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2 hours ago, rajivn786 said:

Yes it will be there if you expect something from them.. As long as you do with no bad intentions, it will slowly wear off.. Nothing we can do, I was angry, fear of failure, depressed, but slowly I am getting better , trying to forget...I am almost 37 now and it's tough to restart a life, but have to slowly...Yes it will be around 15-25 lakhs , driving her for residency and fellowship interviews as well...I just kept my job aside, cancelled my meetings, looked after her admin work , also took some of her online courses ...what not...It went right from ironing her scrubs to coooking, cleaning etc..The thing is you should never make yourself always available because it's human tendency to estimate anything that comes easily and free of cost. Even in-laws were like she is a doc, so I have to do everything..What will be do after 5PM?  After doing everything including recommending for Interviews as well (I have some connections) which was helpful in getting her fellowship seat as well after her residency, this is what I get...So I never expected anything in return and loved truly , so I feel like it's  love failure...The pain resides in the heart throughout life time as these memories will pop up wherever you go..You can divert your mind..but not heart and scars will be there as long as you live.

Avunu, connections chaala important. Meeru cheptundi naaku telusu(mee incident kaadu). Residency kosamey occhi, residency ocche varaku wait chesi occhina ventaney ditch. Malli antha own ga tecchukunnatey intlo vaalla daggara  build up.  Life lo edo oka point lo andaru realize avutharu maybe she'll also realize how she effed  everything up . Ikkada doctors circle lo okariki okaru easy ga  telustaru. True colors bayata padataayi

Enti andi meeru.... 37 ke  ila  antunnaru . Chinnappudu  school lo  1-2 yrs  ekkuva vesesaremo  kanukkondi  Intlo. 30s are the  new 20s :)

Don't feel disheartened, let it go and focus on your life. I know its easy for me to say, and you will only have to walk that path. Stay strong and carry on   💪 

 

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4 hours ago, riashli said:

Tanu vadileyadaniki reason enti? Kids unnara meeku? 

Antha smart unna ammayilu kids ante push back chestharu. Most likely no kids. She left because she had no reasons to stay. 

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23 hours ago, tennisluvrredux said:

Why didn't you approach the courts proving all the money you spent on her and how she conveniently divorced you after she didn't need any more monetary support from you? 

Nope, infact he may need to give her alimony and give 50% of his property... That's how it works... Unless he can prove her fault like cheating

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22 minutes ago, hunkyfunky2 said:

Nope, infact he may need to give her alimony and give 50% of his property... That's how it works... Unless he can prove her fault like cheating

If it's indian courts, the case is even more hopeless. Indian courts just assume by default that women are victims, even if they are earning and can sustain themselves, they ll make the husband pay alimony. Recent ga one of my friends wife used Disha act to sue him for absolutely ridiculous reasons ( he is not even at fault to begin with, she was behaving like the girl in this particular story) alantivi use cheste inka exit clause kuda undadu. 

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1 hour ago, Ellen said:

If it's indian courts, the case is even more hopeless. Indian courts just assume by default that women are victims, even if they are earning and can sustain themselves, they ll make the husband pay alimony. Recent ga one of my friends wife used Disha act to sue him for absolutely ridiculous reasons ( he is not even at fault to begin with, she was behaving like the girl in this particular story) alantivi use cheste inka exit clause kuda undadu. 

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On 9/14/2021 at 6:07 AM, vidhya said:

Sorry.. em anukovaddu ila adugutunna ani . Meeku kopam ravatleda? Anni untaayi kada, steps ki raasinappudu fee, residency interviews velleppudu ayinavi anni untaayi kada, money gurinchi kaadu kaani...

 

20 hours ago, DummyVariable said:

Antha smart unna ammayilu kids ante push back chestharu. Most likely no kids. She left because she had no reasons to stay. 

Yeah no kids, even  I felt that was a trap too..She pushed on saying that she cant see the kids. I beleived in her and obviously we all beleive our wives right..That was a mistake...Currently separated , her parents also stopped lifting calls, most likely divorce in Dec...She is not responding and completley blocked everything...

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