Parents appulu

[csrcsr]

5 minutes ago, Simple123 said:

Dude , I lost 150k hard earned money by trusting someone in a bad investment. It took me couple of months to get over . You must be around 33 to 35 age . Chill out , you have cleared your parents debt .  Don’t compare with others . You have so many years to earn . Start fresh and have a good peaceful life .  Tell your dad that you cannot give money anymore . 

 

3 minutes ago, Simple123 said:

Time will heal everything. One bad investment anuko , enjoy precious time with your kid and make beautiful memories 

 adi healing , hope important bayya very good post , many people including myself keep worrying what has been lost forgetting the wonderful present and future we have

[LungiLingaraju]

Bro I went through similar stuff… difference enti ante we were not well off but sontha illu undi 3 rooms and 2rooms rent … but US epoudaithe vachano.. sentimental fool laga first salary ani pampisthe vaddu anakunda took it and gave it to some one else … kept sending money now and then .. got married chala money vesna .. evado illu vaastu baga ledu ani ante spent huge money to move few things by few feet ala… kid born … still asked for money now and then … lekka levu …

2 lakh pampisthe they see how to spend them than saving them … pakka na vallatho comparing started .. emaina unnaya ante no money in the bank annaru.. 

I couldn’t take it more .. straight ga cheppina yearly one time for their expenses like 10k rupees per month … no more … Meeru adigi nannu ivvandi pettakandi .. I have to take of things here .. I can’t rely on my kids for our retirement .. please spend in your limits and stop comparing and stop asking ..

 

if you don’t do it now you will regret it bro .. all the best … 

[LungiLingaraju]

Done is done .. don’t worry and thing about past .. talk to your wife .. have open conversation .. 

[TOM_BHAYYA]

32 minutes ago, Thefighter said:

Dad business laga start chesi lost all properties and appulu chesaru , ayinaku kuda miney ochedi undi but evaru evvatledu . and I gave almost 55 lacs lekka undi lekka lekunda oka 10 daaka . Asalu parents ani evala Leka asalu Ela react avvalo telvatledu . Chala depressing undi hard work cheyalanna mood kuda ratledu . Not able to talk to my parents . I am married daily full fightings entlo .

Chinnappati nundi eppudu happy ga undi ledu asalu . Chinnappudu society ani andari problems discuss chesi entlo Andarni tindunde  varu . Now Andarni nammi lost all money . Naa personal money 65 lacs daka etu poyayo kuda telvadu . 

need some suggestions .

Nuv 65 lac ke atla ante aada mee dad lost entire life savings antunnav nuvve.. inka mee dad ye level lo badha paduthunnado kadha vaa..

eeds stocks and crypto loss thread esthe okkodu 20,30k numbers cheptharu.. andharivi hard earned money ye. Konni sarlo aasha padi pogokottukuntam konni sarlu manavi kadhani pogottukuntam konni sarlu mana responsibility ani feel avvadam thappa chesedhem le.. youth lo unnav 50,60L you can earn in few years ippudu parents kavalani cheyanidhaniki vaallani badhapetti malli earn cheskoleni relationships pogorlttukokun ani @AntaAssamey edusthu thanu type cheyaleka nannu post cheyamannadu bro

[csrcsr]

4 minutes ago, TOM_BHAYYA said:

Nuv 65 lac ke atla ante aada mee dad lost entire life savings antunnav nuvve.. inka mee dad ye level lo badha paduthunnado kadha vaa..

eeds stocks and crypto loss thread esthe okkodu 20,30k numbers cheptharu.. andharivi hard earned money ye. Konni sarlo aasha padi pogokottukuntam konni sarlu manavi kadhani pogottukuntam konni sarlu mana responsibility ani feel avvadam thappa chesedhem le.. youth lo unnav 50,60L you can earn in few years ippudu parents kavalani cheyanidhaniki vaallani badhapetti malli earn cheskoleni relationships pogorlttukokun ani @AntaAssamey edusthu thanu type cheyaleka nannu post cheyamannadu bro

oka sari nee Venetian, bellagio  losses eyyi Anna set avutadu kurradu 🤣

[Gorantlamdhav]

28 minutes ago, Thefighter said:

Life la eppudu evariki cheppukoledu badalu .. Maa dad valla lost all properties he bought in his entire life and lost my money also . Asalu edhi lite teskovala ? Ela move on avvali telvatledu . Evanni recent ga telsinay .

Potey poni fresh ga life start chey. Nuvu life lo nerchukunna lessons ni kid ki cheppu. Manollu andaru tesla lo tirugutey nuvu civic la tirugu ni pillalu ardam cheskoni manchi darilo nadustaru

edi jarigina mana manchike. parents ni kshaminchi daggariki teesko vallu teliyaka chesaremo tappu. pellam gola vuntadi lite teesko

[TOM_BHAYYA]

5 minutes ago, csrcsr said:

oka sari nee Venetian, bellagio  losses eyyi Anna set avutadu kurradu 🤣

Crypto stocks bokka latho compare chesthe aa bokka lite le anna

[Gaali_Gottam_Govinda]

17 hours ago, Thefighter said:

Yea bro 37. Enka debts clear avavledu enka enta appulu unnayo teliyadu . 

Is your wife also working???  Are u the only kid or do you have any siblings?

 

Naa cousins and their wife's...... all did not bring anything to US...... All did their masters and now everyone is earning $250K and above per year (Combined)........ 2008-2010 vachina vaalu kooda...... now they're living in $1M plus homes and $300-500K in 401K accounts.

You're only 37....... Both work hard and by age 50 you can also have a life the above... Convince your wife in a pleasing manner. 

Ask your dad to be mindful about money...... Tell them plain and simple, Harsh gaa ayyina parledu. If you want my money follow my rules and money management don't blindly trust and waste money on every idiot ani.

Parents or wife or anyone....... at the end of day its your life and money they are dependent on..... you have every right to talk tough to whoever is using your hard earned money.

 

 

[Thefighter]

I have sibling and settled well yet , Nenu oka 2 properties konna okati mom name meeda undi . Enkokati porblem lo undi ani court chuttu tirugutunnaru spending money for that also . Avi kuda Edina ayte enka chesedi em ledu . 

[Gaali_Gottam_Govinda]

32 minutes ago, TOM_BHAYYA said:

Nuv 65 lac ke atla ante aada mee dad lost entire life savings antunnav nuvve.. inka mee dad ye level lo badha paduthunnado kadha vaa..

eeds stocks and crypto loss thread esthe okkodu 20,30k numbers cheptharu.. andharivi hard earned money ye. Konni sarlo aasha padi pogokottukuntam konni sarlu manavi kadhani pogottukuntam konni sarlu mana responsibility ani feel avvadam thappa chesedhem le.. youth lo unnav 50,60L you can earn in few years ippudu parents kavalani cheyanidhaniki vaallani badhapetti malli earn cheskoleni relationships pogorlttukokun ani @AntaAssamey edusthu thanu type cheyaleka nannu post cheyamannadu bro

20K 30K jujubi losses......... ee year lo chaala mandiki pagili poindi....... my friend lost 70% of his family 401K acct...... He went big in on some High growth tech stocks on his $500K account last year and kept buying the dip till May 2022 and used all his cash.

From June 2022 those stocks went down another 25-30%. 

[Thefighter]

Trying since one month to get back to normal life not able to control emotions . Life la money enta important oo eppude telustundi . Money properties  unnay anna feeling unnappudu Aa strength verela untunde . Now when I know that we lost everything lost all my courage and not able to face anyone . 

[Gaali_Gottam_Govinda]

3 minutes ago, Thefighter said:

I have sibling and settled well yet , Nenu oka 2 properties konna okati mom name meeda undi . Enkokati porblem lo undi ani court chuttu tirugutunnaru spending money for that also . Avi kuda Edina ayte enka chesedi em ledu . 

Thats good You both can divide the responsibilities. 

Why have your properties on your parents name? when your parents owe debt to other people?

Change it to your name or else don't buy. Always have properties in your name. 

[TOM_BHAYYA]

10 minutes ago, Thefighter said:

Trying since one month to get back to normal life not able to control emotions . Life la money enta important oo eppude telustundi . Money properties  unnay anna feeling unnappudu Aa strength verela untunde . Now when I know that we lost everything lost all my courage and not able to face anyone . 

Lost everything endhi vaa.. edho nee job poindhanattu permanent ga matladathav.. Aindhedho aindhi you can’t change it.. concentrate on future.. single pay check aithe bodi dhayavalla 50L= 60k.. oka 3 years aina pattudhhi if not high paying job.. and its time to ask your wife to work.. idhoka positive . Or idharu earning ante hardly less than one year savings.. iga bathuk sarvanashanam annattu chesthav.. @Android_Halwa jera cheppu poraniki

[Jaggadonga]

1 hour ago, Thefighter said:

Dad business laga start chesi lost all properties and appulu chesaru , ayinaku kuda miney ochedi undi but evaru evvatledu . and I gave almost 55 lacs lekka undi lekka lekunda oka 10 daaka . Asalu parents ani evala Leka asalu Ela react avvalo telvatledu . Chala depressing undi hard work cheyalanna mood kuda ratledu . Not able to talk to my parents . I am married daily full fightings entlo .

Chinnappati nundi eppudu happy ga undi ledu asalu . Chinnappudu society ani andari problems discuss chesi entlo Andarni tindunde  varu . Now Andarni nammi lost all money . Naa personal money 65 lacs daka etu poyayo kuda telvadu . 

need some suggestions .

Me and my brother paid almost 2CR in family debts.....bad businesses effect of our dad.....still paying. It's frustrating but nothing much we can do. If you want family you have to. One good thing for us is we got married to understanding girls. Don't think too much, the show must go on....

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1 hour ago, Thefighter said:

Dad business laga start chesi lost all properties and appulu chesaru , ayinaku kuda miney ochedi undi but evaru evvatledu . and I gave almost 55 lacs lekka undi lekka lekunda oka 10 daaka . Asalu parents ani evala Leka asalu Ela react avvalo telvatledu . Chala depressing undi hard work cheyalanna mood kuda ratledu . Not able to talk to my parents . I am married daily full fightings entlo .

Chinnappati nundi eppudu happy ga undi ledu asalu . Chinnappudu society ani andari problems discuss chesi entlo Andarni tindunde  varu . Now Andarni nammi lost all money . Naa personal money 65 lacs daka etu poyayo kuda telvadu . 

need some suggestions .

maa nanna chepparu...complete details ivvaru. yedi bettero telletamledu. first neenu chooskunta antaru, taruvatha 10l annaru, adhi ichaka..malli  silent...malli 10l, story goes on. Naku ela react avvalo, em cheyyalo ardam avvadu. Asal number into ani mental tension.