Parents appulu

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2 hours ago, HugoStrange said:

kaka nuvevvaro naa story exact ga dinchav. Same to same. 2CR kattamu eddaram (still oka 50L bank lo emi's paying), month ki expenses ki kuda sending 40k. Total 1L pampisthunnam every month. Same to same both girls single word bad ga matladaledu ee vishayam lo. 

Expenses ki 40k nduku unless some medical issues 

[pakeer_saab]

18 hours ago, captcha said:

maa nanna chepparu...complete details ivvaru. yedi bettero telletamledu. first neenu chooskunta antaru, taruvatha 10l annaru, adhi ichaka..malli  silent...malli 10l, story goes on. Naku ela react avvalo, em cheyyalo ardam avvadu. Asal number into ani mental tension.

asalu number chepte nuvvu next 10l ivvavu kada

when it comes to money, strategies do come between relations

never try to fix a leaking pipe with your hands, best way is to shut off the supply

[pakeer_saab]

1 hour ago, puski said:

India lo em vundhi...Business cheyyadaniki 50-60 lakhs finance ki appu testharu properties takatu petti. Vatiki monthly intrest pay cheyadanike valla life aipothundhi. Problem baga pedhadhi aiyee dhaka em chepparu. Last ki baga pressure peti naatho bank lo pettincharu, monthly memu kattukuntam ani. ala irukupoyanu. 

plain and simple, you dad gone  step ahead in ensuring his objectives are met

best way is to stop paying

asthi ivvaremo ani you cannot encourage all crap decisions of theirs

parents kada enta adigina ivvali kada!  anukunte just suck it up and move on

[pakeer_saab]

26 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

Your parents seem very financially irresponsible and dragging you down along with them. If it continues like this you will be paying lifelong. Vaddi peruguthane untundi and unscrupulous debtors ni meputhane untav. Wife gola cheyyatam lo assalu tappu ledhu

vacharandi vaunties, anta money ichina ivvaka poina wife gola about in laws is a must

if wives are not hating in laws, then those women should leave planet earth, they dont belong here

[pakeer_saab]

3 hours ago, Pavanonline said:

Endi intha mandi father badithulu unnara 😂

this is common theme myaan, degree varies anthe

okadu 10l poyaka realize avutaadu, others may be more

insurance and monthly expenses tappa money pampadam is very risky as long as parents have transparency

even if a person is your father, you don't know his personality beyond your view just as you dad does not know fully about you

best way is to send 30-40k every month and limit your financial liabilities

[Rushabhi]

1 minute ago, pakeer_saab said:

vacharandi vaunties, anta money ichina ivvaka poina wife gola about in laws is a must

if wives are not hating in laws, then those women should leave planet earth, they dont belong here

Same as husbands bickering about their in laws as well. 

[pakeer_saab]

5 hours ago, ForEverJava said:

not saying parents not important at this age but at this time kids are more priority and control the spending of ourself and keep an eye on parents with frequent communication.. if tomorrow u dont have enough money to support ur kids needs its on you on not on your parents just keep that in mind.. its very thin line of balance whom and what responsibilities u have and more weight need to add and more control where to apply. speaking this from experience..

balancing act is a must

most people came to this country for generating wealth, else most would stay in india

mana kids meeda depend avvakodadu ante finance should be in order

is it better to say no before giving than cry later, power of money is invincible, but it does give happiness in itself

 

[pakeer_saab]

2 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

Same as husbands bickering about their in laws as well. 

cover drives, point was "saans bhi kabhi bahi thi" series and you are trying to divert to "Mad Men"

[hydusguy]

asalu janalaku US or any countries options lekapotey.. india lo job tho appudu apatiki tiravu

[Beerboob123]

2 hours ago, HugoStrange said:

thats not true in real life bro, only works in movies. Ekkada DB lo andaru kastapade money sampadistharu. Chala mandiki ela parents chese panula valla pothunnai. Malli ravu. 

ok

[psycopk]

21 hours ago, Thefighter said:

Dad business laga start chesi lost all properties and appulu chesaru , ayinaku kuda miney ochedi undi but evaru evvatledu . and I gave almost 55 lacs lekka undi lekka lekunda oka 10 daaka . Asalu parents ani evala Leka asalu Ela react avvalo telvatledu . Chala depressing undi hard work cheyalanna mood kuda ratledu . Not able to talk to my parents . I am married daily full fightings entlo .

Chinnappati nundi eppudu happy ga undi ledu asalu . Chinnappudu society ani andari problems discuss chesi entlo Andarni tindunde  varu . Now Andarni nammi lost all money . Naa personal money 65 lacs daka etu poyayo kuda telvadu . 

need some suggestions .

whats done is done.. dont send any more money.. looks like your dad lacks financial discipline... (sorry to say this)..

properties talkuda papers ani nee dagara petuko... if they can manage montly expenses.. well and good.. other wise adi okati chudu adi kuda montly based transfer cheyi...thats it..

[Kurrodu1]

3 hours ago, Jaggadonga said:

Exact parallel stories ...may be many middle class stories ilane vuntayemo. We are sending at least 2 lakhs every month for 2 loans plus expenditues

middle class in USA? 

India lo middle class monthly 2 lakhs bills kattaleru sodhara.

[LungiLingaraju]

5 hours ago, Kurrodu1 said:

Parents ke na pampindi?

First time vintunna parents venka mundu choodakunda pillala dabbulu karchu chestunnaru ani. 

Yes uncle … they say save money and all … but they ask money for this and that .. mundu down to earth untunde… but andaru antunaru and kontunaru ani adugutaru… 

[Thefighter]

9 hours ago, hydusguy said:

dont say money too m7ch.. when as a kid if you see appulu u will know ..  kid behavior changws.. and they send to usa.. to clear debts and that guy cannot take r8sks and try to clear debts..  and marriage will get delayed..  or you dont better partner.. and if u got kids.. still apulu not cleared.. it will effect him.. as we try to cut down expenses..   and addition to those if father takes appulu from colony people.  u will disgusted to visit india.  so its a chain.. 

 lot of peoples life gets effected with one persons mishandling... 

i am working non stop since 15yrs.. thankfully i am good in f8nance conditi9n from last 2yrs.. but lot of things got delayed or had to sacr8fice.

and even after all these things i got a shock last yr.. for 30 lac debt for construction.

simple rule if u dont source of income or money dont start it.

u talk about looking into parents eyes.. i cannot look into my wife and my kids eyes ..if i screw their future

Mine is exactly similar case Bayya .. not able to take any drastic decisions. … even afraid a lot to even change job 

[Thefighter]

4 hours ago, HugoStrange said:

this is the major problem with parents genaration, enni unnayo chepparu, discuss cheyaru edo valla peddathanam pothundi ani feel. Chepthe oka plan set chesi clear cheyachu. Eee loans techi vati vaddiki malli loans testharu kani manatho matram discuss cheyaru asalu. WTF, ela cheyakane we lost 1CR, cheppinte 1CR save ayyedi, maa Dad money pogattinanduku appulu chesinandu kadu kopam vachedu, discuss chesi path to clear chesinte bagundedi ani

Avunu Bayya same situation .. entaki total appulu enni unnayo teliyadu gattiga adigite Nenu chuskunta antunanru . Maa mom ayte she will start with crying . I dint know how to ask or how solve this forever .