Saradhaga oka story . Andhariki relate audhi..

[Chirupoo]

1 hour ago, psycopk said:

chudali...weather kastam.. ikkada.. i am done

@psycopk baa ma area ki ra, ikkada Nee anni criteria ki match atte place. SW - States.

[Pandubabu]

1 hour ago, Sarvapindy said:

atthayya lu mancholle antav malla vallu nasa anntav …manchollu aithe y nasa

The core concept artham kale . Everyone is personally good . As a wife , lot of people nasa about taking care of elder parents.  

Aa role alantidhi annayya ..

[Pandubabu]

1 hour ago, JavaBava said:

Manam mana parents baa chusinam ani mana kids return gifts iyyaru .. iyyala repu andaridi ade situation le .. just save enough to spend old age in a better old age home. 

Ofcourse 

[Pandubabu]

1 hour ago, psycopk said:

And both died with in 2-3 weeks after they left us and went to my mamayya's place. --- something fishy antuna halwa

Antha fish em ledhule , they were already exhausted.. everyone know their days are numbered ..

[Pandubabu]

45 minutes ago, Pavanonline said:

Idi true, too old ayyaka chuskovatam evarikina kashtame. 

Kastam kadhu ani evaru annaru vaa.. but it is your basic responsibility to look after them .. nee vallu etharu ga .. 

[ARYA]

2 hours ago, psycopk said:

aa cost naa valla kadu.. bay area is overrated...

 

2 hours ago, Spartan said:

 

[ARYA]

2 hours ago, psycopk said:

chudali...weather kastam.. ikkada.. i am done

Vit D deficiency vacchi sachinda? 

[Gorantlamdhav]

5 hours ago, Pandubabu said:

It's early 2000s. I was in school and everyone from my mom and dad side were lower middle class.

Maa amma ki 2 annayyalu. Unfortunately my ammama diagnosed with cancer and my thatha got bed ridden .

Maa Mamayyalu are personally very good people.  Even my athayalu are decent folks. Maa Ammamma is considered a very soft spoken and good human being .

Maa mamayyalu were not ready to take their parents with them bcos of wives' nasa  and my grand parents spent most of their time with us .

Maa grandparents situation worst ayyaka , Maa pedda mamayya vallu theeskellaru because it will be a matter of shame in village.

And both died with in 2-3 weeks after they left us and went to my mamayya's place. 

Fast forward , both of them have 6*2 ft picture of their parents in their home .

I am good friends with my chinna mamayya . Everytime I met him , he cried with guilt. 

Never had that convo with pedha mamayya though..,

Pellam feel audhi ani, parents ni dooram pettadam lantivi chesthe , life antha guilt ee untadhi ra abbailu..

Most of us were middle class, anytime you had to decide against taking care , think about how much they went through. 

 

Abba same mana jeevitalu 

[Pandubabu]

50 minutes ago, Gorantlamdhav said:

Abba same mana jeevitalu 

I was in costco. An uncle in his 50s unable to convince his wife to buy a ~20 dollar chocolate box for his relatives ..

Intha bathuku bathiki, bayapadi savadam ante idhe ...

If you don't have boundaries with partner. It is not worth it ..

[Gorantlamdhav]

Just now, Pandubabu said:

I was in costco. An uncle in his 50s unable to convince his wife to buy a ~20 dollar chocolate box for his relatives ..

Intha bathuku bathiki, bayapadi savadam ante idhe ...

If you don't have boundaries with partner. It is not worth it ..

kondaru aada vallu anthe , narrow minded inka sachedaka mogullaku save

[Pandubabu]

1 minute ago, Gorantlamdhav said:

kondaru aada vallu anthe , narrow minded inka sachedaka mogullaku save

Pelli Aina kothalone kottukovali(not manhandling),thittukovali,  kudarakapothe 10geyali..

Not even ammaila fault , relatives , moms, sisters pass chese gnanam adhi..

Starting lo baga fight chesi , boundaries set chesthe anni set authai..

Pillalani, divorce ani bayapadithe jeevitham antha waste