In laws torture...

[vishwavihar]

On 12/26/2022 at 4:04 AM, Gentle_Boy said:

In laws torture...what to do ? Along with them wife joins and talks Bs...total vooru... culture and nasty family in Total 

Valaki...veelaki...US lo...4 houses unnai...Ani blaming me...

India lo...land and properties unnai...

Inka prathi daniki ...finger pointing ☝️ and bitching...

Next 5 months ....same torture...i guess.

How do you guys handle in laws ?

first ne pellani then ga manu inti nundi ...........

inlaws em pani intlo food baga petti, vellagottu baitiki, bammardi gadu unte ochi teeskapomannu

[Gentle_Boy]

52 minutes ago, vishwavihar said:

first ne pellani then ga manu inti nundi ...........

inlaws em pani intlo food baga petti, vellagottu baitiki, bammardi gadu unte ochi teeskapomannu

Na place lo...nuvvu unté...

Same chesthava ?

[Gentle_Boy]

15 hours ago, migilindhi151 said:

Inthakanna maryadha ivvakoodadhu bro, Naa joliki vasthey maa inlaws ki maa wife mundh warning ichinaa , untey undandi lekapothey drengeyyandi ani .. anthey Inka Naa joliki raledhu malli ... ( Maa inlaws ma family ni point chesthu edho annaru ...) Nenu Anna maata ki mooskuni malli Naa joliki raledhu ..

Good move bro...

[kfrockz]

4 hours ago, cottondora said:

Best suggestion award neekey kaka

🥇

 antaa ma guru @Swatkat gaari sikshana.

[VendyHalwa]

4 hours ago, former said:

Nevu bending anukotavo or abbayala manchi thanam or the way we grown ( village vs twon)

They are so many aspects. No one bend unless its a weak cirucumstances or some of the problems on our side.

bending antene weak husband and vadiki g la dammu ledu to face the pysco wife and mil.  

[Gentle_Boy]

13 hours ago, Barney_Stinson said:

anthey love da lodi , pratu dwnlo velu letti geliki 10gtaru , valla back vallu kadukkokunda, no less than goons, g pagal mingali athi cheste, manam ivalsina respect ichina adi nilupukoleni yedavalni kooda choosa

Cheppadam easy...for others

Edina matter ....Manaki....vasthey ne... problem 

[Gentle_Boy]

5 hours ago, pakeer_saab said:

it seems that you are not really offended by their comments, which means somewhere you know that their point is valid too.

so, the best thing you can do it take them as encouragement. once you change the way you look at it. your views about them change completely

yes, encouragement comes indirectly more from detractors and enemies even within relatives. that is why enemies are more important for our growth than friends

 

 

One way or the other....you nailed it bro

🥌

It's always maintaining that balance ⚖️ in the life....

Sometimes I feel it's too much to handle three people against me....the way of approach towards me ... Finger pointing ☝️ and bitching....i can't tolerate....

If I burst out...with anger and rage ...and yell yet them....not sure what the consequences would be ...

[Barney_Stinson]

41 minutes ago, Gentle_Boy said:

Cheppadam easy...for others

Edina matter ....Manaki....vasthey ne... problem 

can’t deny , face chesa kanuka cheppa.

[nokia123]

27 minutes ago, Gentle_Boy said:

One way or the other....you nailed it bro

🥌

It's always maintaining that balance ⚖️ in the life....

Sometimes I feel it's too much to handle three people against me....the way of approach towards me ... Finger pointing ☝️ and bitching....i can't tolerate....

If I burst out...with anger and rage ...and yell yet them....not sure what the consequences would be ...

Itta unte kashtam baa 

[Gentle_Boy]

2 hours ago, Barney_Stinson said:

can’t deny , face chesa kanuka cheppa.

Chill bro

[Gentle_Boy]

2 hours ago, nokia123 said:

Itta unte kashtam baa 

Yaa...kastham man....border datithey 

[pakeer_saab]

4 hours ago, Gentle_Boy said:

One way or the other....you nailed it bro

🥌

It's always maintaining that balance ⚖️ in the life....

Sometimes I feel it's too much to handle three people against me....the way of approach towards me ... Finger pointing ☝️ and bitching....i can't tolerate....

If I burst out...with anger and rage ...and yell yet them....not sure what the consequences would be ...

there won't be any consequences without you acknowledging them

family life brings with many changes that don't really come as encouraging or motivating, these are legit demands coming in in negative forms that is totally new to us

I would return their words through actions rather than language. which is work towards those goals. it may not be 4 houses but at least 2. barking dogs should be disregarded but documented

 

 

[dasari4kntr]

ignoring is best treatment…

thats one of the technique to deal with cranky kids…it works for adults too..

[perugu_vada]

1st husband and wife Oka understanding lo undali .. about purchasing house or kids-planning gurinchi .. becos they are life changing decisions .. neighbors/friends/relatives/parents/in-laws andaru em matladakunna it won’t effect u

[vishwavihar]

On 12/27/2022 at 10:45 PM, Gentle_Boy said:

Na place lo...nuvvu unté...

Same chesthava ?

no second thought, 

once bend always bend....