How do you react

[Hamansh]

Scene1 : due to some bad decisions and some forced situations fell so low in life that contemplating a sucide kind of situation ......you help him to come out of his current situation and guide him through life...

 

Scene2: you know your friend is struggling in life but you just left him to be with no help given even if asked of you as he is not doing good in life, but once he commits sucide you donate to gofund me or to his family.

 

It is the same money you did in situation 1 or situation 2 but what will you chose.

Already DB lo oka sari post vesina member eee I think you guys remember kakarkayas post ....he is in this situation and I am just unable to decide man....once i tried to help him to my best but i know i coukd not get him off his issues but he is still down there and hears from a source doung terrible so just spoke to him....na friends emantaru ante nekenduku mama vademithe ....but entho kontha manam cheyyagaalgithe may be he will survuve ani oka pakkana adela pothe nakenduku ani oka pakkana....

 

Pothe teesukuralemu but friends andaru kuda i mean ones who knows him says mama adelagu nasanamayyadj inkenduku ra vadiki rupay icchi waste mam isthado ivvado....antunnaru but same friends evaranna accident lo chanipothe they try to donate hundreds of dollars...naku theda teluyatla so confused okkadine chese antha chinnadi kaadhu...naluguriki cheppi naccha cheppe osition u ledhu.....just thinking plainly......anduke postezd for ths teluu tammullu group.......because way back in 2014.....some people on that group helped this man go to his home...and gave a chance..... so just checking for those good people.....

[sarfaroshi]

4 minutes ago, Hamansh said:

Scene1 : due to some bad decisions and some forced situations fell so low in life that contemplating a sucide kind of situation ......you help him to come out of his current situation and guide him through life...

 

Scene2: you know your friend is struggling in life but you just left him to be with no help given even if asked of you as he is not doing good in life, but once he commits sucide you donate to gofund me or to his family.

 

It is the same money you did in situation 1 or situation 2 but what will you chose.

Already DB lo oka sari post vesina member eee I think you guys remember kakarkayas post ....he is in this situation and I am just unable to decide man....once i tried to help him to my best but i know i coukd not get him off his issues but he is still down there and hears from a source doung terrible so just spoke to him....na friends emantaru ante nekenduku mama vademithe ....but entho kontha manam cheyyagaalgithe may be he will survuve ani oka pakkana adela pothe nakenduku ani oka pakkana....

 

Pothe teesukuralemu but friends andaru kuda i mean ones who knows him says mama adelagu nasanamayyadj inkenduku ra vadiki rupay icchi waste mam isthado ivvado....antunnaru but same friends evaranna accident lo chanipothe they try to donate hundreds of dollars...naku theda teluyatla so confused okkadine chese antha chinnadi kaadhu...naluguriki cheppi naccha cheppe osition u ledhu.....just thinking plainly......anduke postezd for ths teluu tammullu group.......because way back in 2014.....some people on that group helped this man go to his home...and gave a chance..... so just checking for those good people.....

ok

[Spartan]

@Hamansh are u talking about @bitterkai ?

 

[Kakynada]

ok

[MiryalgudaMaruthiRao]

[pakeer_saab]

5 hours ago, Hamansh said:

Scene1 : due to some bad decisions and some forced situations fell so low in life that contemplating a sucide kind of situation ......you help him to come out of his current situation and guide him through life...

 

Scene2: you know your friend is struggling in life but you just left him to be with no help given even if asked of you as he is not doing good in life, but once he commits sucide you donate to gofund me or to his family.

 

It is the same money you did in situation 1 or situation 2 but what will you chose.

Already DB lo oka sari post vesina member eee I think you guys remember kakarkayas post ....he is in this situation and I am just unable to decide man....once i tried to help him to my best but i know i coukd not get him off his issues but he is still down there and hears from a source doung terrible so just spoke to him....na friends emantaru ante nekenduku mama vademithe ....but entho kontha manam cheyyagaalgithe may be he will survuve ani oka pakkana adela pothe nakenduku ani oka pakkana....

 

Pothe teesukuralemu but friends andaru kuda i mean ones who knows him says mama adelagu nasanamayyadj inkenduku ra vadiki rupay icchi waste mam isthado ivvado....antunnaru but same friends evaranna accident lo chanipothe they try to donate hundreds of dollars...naku theda teluyatla so confused okkadine chese antha chinnadi kaadhu...naluguriki cheppi naccha cheppe osition u ledhu.....just thinking plainly......anduke postezd for ths teluu tammullu group.......because way back in 2014.....some people on that group helped this man go to his home...and gave a chance..... so just checking for those good people.....

assuming that your friend is such situation due to his own actions

one has to pay for his actions and experience the result of their actions, this is what called karma and there is no way out other than done by themselves

if you have so much strong sense to help him, fix it by advising the root cause but never help him on dealing with symptoms

if you cannot help him through right advice, it is better to donate on gofundme than doing it directly

In this world of distractions, one can not only lose by their own inactions but also lose by supporting such persons with bad actions

never confuse pity on poor/orphans/helping downtrodden and pity on friend are same comparable issues, no they are not

how do you know if taking help from you will get him to reform himself

if this is due to his bad luck, all those do not apply, you should help what you can and try working with other friends and explain them to donate as well

paina both kakunda needi MOD/Fake pakodi  post aite neeku mee friend situation vachu gaaka!

 

 

[psycopk]

Scene 1- vachi salaha adigite idi kadu adi ani cheptam.. ledu money ivu naa problems nene solve chesukunta ante vadi history chusi istam.. ledu history worst ga undi.. sucide chesukunta ani bediriste good luck antam

 

scene2– telisina vadu kada ani jali chupinchi vadi family ki gofund funds aaina use avutai vadu elagu use avaledu ani istaru gofund..

 

[Hamansh]

13 hours ago, pakeer_saab said:

assuming that your friend is such situation due to his own actions

one has to pay for his actions and experience the result of their actions, this is what called karma and there is no way out other than done by themselves

if you have so much strong sense to help him, fix it by advising the root cause but never help him on dealing with symptoms

if you cannot help him through right advice, it is better to donate on gofundme than doing it directly

In this world of distractions, one can not only lose by their own inactions but also lose by supporting such persons with bad actions

never confuse pity on poor/orphans/helping downtrodden and pity on friend are same comparable issues, no they are not

how do you know if taking help from you will get him to reform himself

if this is due to his bad luck, all those do not apply, you should help what you can and try working with other friends and explain them to donate as well

paina both kakunda needi MOD/Fake pakodi  post aite neeku mee friend situation vachu gaaka!

 

 

Basical ga 2 years straight agriculture lo beyond his limits velli nasanam ayyadu i mean he leased lot of acres and was so badly affected with the outcome and he is in shithole place now....

[Hamansh]

13 hours ago, psycopk said:

Scene 1- vachi salaha adigite idi kadu adi ani cheptam.. ledu money ivu naa problems nene solve chesukunta ante vadi history chusi istam.. ledu history worst ga undi.. sucide chesukunta ani bediriste good luck antam

 

scene2– telisina vadu kada ani jali chupinchi vadi family ki gofund funds aaina use avutai vadu elagu use avaledu ani istaru gofund..

 

Sucide kadhu basically badluck ridden life ...but he in worse shape now so em cheyyalo tekyaka post chesina

[sarvayogi]

once a dollar comes in relation, both dollar and relation are gone..I said this earlier also

Always give moral support and not a penny..okasari dabbulu iste inka vallaki kooda evado okadiki naa badha chepte paisal vastai ane feeling lo untaru

devudu icchina gruddha bend cheste panulu avutai..amma ayya ani ediste emostadi...

[pakeer_saab]

1 hour ago, Hamansh said:

Basical ga 2 years straight agriculture lo beyond his limits velli nasanam ayyadu i mean he leased lot of acres and was so badly affected with the outcome and he is in shithole place now....

then he deserves your help according to me

but you should help him with only that amount that you don't expect back