Chxless marriage

[pakeer_saab]

8 hours ago, Tellugodu said:

Have that open conversation with her. Let her know that she is not obligating one of the important marriage vow of “shayaneshu ramba “. Ask her if she can be okay if you get that pleasure from elsewhere, who knows, she might agree, if you take care of everything else for her and do your husband responsibilities. Cheers 😊. 
 

 

do you think telugu women are matured to that level of IQ that they go back to their vows to deal with future.

This is at best called "taking things for granted" from wifes side

 

 

[pakeer_saab]

7 hours ago, Thokkalee said:

Have some time with her… like take out for lunch, shopping mall, etc.. without kids.. kids ni atha ni chuskomanu.. pretty much everyone is getting lost in the social media nowadays.. 

Also buy bunk beds and encourage the kids to sleep separately, even in the same room.. like put their name on the bed and say that is yours.. connect with your wife like doing things together.. direct bumchik ante ladies ki work avvadu, especially when they are tired.. she must be thinking that she is in a loveless marriage too.. 

15 mins dabbidi ki 5 hrs prep aa

[pushparaj]

16 minutes ago, Sucker said:

Boring anipisthundhi le kani ee word every comment la simple Anna gen gap. Last 10 years la Chala change ayyaru Desi BJ ante picha light adhe 10 years back 3 nights waiting for kids type. I am not blaming anyone but grew up like that. No privacy for chex many middle class pamilies ki 

Yeah right. People are changing. May be media influence valla emo. People are more free now. ~40 age generation struck aipoyaru 

[kevinUsa]

7 hours ago, hch said:

buying illegal ga? visitor visa meeda dorikithe em chestaru

punjabi babes dorukuthara?  

Govt telvada ??

They take it lite...

Toronto Montreal Ottawa lo CHUDU enni spas u nayi ani 

 

 

[FrustratedVuncle]

5 hours ago, anna_gari_maata said:

Neeku chex enduku avvatledo telsa .... phone chustunte kaburlu cheppi phone lakkokunda ikkada db lo post vestunnav...anduke

Phone ni epudu lakkovali myan. 11pm ki serials choosi vasthe aa time lo em matalu cheppali. 

Nenu 9:30pm ki padukovataniki veltha hoping wife joins too. I tolded to screens off by 8:30pm weekdays and go to bed. Burraki ekkatledu. 

screen addiction is serious problem na royya. 

Oka pedda scene chesi screen addiction ni control loki tevali. 

Kompa lo evari life valladi annattu tagaladindhi

[kittaya]

9 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Weekly once nundi monthly once last couple of years. This year getting worse. Siraku 10ging. 

Pellamtho 4 times topic matladadham Ani tried but no improvement.

Kids, work, intlo panitho both tired end of the day, but abbailaki unna interest aada ladies ki undadho endo matta. Phone choskuntu untare kani kaaryaniki matram no opika.

Very bored and tired of chxless marriage. Permission isthe lapakila daggarkanna povalanipistondi lov da lodi.

ila untadi marriage life Ani teliste I would have not married na matta.

Agreed va Desi wife's are worst to the core.. Telugu worst ayya... Pai comment prakaram .. Tamil frnds njoying better than us...   Marrying desis is atmahatya chesukunatte

[EyBisa]

Weekend shuru 

[Shameless]

7 hours ago, Thokkalee said:

If she is working and taking care of two kids, may be she is really really tired.. try to help her in household chores and let her relax.. put the kids to bed early.. if the kids are awake till late in the night, you don’t get any time to spend.. overuse of social media/phone also kills lot of other interests.. low libido is very common after pregnancy in many women as their body went through lot of changes.. educate her and also yourself.. as long as you both work together, you will be fine.. 

https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/get-your-sex-life-back-after-baby

@Shameless baa is an expert in these things.. baa, plz help this guy with your awesome tips.. 

you both need your own personal time without kids baa...usually women like surprises and praises...take her out without kids...nuvvu vere vaallani choosthunattu emaina cliue dhorikithe anthe inka nee pani...inka full torture untadhi baa..

[Tellugodu]

4 hours ago, pavanjagan said:

jokes apart, may be developed girls istaaremo.

Now a days, chalamatuku MS ki vachina desi girls eestharu. Village ladies tho problem anthe.

[FrustratedVuncle]

5 hours ago, Jatka Bandi said:

Nope. They crave for attention and money. Sex is part of attention. You might have got boring with sex. You should get innovative. Adi kuda alochinchu. May be you are looking for your climax and not her's. So, she might have got bored. She may be looking for such pleasure from somewhere else if she is bold. If she is timid, she is getting that attention (not sex related. Overall attention) virtually through conversations with her friends. Andukane phone pattukuntundi. You start to spice up things and do not be a one minute noodle. Sex is about giving as well, not taking alone.

baa cheppakunda ilantivi ela telustai? adignapudu cheppali kada. 

No one can imagine and figure out problems in thin air. 

Naku telisi performance issues lev to my knowledge. Topic techinapudu kuda cheppakapothe I will never know. 

 

[Raja_Returns]

7 hours ago, Konebhar6 said:

Reverse psychology play cheyi. 

Act happy in front of her. Always whatsapp, phone lo busy ga kanapadu. Mee avida ninnu chusinappudu .. nuvvu phone vanka chustu musi musi navvulu navvu. Evaru ani adigithe edo joke ani cheppi pakkaku vellipoo. Ila message chesetappudu mee avani avoide chestunnatlu pakkakellu ... Phone adigithe enduku neeku ani cheppu. Evaranna phone cheste bayataki vellu or bathroom velli matladu...

Bharyalu edaina sahistharu .... kaani ... maga vaadi anandanni sahinchaleru ... Veedu denno tagulkunnadu ani fix avtharu... Workout avuddi ....

 

anna idea bagundi kani mogudu vere denni tagulukundu mari naku ame takkuva nenu kuda vere vadini tagulukunta anukunte situation enti mari.

[kevinUsa]

2 minutes ago, Raja_Returns said:

anna idea bagundi kani mogudu vere denni tagulukundu mari naku ame takkuva nenu kuda vere vadini tagulukunta anukunte situation enti mari.

 

thata exp tho telling kada

[FrustratedVuncle]

5 hours ago, sarfaroshi said:

Dont think other way, phone lone untundi annav ante....she is not liking her daily routine.

Go for holidays and go to romantic dates.

 

Weekends change kosam getaway book chesanu. went on road trips. kavalani ma atha ki oka room and for me and wifey double queen bed booked.

akkada kooda kids ni pakkane padukobettalsi vachindi. 

Kids lekunda dates and holiday trips kudaratledu and I think thats the only thing left. But low hopes cause unless she understands that chxless marriage is an issue, she might not even try to change the attitude or life style

[VictoryTDP]

2 minutes ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Weekends change kosam getaway book chesanu. went on road trips. kavalani ma atha ki oka room and for me and wifey double queen bed booked.

akkada kooda kids ni pakkane padukobettalsi vachindi. 

Kids lekunda dates and holiday trips kudaratledu and I think thats the only thing left. But low hopes cause unless she understands that chxless marriage is an issue, she might not even try to change the attitude or life style

slowly you will get used to this routine baa

[kevinUsa]

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