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[pandemkodi]

Aa 3 Cr teesi India lo index funds lo Pettu 10-12 per easy 

and oka 30lac sal vachina easy 50-60lac per year . Happy life finically 

[Kurrodu1]

1 hour ago, stag said:

na financial position kuda almost @Aamphat bro cheppinatte undhi, but I am still afraid to go back bro.. endhukante last year oka 6 months unna India lo.

normal ga every year oka 1 month or 6 weeks ki velthe chuttalu andharu 1 or 2 times kalustharu.. kalisinappudu only happy environment undedhi.. eesari 6 months kosam poyam kabatti intlo aadolla panchayithulu ekkuva ainai.. once those start, you cannot concentrate on anything man..

 

last year varaku oka thought undedi naku.. monthly 3 lakhs passive income touch aina next day ikkada anni ammeskoni 1 way flight ekkutha ani.. after last year's experience okati fix aina.. dooranga unte prema lu atlane untai.. manasuku prashanthanga untadi.. ye lollilu lekunda.. 

 

parents ni anthaga miss aithunna anukunte yearlu 1 time poyetodini 2 times poyi ostha.. inka kavalante valle ochi few months undi veltharu.. but going back is not an option for me anymore. ee immigration valle meda patti nookesthe em cheyyalemu kani voluntary ga aithe poyedhi le

intlo aada ladies panchaithulu - noted. 

Parents okkallane miss avatam ani kadu, after kids life in USA shitty ga tayaraindi. No feel of belongingness. Kids tho family will miss precious moments. Oka pandaga ledu pabbam ledu, Pillala bdays, any other functions ki close friends tappa evaru undaru, cousins ni pilichina dooram ani raru. 

Rest of the life ikkade unte, Neighbors ni, Friends ni own family (brothers, sisters, cousins) kante ekkuva importance istu edo remote place lo undipoyinattu anipistundi naku. 

 

[LungiLingaraju]

Love yourself… and see places with your wife and kid.. earn some memories with them .. don’t raise Kid in Indian society… people are very insensitive… my 2 cents … 

[Kurrodu1]

1 hour ago, Android_Halwa said:

Naa friends circle la almost 5-6 people have returned back to India. Almost all of them had 2-3 year preparation, they made multiple visits to set up stuff back in India and during this time, the kids spent quite some time India to get them used to the environment there….

Nuv kuda 1-2 year prep tho start chey instead of a sudden or quick plan..

Noted.

Ne circle lo move aina vallu happy about their decisions ? vallu move avtunapudu whats the common setup they had in India, if you know. 

[Kurrodu1]

8 minutes ago, LungiLingaraju said:

Love yourself… and see places with your wife and kid.. earn some memories with them .. don’t raise Kid in Indian society… people are very insensitive… my 2 cents … 

throw more light miya. 

nenu usually pretty outgoing. Trips bagane vesam thats one reason not much savings. 

[Jalsa456]

Drugs and rapes and kids kidnapping and india lo day by day incidents choosi kooda nuvvu kid ni india lo raising decision ante hats off to you..I think u need strong social close friends circle that will make life interesting for u..move into some good desi community and make a good friends circle then everything will be set...just my 2 cents..

[tables]

2 hours ago, Sarvapindy said:

nuv india ki povadam neeku nee wife ki nee family ki evariki it does not make diff or no diff at all.. but its a big diff for ur kid…ur decision will decide his future

if they are US citizens then it doesn't make much difference. infact they will get best of both worlds.

they can come to US for undergrad studies.

[tables]

1 hour ago, Android_Halwa said:

Naa friends circle la almost 5-6 people have returned back to India. Almost all of them had 2-3 year preparation, they made multiple visits to set up stuff back in India and during this time, the kids spent quite some time India to get them used to the environment there….

Nuv kuda 1-2 year prep tho start chey instead of a sudden or quick plan..

idi kashtam baa... one bad experience in one of those trips he will change his decision and will stay back in US

[Kurrodu1]

27 minutes ago, Jalsa456 said:

Drugs and rapes and kids kidnapping and india lo day by day incidents choosi kooda nuvvu kid ni india lo raising decision ante hats off to you..I think u need strong social close friends circle that will make life interesting for u..move into some good desi community and make a good friends circle then everything will be set...just my 2 cents..

Nuv cheppina problems ikkada kuda valid, ofcourse India lo jagrathaga undali.

 

I think you misunderstood my social life. I have good friends and am outgoing. 

 

Are you married and have kids?

[Swatkat]

47 minutes ago, Kurrodu1 said:

Noted.

Ne circle lo move aina vallu happy about their decisions ? vallu move avtunapudu whats the common setup they had in India, if you know. 

Bro india ki dokha ledhu bro.. chill undhi.. ah happyness ikada ledhu. Am starting to think like you india nunchi vachinapati nunchiz edho jail laaga untundhi.. okasari hyd vijayawada po.. you will not regret.. 4 years antunav ga paisal save cheskoni po.. ah modi gadu kotha rule testhunadu bank lo paisal esho some govt kavalntey teskuntadho ledha … edhonundhi..

[Aamphat]

3 hours ago, Kurrodu1 said:

enduku bayamestundo kuda cheppu. may be your perspective is different than mine but want to see I am not doing blind mistake. 

 nenu okkadine bar and restuarant ki pothe 8k bill ayyindi. frnds 4 velthey 35k ayyindi cost of living adiripothundi

[Jalsa456]

1 hour ago, Kurrodu1 said:

Nuv cheppina problems ikkada kuda valid, ofcourse India lo jagrathaga undali.

 

I think you misunderstood my social life. I have good friends and am outgoing. 

 

Are you married and have kids?

Yes I have a high schooler and  middle schooler 

[VictoryTDP]

3 hours ago, argadorn said:

Couple of years 2 cr to 6 cr avutahdhi 

Stocks lo invest cheyamani cheppu 200c ayye chances lekapoledhu 

[argadorn]

11 minutes ago, VictoryTDP said:

Stocks lo invest cheyamani cheppu 200c ayye chances lekapoledhu 

Life long manalni tittukovadanikaa

[stag]

3 hours ago, Kurrodu1 said:

intlo aada ladies panchaithulu - noted. 

Parents okkallane miss avatam ani kadu, after kids life in USA shitty ga tayaraindi. No feel of belongingness. Kids tho family will miss precious moments. Oka pandaga ledu pabbam ledu, Pillala bdays, any other functions ki close friends tappa evaru undaru, cousins ni pilichina dooram ani raru. 

Rest of the life ikkade unte, Neighbors ni, Friends ni own family (brothers, sisters, cousins) kante ekkuva importance istu edo remote place lo undipoyinattu anipistundi naku. 

 

after kids life in USA shitty ga tayaraindi - what do you mean by that bro? What was so exciting before kids for you that you lost now? Nakaithe after kid inka bagundhi anipisthundi because I get to enjoy evenings in parks, play areas with my kid. India lo manchi expensive areas lo or villages lo unte thappa ikkada unnantha open space dorkadhu kids adukodaniki. i take my daughter to hobby classes - swimming, tennis etc. my evenings and weekends are much more satisfying here than back when I was home last year. weekend osthe evarino okarini intiki pilvadamo or manam evari intiki povadamo jarigedhi india lo. I am all in for socializing and meeting family but aa tarvatha oche drama is what I can't take.

 

No feel of belongingness - I don't know what this is. I feel like you belong to wherever you are happy. naku at present ikkada unna life e happy ga undhi compared to all that I've seen in India in the last 6 months when I was there.

Kids tho family will miss precious moments - agree with this point. danikosame at least year ki oka trip vestham.

Oka pandaga ledu pabbam ledu - bro nuvvu India velthe hyd or chennai veltha antunnav. akkada kuda almost inthe undhi.. ikkada manam Diwali, Holi etc avi aina celebrate cheskuntunnam.. India lo air pollution, water pollution ani pandagalu celebration kuda thaggicharu.. manam chinnappudu unnattu ledhu as far as I felt.

 

Pillala bdays, any other functions ki close friends tappa evaru undaru, cousins ni pilichina dooram ani raru- This is a blessing bro. less drama. close friends don't judge you. but relatives do. so cousins, relatives rakapovadam anedhi its a blessing in a disguise IMO.

Rest of the life ikkade unte, Neighbors ni, Friends ni own family (brothers, sisters, cousins) kante ekkuva importance istu edo remote place lo undipoyinattu anipistundi naku - as long as our kids know how to judge between a good person and a bad person and are cautious not to fall into bad company, treating neighbors/friends as own family is nothing wrong 

 

 

also - this might only be me, but most of my childhood friends are here in the US and the ones in India are super busy.. manam free unnappudu vallu free undaru and vallu free unnappudu manaku edho ramayanam untadi.. so its not like you can go out for a walk every evening or each morning with childhood friends and relax.