gnr Posted February 21, 2023 Author Report Share Posted February 21, 2023 1 minute ago, jerry1 said: same case, bro doesn't have interest in studies, parents even insisted him to do ms , but he didn't. He didn't make proper decision and was doing nothing for years, to support his family and kids lived with parents , indirectly eating brother's money. Even his wife didn't help him financially, she would have also worked but didn't. They want money easily, then slowly now they got into business and earning but still dependent on usa earning brother. Now they feel superior, they enjoy and satisfy themself by criticizing others , talking low about others. To save money they are staying with parents otherwise they won't stay with parents. Parents are in late 50's and early 60's Exactly brother.. ma annaya ma parents family ki support yem undadu.. but he and his family gets some financial support ( not everything) from my parents. Ma annaya financial issues, dani valla jarige ma annaya vadina panchayatilu ivanni close ga chudatam valla ma parents ki sympathy ma annaya ante... Na vishayam ki vaste nekemi le ane alochana ma parents lo.. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karna11 Posted February 21, 2023 Report Share Posted February 21, 2023 2009 antunav, 10 lacs antunnavuu , parents antunnavu Parents yee gaa light tesukoo bro, don't spoil relations with parents, now onwords careful ga vundu 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jerry1 Posted February 21, 2023 Report Share Posted February 21, 2023 3 minutes ago, gnr said: Exactly brother.. ma annaya ma parents family ki support yem undadu.. but he and his family gets some financial support ( not everything) from my parents. Ma annaya financial issues, dani valla jarige ma annaya vadina panchayatilu ivanni close ga chudatam valla ma parents ki sympathy ma annaya ante... Na vishayam ki vaste nekemi le ane alochana ma parents lo.. yes but we also have loans to clear and we have house, car loans. But elder brother doesn't have any loans, he grabbed money from everyone and doesn't talk returning of money, he thinks younger bro is in usa, he got money and no need to return. Irony is parents still think the one living with him is not rich and one living in usa is rich.Mother expects gold bangles from one living with them and diamond necklace from one living in usa. lol 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gnr Posted February 21, 2023 Author Report Share Posted February 21, 2023 4 minutes ago, jerry1 said: yes but we also have loans to clear and we have house, car loans. But elder brother doesn't have any loans, he grabbed money from everyone and doesn't talk returning of money, he thinks younger bro is in usa, he got money and no need to return Nenu na loans na bills gurinchi modati nunchi discuss chesinde ledu.. vallaki idea undadu ani... Pillalu pedda avtante naku kuda expenses perugutayi.. yepudu okelaaga parents expenses ki arrange cheyalenu kadaa.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jerry1 Posted February 21, 2023 Report Share Posted February 21, 2023 6 minutes ago, gnr said: Nenu na loans na bills gurinchi modati nunchi discuss chesinde ledu.. vallaki idea undadu ani... Pillalu pedda avtante naku kuda expenses perugutayi.. yepudu okelaaga parents expenses ki arrange cheyalenu kadaa.. chudali parentsni..its minimum..but have to watch out who is shadowing them. If its for them then its fine, no need to give money to siblings.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gnr Posted February 21, 2023 Author Report Share Posted February 21, 2023 6 minutes ago, jerry1 said: chudali parentsni..its minimum..but have to watch out who is shadowing them. If its for them then its fine, no need to give money to siblings.. Agree .. na responsibility parents ye . Not my brother or his family... Kaani na parents naku cheat chesedi ma annaya ki ivadanike... Lekapothe ee age lo vallaki nannu mosam chesepani yem untadi.. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Operating Posted February 21, 2023 Report Share Posted February 21, 2023 Just now, gnr said: Agree .. na responsibility parents ye . Not my brother or his family... Kaani na parents naku cheat chesedi ma annaya ki ivadanike... Lekapothe ee age lo vallaki nannu mosam chesepani yem untadi.. siggulekunda non it chutiya gadivi, US pampithe enti ra ne paisal gola Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
idibezwada Posted February 21, 2023 Report Share Posted February 21, 2023 5 hours ago, gnr said: I gave 10lakhs in 2009 to my parents..my dad put that in his bank account.. prema ga ichaa.. interest vadukomani.. inka 2012 nunchi na property meda rents use cheskuntannaru 12k per month. Ippudu na money naku ivvu antante ninnu penchaam chadivincham.. na daggara yem levu.. nenu yem job cheyatledu .. nenu ivvanu antannaru ma amma, nanna iddaru.. naku inko brother untadu kinda intlo paina ma parents untaru.. bother ki high earning job kaadani na money vallaki ivvalani chudtannaru.. interest vaadukomani isthe naku asalu kuda lekunda chestannaru.. ademi ante memu chanipothe dubbulu petti urulo dinam cheyali kadaa andarni pilavali kada antannaru.. adi nenu na brother sagam sagam pettukuni chese aachaaralu.. danikisam na money mosam chesi vallu lenapudu jarige vatiki ippudu mosam chestaara.. matladithe nenu kastha sampadistaa ani na daggare teskuntam money.. vallu sampadinchina aasthulu anni ma annaya ki.. sontha parents ye ilaa mosam chestante badha ga undi.. yevartho cheppukovali artham avtledu.. ee nammaka droham thattukoleka pothanna..nenu sampadinchindi kuda ma anna family ki Pettali anukuntam naku artham avtledu.. Naku yedina salaha ivvandi na money asalu vache daari unte cheppandi.. nenu vati meda interest valla life long ivadaniki ready ne.. vallaki expenses chuskotaniki kuda ready ne.. kaani naku asalu (10lkahs ) ma parents nunchi yela aina teskogalanaa.. nenu pampinattu bank statements unnayi. 14 years ga nene financial help chestanna okka rupee kuda ma annaya chudadu.. yepudina sambar, pappu, chutney, food aa roju cheskunnadi konchem pedtha untaru vallu parents ki.. (not regular) Financial ga every month help chestanna kuda nakante ma annaya antene istam ga untannaru anna feel vachindi naku.. nenu last 16 years ga vere country lo untam valla yemo.. aa 10 lacski interest chala ekkuva avtadi nuvvu ichina 10 lacski ante...so 10 lacs teskokapotame best deal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gnr Posted February 21, 2023 Author Report Share Posted February 21, 2023 8 minutes ago, Operating said: siggulekunda non it chutiya gadivi, US pampithe enti ra ne paisal gola Noru adupulo petukoni matladu brother.. nenu non IT ani neku cheppana.. so what, non IT job chesevallu chutiya gaalla? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IamBhagatSingh Posted February 21, 2023 Report Share Posted February 21, 2023 5 hours ago, gnr said: Alaa vachaa ane ma parents ki monthly financial ga ye problem undakudadu ani interest tinamannaa.. Edo 10 lakhs ichinattu cheptunav. Bokkalo 10 lakhs ki interest entha vastadi bayya bank lo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gnr Posted February 21, 2023 Author Report Share Posted February 21, 2023 1 minute ago, IamBhagatSingh said: Edo 10 lakhs ichinattu cheptunav. Bokkalo 10 lakhs ki interest entha vastadi bayya bank lo I know brother na property rents kuda using Parents..and my parents have their own savings too in their account along with mine..more than sufficient for their monthly expenses Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IamBhagatSingh Posted February 21, 2023 Report Share Posted February 21, 2023 35 minutes ago, gnr said: Exactly brother.. ma annaya ma parents family ki support yem undadu.. but he and his family gets some financial support ( not everything) from my parents. Ma annaya financial issues, dani valla jarige ma annaya vadina panchayatilu ivanni close ga chudatam valla ma parents ki sympathy ma annaya ante... Na vishayam ki vaste nekemi le ane alochana ma parents lo.. Bhayya can you tell me what you did for your parents in the last 10 years. Were you there with them when they need to go to hospital or not well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IamBhagatSingh Posted February 21, 2023 Report Share Posted February 21, 2023 1 minute ago, gnr said: I know brother na property rents kuda using Parents..and my parents have their own savings too in their account along with mine..more than sufficient for their monthly expenses Your brother and his wife might have emotionally black mailed them. Now onwards say that you are in big loss and lost all money in stocks and thinking of returning back to India because of that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gnr Posted February 21, 2023 Author Report Share Posted February 21, 2023 Just now, IamBhagatSingh said: Bhayya can you tell me what you did for your parents in the last 10 years. Were you there with them when they need to go to hospital or not well. By God's grace my parents are healthy.. no bp, sugar and no health issues.. but got covid whole family and 10days lo manchiga ayyaru without any doctor help.. anni tests chepistane untaru 2 or 3 years ki . And they visited us 3 times in the last 10 years .. memu veltane untam kids kosam India ki frequent ga 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gnr Posted February 21, 2023 Author Report Share Posted February 21, 2023 1 minute ago, IamBhagatSingh said: Your brother and his wife might have emotionally black mailed them. Now onwards say that you are in big loss and lost all money in stocks and thinking of returning back to India because of that. Na thappu kuda undi vallaki na aatupotlu cheppakapodam 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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