Moon_Walker Posted May 4, 2023 Report Share Posted May 4, 2023 So, here's the thing. I never thoguht I'd be the one to share my story like this, but I guess life has a way of humbling us all. As an SDE in FAANG, I went through a bunch of hurdles to get where I am today. It was tough, but I finally felt like I made it, y'know? But now, everythings going sideways and I'm strugglin to keep our million-dollar home in Bothell. It was a dream we both worked our butts off to achieve. A few months back, my wife got laid off from her job. She was a graphic designer, and with the pandemic still goin on, her company had to let people go. It sucked, but we tried to stay positive. With her income gone, we found ourselves strugglin to pay our mortgage and take care of our 2 kiddos. But, life wasnt done with us yet. My wife was diagnosed with this rare eye condition called LHON that needed treatment ASAP. We were both shocked, and everything just felt like it was spiraling out of control. The medical bills started piling up, and we had to use all our savings to cover her surgery and treatments. It was like we were stuck in a nightmare, and we couldnt wake up. I took on extra freelance gigs, like website development and software teaching, to try to keep us afloat. I've mad about $3200 so far, but man, it's been tough. I'm working crazy long hours, 13+ most days,, my health is suffering, and our marriage is feeling the strain. And it's not like my wife isn't hurting too – she feels guilty for losing her job and for her medical issues. Last week, we got a notice from the bank – we're 3 months behind on mortgage payments. They're giving us 30 days to come up with $18,000, or they'll foreclose. The idea of losing our dream home is crushing, but the thought of my family on the streets is just... I can't even. So, here I am, sharing our story. I don't know what else to do, and I'm hoping there are some good people out there who might be able to offer advice, help, or anything, really. I'm swallowing my pride and asking for help cuz I'm desperate to save my family and our home. If you can offer any help or advice, it would mean everything to us. Thanks for taking the time to read this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevinUsa Posted May 4, 2023 Report Share Posted May 4, 2023 6k per month ante 1mn untada house Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jefferson1 Posted May 4, 2023 Report Share Posted May 4, 2023 3 minutes ago, kevinUsa said: 6k per month ante 1mn untada house I'm strugglin to keep our million-dollar home in Bothell. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevinUsa Posted May 4, 2023 Report Share Posted May 4, 2023 Asalu gc lenedi million $$ house evAri Kona mannaru Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jefferson1 Posted May 4, 2023 Report Share Posted May 4, 2023 Just now, kevinUsa said: Asalu gc lenedi million $$ house evAri Kona mannaru show off cheyale kada vayya Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pavanonline Posted May 4, 2023 Report Share Posted May 4, 2023 9 minutes ago, Moon_Walker said: So, here's the thing. I never thoguht I'd be the one to share my story like this, but I guess life has a way of humbling us all. As an SDE in FAANG, I went through a bunch of hurdles to get where I am today. It was tough, but I finally felt like I made it, y'know? But now, everythings going sideways and I'm strugglin to keep our million-dollar home in Bothell. It was a dream we both worked our butts off to achieve. A few months back, my wife got laid off from her job. She was a graphic designer, and with the pandemic still goin on, her company had to let people go. It sucked, but we tried to stay positive. With her income gone, we found ourselves strugglin to pay our mortgage and take care of our 2 kiddos. But, life wasnt done with us yet. My wife was diagnosed with this rare eye condition called LHON that needed treatment ASAP. We were both shocked, and everything just felt like it was spiraling out of control. The medical bills started piling up, and we had to use all our savings to cover her surgery and treatments. It was like we were stuck in a nightmare, and we couldnt wake up. I took on extra freelance gigs, like website development and software teaching, to try to keep us afloat. I've mad about $3200 so far, but man, it's been tough. I'm working crazy long hours, 13+ most days,, my health is suffering, and our marriage is feeling the strain. And it's not like my wife isn't hurting too – she feels guilty for losing her job and for her medical issues. Last week, we got a notice from the bank – we're 3 months behind on mortgage payments. They're giving us 30 days to come up with $18,000, or they'll foreclose. The idea of losing our dream home is crushing, but the thought of my family on the streets is just... I can't even. So, here I am, sharing our story. I don't know what else to do, and I'm hoping there are some good people out there who might be able to offer advice, help, or anything, really. I'm swallowing my pride and asking for help cuz I'm desperate to save my family and our home. If you can offer any help or advice, it would mean everything to us. Thanks for taking the time to read this. Ardam kale, vadi job poyindani chepale kada, why is he not able to make payments. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevinUsa Posted May 4, 2023 Report Share Posted May 4, 2023 2 minutes ago, jefferson1 said: show off cheyale kada vayya Adi evadu cheya mannadu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jefferson1 Posted May 4, 2023 Report Share Posted May 4, 2023 3 minutes ago, kevinUsa said: Adi evadu cheya mannadu evaru cheyamanru bro....natural tendency...its satisfaction for some people Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Gaali_Gottam_Govinda Posted May 4, 2023 Popular Post Report Share Posted May 4, 2023 what is so complicated here??? Anni holes mooskuni sell the house. Housing Market is still good with low inventory, he could get out breakeven or with little loss. Move into a rental apartment untill you figure out your kids and your financial future first. Losing dream house anta.... Its not a dream house if you're stuggling to make ends meet with one job. Idiot materialistic showoff people. Dream house ledu bongu ledu, he's more worried about what the society will think if he sells off this house. peruki FAANG but min common sense kooda undadu financial discipline lo for many people. 2 9 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MiryalgudaMaruthiRao Posted May 4, 2023 Report Share Posted May 4, 2023 sell stocks and pay y crying Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kiran1012 Posted May 4, 2023 Report Share Posted May 4, 2023 13 minutes ago, kevinUsa said: Adi evadu cheya mannadu Peer pressure in Amazon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kiran1012 Posted May 4, 2023 Report Share Posted May 4, 2023 1 minute ago, Gaali_Gottam_Govinda said: what is so complicated here??? Anni holes mooskuni sell the house. Move into a low income rental apartment peruki FAANG but min common sense kooda undadu financial discipline lo for many people. Good suggestion Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kiran1012 Posted May 4, 2023 Report Share Posted May 4, 2023 1 minute ago, MiryalgudaMaruthiRao said: sell stocks and pay y crying Vesting ke time paduthundi kada Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MiryalgudaMaruthiRao Posted May 4, 2023 Report Share Posted May 4, 2023 4 minutes ago, kiran1012 said: Vesting ke time paduthundi kada join avvagane illu konnadantava? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kiran1012 Posted May 4, 2023 Report Share Posted May 4, 2023 12 minutes ago, MiryalgudaMaruthiRao said: join avvagane illu konnadantava? Definitely not very experienced. Appears to be pilla youth bought under peer pressure 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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