Define Toxic

[venky7]

13 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

I have a friend who tends to find a -ve thing even in the most +ve thing. I am amazed at his thinking. At times I hate to meet or talk to him. Eppudu kalsina first topic layoffs. House unna, pedda house ledu ani. Oka sari family trip YellowStone ki velthe, Car rental book cheskunnam. Vallu car ichinappudu he was unhappy. I thought they did not give good one. When we saw the Cars we got I was shocked. They were upgrades by a big margin. Ila chala unnai ... Nice person but too much -ve thinking ... 

bhayya one more thing to realize. they wont realize in a life time and happily ignore even though you can convey them in a understandable way. dont spare them a thought, if you still can't avoid just adopt fun.

[summer27]

jelousy, -vitiviy annee symptomps...toxic doesn't always mean these things..In fact if people are exhibiting this kind of behaviour its easy to figure and keep them away..

IMO, toxic relationships are very different. The person in toxic relationship doesn't even realize that they are being abused and sometimes they even think the other person is doing favor to them..Toxic people ensure that their partner/friend/team member can't live with them but also can't live without them. They screw you royally but at the same time keep doing little favors..

If you are feeling stressed everytime you meet or talk to someone, that relationship is toxic. people who are in contrl of toxic people won't even realize that they are cut off from the rest of the world...evadu emi cheppina vallaki artham kaadu..

[veerigadu]

Toxicity gurinchi simple gaaa cheppaliii antee....

They crave all positive emotions for themselves. And yet they have nothing but bad emotions when it comes to others. Sometimes even towards their own family members.

If you hear someone incessantly talking evil about others while expressing pity for themselves. They are toxic personified in every possible way. 

[Konebhar6]

7 minutes ago, venky7 said:

bhayya one more thing to realize. they wont realize in a life time and happily ignore even though you can convey them in a understandable way. dont spare them a thought, if you still can't avoid just adopt fun.

Nice dude in everything else.. I know telling them wont make a difference. I try to avoid these -ve topics or change topic or just brush aside things when we meet. He knows every one avoids him and not not include him while going for walks.

Iam sure he knows, but cant change.

[veerigadu]

33 minutes ago, dasari4kntr said:

toxic ki perfect example…naa team lo vunna bagaldesi pilla…

back bitching, coming late to meetings and office, don’t finish jiras in time, fridays all the time away status, secretly manipulating jira descriptions and story points, asking his friends to approve pull requests and merge the code behind my back, taking monday sick leaves continuousl, every sprint spill over jiras..

 

recent gaa 3 months pcp lo pedithe…tana problems cheppi edchindhi…sarle maarindemo anukunte…same behavior again…

Never met a single nice person from Bangladesh in my life. 

is it a coincidence? or is it a norm when it comes to those demographics. 

 

 

 

[Konebhar6]

We all complain about toxicity in others. But we all have some toxicity inside of us too. We should Introspect and get rid of it or atleast be aware and work on it.

[summer27]

1 minute ago, veerigadu said:

Never met a single nice person from Bangladesh in my life. 

is it a coincidence? or is it a norm when it comes to those demographics. 

 

 

 

I even find their cricket team toxic..

[enigmatic]

42 minutes ago, dasari4kntr said:

back bitching, coming late to meetings and office, don’t finish jiras in time, fridays all the time away status, secretly manipulating jira descriptions and story points, asking his friends to approve pull requests and merge the code behind my back, taking monday sick leaves continuousl, every sprint spill over jiras..

that is not toxic. that is being incompetent. very easy to deal with. we had an sr. principal architect who didn't know much, but would be rude to everyone, abuse everyone he could get away with. his boss had his back and his bosses boss was enabling it by simply overlooking it. 

[Android_Halwa]

Avutali vadini toxic anadame toxicity ki best example….

 

[enigmatic]

knew a lot of bangladeshis in masters. dongana kodukulu. pakistanis are better.  

[SaradaChinnodu]

9 minutes ago, Android_Halwa said:

Avutali vadini toxic anadame toxicity ki best example….

 

adenti bro...antha mata annav

[mustang302]

manaku ledhu antae evadiki lekunda chayyali anae behaviour unnodu is called a toxic person..simple words..sadistic jealous fellow...!!

[venky7]

33 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

Nice dude in everything else.. I know telling them wont make a difference. I try to avoid these -ve topics or change topic or just brush aside things when we meet. He knows every one avoids him and not not include him while going for walks.

Iam sure he knows, but cant change.

you seems more of me. even i cant avoid as a friend. sometimes i accept it as his nature and move on. one needs empathy. 

[Paamu]

29 minutes ago, Android_Halwa said:

Avutali vadini toxic anadame toxicity ki best example….

 

Alaa anaka pothe non toxic a andaru 

[Paamu]

Vaadi jealous ni, baadha ni mana meeda ruddadam, being selfish, pull  you into everything though u are not interested, comparisons and crying, goppa lu cheppukovadam ( indirectly telling neekanna goppa ani). 

Ivanni once a while ok ---- but oorike every time cheste toxic ane feeling ochestadi. Blame or trouble/abuse someone for own benefits.