One kid or two kids beter

[krishnaaa]

1 kid best....they will have lots of close  friends and tend to be more successful. 

[JJoy]

Only one child...they become independent, focused, and confident. It's good to have all the time and affection for one kid as a parent.

The majority of us are closer to our friends than our siblings. So it's only normal to expect the next generation to have good friends. I really don't accept the notion, "Oh, if two children then they can be together for life." BS all the way. I haven't seen a lot of siblings that are close in prior generations. As they get older, they grow apart coz of differences, misunderstandings, money and competition. 
 

Final Verdict- One who has good friends. 🙂

[Iriswest]

20 hours ago, krishnaaa said:

1 kid best....they will have lots of close  friends and tend to be more successful. 

Idi narakam. I am the only child. Trust me. Nothing is good about being a single child.

[ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU]

20 hours ago, krishnaaa said:

1 kid best....they will have lots of close  friends and tend to be more successful. 

Vadhu bro 1 kid aythy kidnapping chances ekuva 

+ ne pellam boku aythy ne parents road medha padtharu

Atleast if your sibling spouse good will tc.

[krishnaaa]

21 minutes ago, Iriswest said:

Idi narakam. I am the only child. Trust me. Nothing is good about being a single child.

Why? Would like to hear your experience.

https://researchaddict.com/only-child-effects/#:~:text=An only child is just,even enjoy more career success.

 

[Iriswest]

13 minutes ago, krishnaaa said:

Why? Would like to hear your experience.

https://researchaddict.com/only-child-effects/#:~:text=An only child is just,even enjoy more career success.

 

Single children are more prone to lonliness and insecurities. They will often fall for all kinds of fake love and affection and get emotionally hurt far too many times than kids with siblings. Friends are only there upto a certain point. There should be someone who you share the biome with and who can understand your journey. Again it totally depends on the bonding that parents foster between siblings. 

[SRK_SRK]

2 kids

so that they always have someone to play or fight or share emotions/responsibility etc. ( Friends/cousins etc are always optional like uncle/aunt but siblings is like responsibility like parents).

1 boy and 1 gal  is best possible option

parents can experience both gender emotions and less comparisions/competition between them and more love towards each other.

 

[krishnaaa]

8 hours ago, Iriswest said:

Single children are more prone to lonliness and insecurities. They will often fall for all kinds of fake love and affection and get emotionally hurt far too many times than kids with siblings. Friends are only there upto a certain point. There should be someone who you share the biome with and who can understand your journey. Again it totally depends on the bonding that parents foster between siblings. 

I understand. You haven't experienced the other side of coin though.

Grass is always greener on the othe other side. It depends on your mindset.

[quest]

On 10/27/2023 at 5:06 PM, Konebhar6 said:

Its a dilemma. People with 1 kid feel like they should have had two. People with 2 kids say otherwise ... 

Kids who have 2 boys or 2 girls did not seem close to me. Always fight and when they grow up they have problems. Have seen numerous cases. I agree with @ooooantavamawa above. 

1 boy and a girl is the best!

2 girls is the 2nd best - they will be fine after they really grow up

2 boys are not ideal - they are meant to fight and live like enemies 

Single child is also ok but my preference is two

[manadonga]

Single kid is more dangerous 

i have 2  cousins who dont have siblings 

First one mor eplanned and focused lifestyle he will call all of our cousins because he want love and effecti

second one is very talented and stocks to kabbadi adatadu oka 200 cr dakansampdinchadu but no relation with  family no pelli eppudo 10 yra back maa parents chusaru vadini oka sari valla parents ye hyd lo ne vunna yearly once matrame kalustadu and oka 2 bed room flat alage vuntadu ante bayataki podu 

single kid is always dangerous