Rise of lonely single men

[chef]

On 9/1/2022 at 11:57 PM, Telugodura456 said:

who gets opika to watch 19 mins video likes this ba.

Lol.. guy who spends 24/7 in this db is saying this?

[Swatkat]

33 minutes ago, chef said:

Lol.. guy who spends 24/7 in this db is saying this?

Bro na name include cheyala nuvvu

[Scurvy]

3 hours ago, DalchanChekka said:

Videos from west manaki apply avvavu. You should watch Indian match making.

Ofcourse andulo kuda ABCs but atleast relatable to an extent.

Looks play a key role for both genders and everybody knows their worth.

So don't expect qualities that you don't bring  to the table yourself.

When someone looks good, they are aware that they look good. Why is that a hard pill to swallow.

When you expect someone to have it all, don't be intimated by their self confidence.

Lol! Bro next 20 yrs lo ide chustava indains lo kuda. Coz here even un attractive girls are getting lot of attention and there demands are growing which leaves avg guys to simp. 

Indian match making only applies to rich and affluent not the avg joes

[DalchanChekka]

19 minutes ago, Scurvy said:

Lol! Bro next 20 yrs lo ide chustava indains lo kuda. Coz here even un attractive girls are getting lot of attention and there demands are growing which leaves avg guys to simp. 

Indian match making only applies to rich and affluent not the avg joes

You must be doing something wrong

Try to meet people in person. Those profiles online don't really give you anything.

Don't be too shallow and superficial too. Be open minded.

 

[Scurvy]

23 hours ago, Telugodura456 said:

its inevitable once arranged marriage system collapses and divorce is made easy.

But men will overcome it  and get over it. Lot of them are depressed because they maybe ashamed not because they are actually suffering.

No baa if arranged marriage collapses it will

be more difficult to find a girl bcoz of poor looks. Old days lo job or properties chusi icchevallu. Now scene completely changed and moving forward it will be even more devastating if this continues

[Scurvy]

21 minutes ago, DalchanChekka said:

You must be doing something wrong

Try to meet people in person. Those profiles online don't really give you anything.

Don't be too shallow and superficial too. Be open minded.

 

Ha bro not simping too much and not responding quickly ade mistake and boring texts. Edo oka aasha bro to try but stuck there from years with zero dates.

emo bro insta chuska what is attraction ane defintion eh chaged and it is tough to be not shallow because of good looking girls over there.

in person eh best bro but too afraid of mee too and girls spreading false rumours

[DalchanChekka]

Just now, Scurvy said:

Ha bro not simping too much and not responding quickly ade mistake and boring texts. Edo oka aasha bro to try but stuck there from years with zero dates.

emo bro insta chuska what is attraction ane defintion eh chaged and it is tough to be not shallow because of good looking girls over there.

Snapchat filtered pics avi anni. When you meet in person, you will be ok even if they don't check a few boxes on the paper. 

[Scurvy]

2 hours ago, DalchanChekka said:

Snapchat filtered pics avi anni. When you meet in person, you will be ok even if they don't check a few boxes on the paper. 

Emo kaka years of social isolation will not help to easily open up with women.

[Scurvy]

11 hours ago, DalchanChekka said:

Honestly, this is most Indian guys in the dating pool. I’d know. So many double standards!! Vinesh was annoying yet such a great example of what’s wrong with a lot of Indians guys who are still single. They’ll look any of: fat/obese, balding, oversized clothes, no grooming. And their expectations of women are: Bollywood status. Vinesh, JOKE IS ON YOU. U showed the world the problem with dating.

Kaka i don't fall under this category at all. I took feedback from friends and peers on style and got compliments and got with northies as well.(may be they are being nice idk). Based on that only i went ahead and tried my luck but none. May be my pics sucks but friends keep on asking about dating status and it gets annoying. Might be conversational skills suck but you are getting my point at why men are lonely at a larger picture.

[Telugodura456]

18 hours ago, Scurvy said:

No baa if arranged marriage collapses it will

be more difficult to find a girl bcoz of poor looks. Old days lo job or properties chusi icchevallu. Now scene completely changed and moving forward it will be even more devastating if this continues

adhe antunna - for all its fault arranged marriages ensures most of the population gets married.

Once it is gone - and everything is about grabbing what you can get like looks and property - then  a lot of single men will be there. 

But eventually they will accept and enjoy their single lives.

[veerigadu]

Indian men should invest in their looks. Go to gym, use deodorant and wear appropriate attire. Spend some money on yourself. Car brands doesn’t matter if you look shittyyyuuu
 

Money will buy a fussy but not a wife here in vomerica. Ok may be it’s possible if you are a super rich guy. Even then you will attract gold diggers. Not worth it 

Lastly, vomericans have a lot of access to sex since high school. So people here are needy only if they never got laid due to their own issues.

 

Hence don’t act needy and fall in that loser category. Act like a champ. You can attract a good looking girl. ATB

[Telugodura456]

Just now, veerigadu said:

Indian men should invest in their looks. Go to gym, wear a deodorant and wear appropriate attire.
 

Money will buy a fussy but not a wife in vomerica unless you are a super rich guy. Even then you will attract gold diggers.

Lastly, vomericans have a lot of access to sex since high school. So people here are needy only if they never got laid due to their own issues. Hence don’t act needy and act like a champ. You can attract a good looking girl. I can guarantee you all. 

 

gaadidhi guddule. far better to invest in improving ones understanding of world.

why do you need a wife if you can get fussy - plenty of it ? if you need a partner who is understanding gatra - is that the best route ? invest in good freinds - thats probably more rewarding.

[Telugodura456]

infact fussy itself is overrated. i am also realizing it now.

not suprised elon musk did not have sex for years.

[veerigadu]

27 minutes ago, Telugodura456 said:

gaadidhi guddule. far better to invest in improving ones understanding of world.

why do you need a wife if you can get fussy - plenty of it ? if you need a partner who is understanding gatra - is that the best route ? invest in good freinds - thats probably more rewarding.

I had similar opinion about this in the past. But Truly selfish people marry and have more kids. They pass on their genes. 
 

Our ancestors fought diseases and killed fellows humans just yo survive and procreate. Back in the day they didn’t lead a luxurious life it was mostly nomadic. Yet they did this all to pass on their genes to next generation. Now it’s our turn to pass it on. I would say have as many kids as possible if you can afford decent lifestyle. This topic is more complicated and I can go on and on about this. But if you are already planning for a retort while reading this post, then there is no point. 

[bramhacharimogudu]

7 minutes ago, veerigadu said:

I had similar opinion about this in the past. But Truly selfish people marry and have more kids. They pass on their genes. 
 

Our ancestors fought diseases and killed fellows humans just yo survive and procreate. Back in the day they didn’t lead a luxurious life it was mostly nomadic. Yet they did this all to pass on their genes to next generation. Now it’s our turn to pass it on. I would say have as many kids as possible if you can afford decent lifestyle. This topic is more complicated and I can go on and on about this. But if you are already planning for a retort while reading this post, then there is no point. 

Uncle having more kids ante men ki easy ye but mosevallaki kada problem asalke ippudu antha Samantha kind of mindset ladies tayaravtunnaru