck, house warming cermonies, instagram reels, cars and land investments.