In laws torture...

[pakeer_saab]

10 hours ago, praying said:

Change should start from your wife, you inlaws opinions are an extension of your wifes thoughts.
 

say for example if your wife starts complaining things about you or the things you do wrong to her parents, they  believe her and it continues….

if your wife is tight and breaks things before they come up with unnecessary comparisons, they will stop.

focus in your wife and try to make her feel content or educate her why content is important. Inlaws will fall in line after that.

 

ledu ivanni kadu nasty ga unte tappa workout aithaledu anukunte, compare them to someone rich and nice inlaws in your group and keep the going. Mi mama ki aithe ni vayasuki ysr cm ayyadu nuvvu em peekav kanisam sarpanch aina ayyava ani adugu. Compare your atha to sridevi and jayaprada and why she didn’t compete with them when she is young

 

 

 

unless people are outwitted, they will not learn

first rule of thumb, do not let other degrade or denigrate your achievements

your final word should be as below

I will do whatever it takes to make your daughter comfortable, if all of you have no confidence. you can make a decision and find her a better husband aneseyi cool and calm composure tho

next time they will be very cautious before blabbering in front of you

[Gentle_Boy]

2 hours ago, Pavanonline said:

Gentle ga handling pani cheyadu bro, aa age lo chadastam baga ekuvithadi valla opinion ye great anukuntaru. Easy way to counter is to criticize their decisions. Vellu life lo peekindi em undadu but will be ready to judge others. Mirror chupisthu undali epatikapudu. 

Will do that 👍

[Gentle_Boy]

22 minutes ago, pakeer_saab said:

unless people are outwitted, they will not learn

first rule of thumb, do not let other degrade or denigrate your achievements

your final word should be as below

I will do whatever it takes to make your daughter comfortable, if all of you have no confidence. you can make a decision and find her a better husband aneseyi cool and calm composure tho

next time they will be very cautious before blabbering in front of you

Antha....neat ga chepthe....they won't even listen or complete  👂 my whole dialogue bro....they will interfere or break my conversation at very start only....as I said ...vooru people

[tennisluvrredux]

Anduke cheppedi minimum 3-4 jaabs cheyamani prati oka job ki oka illu konochu appudu

[Jalsa456]

18 hours ago, Gentle_Boy said:

Bro.. 3:1 ratio

If you know what I mean....we can argue with shitty people...

Bro I will tell my experience..few years ago ..my wife parents and my wife sister and and Co brother and b wife brother and his wife all in 2 bed room when they came to visit  apartment everytime I come from office my brother in law and father in law some stupid argument about tax filing claiming etc. In laws very silly and they find some info somewhere fighting with sin and I never used to have peace of mind any 4 yr old toddler tortute..In my case it was like 8:1 for me those 6 months how I survived only God knows..

I used to keep my self busy with tennis and biking winter ite gym ymca and study and work except dinners and breakfast max time I used to escape other than hello hi bye..they felt bad about me but I used that time effectively made good friends to hangout everyday at tennis court and made few certifications and got few awards in work..just saying this if this helps..sometime some bad things work in your favor if u escape from all negative energies and focus on yourself..

 

More listen and leave if u learn the better u get forward in life..specially parents and in laws type things..wife u need to spend time make her understand  ur goal and expectations and finances..if she mature enough she will understand if not now over the period of time..

[praying]

2 hours ago, pakeer_saab said:

unless people are outwitted, they will not learn

first rule of thumb, do not let other degrade or denigrate your achievements

your final word should be as below

I will do whatever it takes to make your daughter comfortable, if all of you have no confidence. you can make a decision and find her a better husband aneseyi cool and calm composure tho

next time they will be very cautious before blabbering in front of you

If they are confident that the guy will take car of her they would have accpeted for marriage, its just the greed and comaprisions and the expectations is what makes it tough

[Paamu]

13 hours ago, praying said:

Change should start from your wife, you inlaws opinions are an extension of your wifes thoughts.
 

say for example if your wife starts complaining things about you or the things you do wrong to her parents, they  believe her and it continues….

if your wife is tight and breaks things before they come up with unnecessary comparisons, they will stop.

focus in your wife and try to make her feel content or educate her why content is important. Inlaws will fall in line after that.

 

ledu ivanni kadu nasty ga unte tappa workout aithaledu anukunte, compare them to someone rich and nice inlaws in your group and keep the going. Mi mama ki aithe ni vayasuki ysr cm ayyadu nuvvu em peekav kanisam sarpanch aina ayyava ani adugu. Compare your atha to sridevi and jayaprada and why she didn’t compete with them when she is young

 

 

 

Iaantidi I used not on in laws but on a relative. His response was... naaku education sarigga ledu, naaku rajakeeyam telvadu, social life ledu... neeku anni unnay enduku  ekkuva cheyyatle like others ani. I responded mana village lo aayna unnadu kadaa without education, politics he became rich by hard working...... neeku adi chetha  kaadu so sodhi cheppaku.... first needi choosko ani told.

[Spartan]

  endi inka lagutunnara e taadu ni

[Gorantlamdhav]

22 hours ago, Android_Halwa said:

Vaarini….mee atha mama suttalaki America la 4 homes vunte a pratapam nee mida supistunara ?

Nuv reverse la sava10gu…vallaki nalugu kompalu vunayi, Nuv emi elagapettinav ani mee mama ni pellam mundu tittu

Nuvu salaha ivvu antey , valla mama attaku vidakulu ippistunnav permanent ga vuntadi ikkadey inka manodu vuri veskuntadu

[Diesel]

Unless Wife has that trust and belief, there is nothing much we can do with nosy in laws. I don’t get it, why don’t they care for happiness of the couple. 

[Gorantlamdhav]

On 12/25/2022 at 4:34 PM, Gentle_Boy said:

In laws torture...what to do ? Along with them wife joins and talks Bs...total vooru... culture and nasty family in Total 

Valaki...veelaki...US lo...4 houses unnai...Ani blaming me...

India lo...land and properties unnai...

Inka prathi daniki ...finger pointing ☝️ and bitching...

Next 5 months ....same torture...i guess.

How do you guys handle in laws ?

You can’t help them or change their opinions. You spend all of your time and energy on work, going out with your friends, take kid to parks or play date with same age kid , goto gym etc.. just find some positive excuses for next 6 months and avoid common time with them

[Swatkat]

Ehe endhi ge suggestions. @Gentle_Boy bro nuvvu mari gentle manhandling kuda cheyalev. Malla mama gadu tiragabaddadanuko ne wife kuda inko cheyyi esi sappudu kakunda kuso ani chethulo kallu kattesi edanna lock chestharu. Nenu chepthuna ga goddu karam kottu andhari kallalo baaga manduthundhi antey ah indlaloki loi kadukomanu kallu.. anthey ekuva viice raise chesthy inko sari goddu kaaram challu. Anthey…

[Swatkat]

1 minute ago, Gorantlamdhav said:

You can’t help them or change their opinions. You spend all of your time and energy on work, going out with your friends, take kid to parks or play date with same age kid , goto gym etc.. just find some positive excuses for next 6 months and avoid common time with them

Madhav garu endhi e suggestions. 2 min lo pani ipoye suggestion icha inkaws paripotharu wife ki bahyam. ⬆️ 

[Gentle_Boy]

3 hours ago, Spartan said:

  endi inka lagutunnara e taadu ni

Yaa bro

[Gentle_Boy]

4 hours ago, praying said:

If they are confident that the guy will take car of her they would have accpeted for marriage, its just the greed and comaprisions and the expectations is what makes it tough

True statement bro