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3 minutes ago, Ram27 said:

felli seskuni wife ki committed ga undalante.. tappadu.. idokkate chaaice mari 

slave ane selfish thought oste marriage ee seskokudadu..

marriage ante 100s of sacrifices untai mari 

avi cheyalenodu rgv la undipovali 

%$#$

Any relationship is give and take bases. If you always keep giving, at some point it strikes

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17 hours ago, siva604 said:

How to deal with these issues.. 

 Married couple of years ago. Wife and her parents find my parents and sisters insensitive. They could'nt  digest these ppl conversations. 

Asa result wife hardly speaks to my sisters. My sister did not invite wife to her house. Its all kinda mess. 

Wife does not like me helping my family financially.. She is ok with giving some money. 

My BIL (Akka's husband) arranged this match. Now that guy is complaining that my mavayya is not calling him.. 

I couldnt tell anything to anyone.. As i cant force relationship between ppl. I ve tried several times to connect ppl.. but ended up as failure.

Who z important now? 

Ofcourse my parents are in decent relationship with my inlaws.

 

My younder sister mentioned to my wife about her dream-- that my wife is gonna have dark baby.. Obviouly this resulted in rift btw them. 

I got married couple of yrs ago.. my elder sister & bava who arranged this match, dint even call my inlaws to their house.. citing that my mavayya never called my bava often..

I told my wife that I cannot completely leave my sisters.. If they call me ..I will answer..

My parents are in Ok relationship with my wife. 

My inlaws are good to me ..

Appreciate your comments and suggestions..  Thanks.

Nedi asalu problem ee kadu.

Only issue between ur wife and sisters. These issues will eventually fix once your family grows. Ladies madya rift ravatam common and time will resolve everything.

Your sisters are in USA? Do you have any other relatives in USA?

What is your preference?

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6 hours ago, AppatloBhutto said:

Any relationship is give and take bases. If you always keep giving, at some point it strikes

problem with spouse starts only when one thinks only about "wanting" in a relationship..

giving > wanting is the success mantra for a marriage..

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1 hour ago, Ram27 said:

problem with spouse starts only when one thinks only about "wanting" in a relationship..

giving > wanting is the success mantra for a marriage..

Bro.There are rare exceptions .  Nuvvu cheppedi vinatanike good. Reality lo every spouse goes through expectations. The  moment one realizes that they are only giving , marriage will be in trouble. 

 

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On 12/9/2018 at 3:13 PM, siva604 said:

How to deal with these issues.. 

 Married couple of years ago. Wife and her parents find my parents and sisters insensitive. They could'nt  digest these ppl conversations. 

Asa result wife hardly speaks to my sisters. My sister did not invite wife to her house. Its all kinda mess. 

Wife does not like me helping my family financially.. She is ok with giving some money. 

My BIL (Akka's husband) arranged this match. Now that guy is complaining that my mavayya is not calling him.. 

I couldnt tell anything to anyone.. As i cant force relationship between ppl. I ve tried several times to connect ppl.. but ended up as failure.

Who z important now? 

Ofcourse my parents are in decent relationship with my inlaws.

 

My younder sister mentioned to my wife about her dream-- that my wife is gonna have dark baby.. Obviouly this resulted in rift btw them. 

I got married couple of yrs ago.. my elder sister & bava who arranged this match, dint even call my inlaws to their house.. citing that my mavayya never called my bava often..

I told my wife that I cannot completely leave my sisters.. If they call me ..I will answer..

My parents are in Ok relationship with my wife. 

My inlaws are good to me ..

Appreciate your comments and suggestions..  Thanks.

Make sure your wife has a white kid and most of the problems will be solved 

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On 12/9/2018 at 3:13 PM, siva604 said:

How to deal with these issues.. 

 Married couple of years ago. Wife and her parents find my parents and sisters insensitive. They could'nt  digest these ppl conversations. 

Asa result wife hardly speaks to my sisters. My sister did not invite wife to her house. Its all kinda mess. 

Wife does not like me helping my family financially.. She is ok with giving some money. 

My BIL (Akka's husband) arranged this match. Now that guy is complaining that my mavayya is not calling him.. 

I couldnt tell anything to anyone.. As i cant force relationship between ppl. I ve tried several times to connect ppl.. but ended up as failure.

Who z important now? 

Ofcourse my parents are in decent relationship with my inlaws.

 

My younder sister mentioned to my wife about her dream-- that my wife is gonna have dark baby.. Obviouly this resulted in rift btw them. 

I got married couple of yrs ago.. my elder sister & bava who arranged this match, dint even call my inlaws to their house.. citing that my mavayya never called my bava often..

I told my wife that I cannot completely leave my sisters.. If they call me ..I will answer..

My parents are in Ok relationship with my wife. 

My inlaws are good to me ..

Appreciate your comments and suggestions..  Thanks.

Aythe complete telugu lo ayina raayi, lekapothe complete english lo ayina  raayi. ila worst sentence formation chesi andarani confuse cheshtunav..

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15 hours ago, AppatloBhutto said:

Cuz In reality one can’t just ignore. You can also only suppress the pain momentarily and they keep piling up. This would also lead to health problems if the issues are not addressed. 

priorities samara... if you have enough time... to worry.. yes it is hard to ignore.. if you are busy with your stuff.. you dont have time for all this nonsense

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1 hour ago, MDharmarajuMA said:

Aythe complete telugu lo ayina raayi, lekapothe complete english lo ayina  raayi. ila worst sentence formation chesi andarani confuse cheshtunav..

Sorry man! Its a big story.. He he

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On 12/9/2018 at 12:13 PM, siva604 said:

My younder sister mentioned to my wife about her dream-- that my wife is gonna have dark baby.

@3$%

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